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Nasty Habits -- one of this season's best Once Upon a Time episodes.

TV Review: ‘Once Upon a Time’ – ‘Nasty Habits’

What a terrible place poor Rumplestiltskin (Robert Carlyle) is in during this week’s fabulous Once Upon a Time episode “Nasty Habits.” He is trying so desperately to do the right thing, to make a decision not based on his self interest but in the noblest of intentions. With his beloved son Baelfire (Michael Raymond James) presumed dead, Rumple feels he has nothing to live for and is willing (more than willing) to sacrifice his own life to the prophecy that “the boy will be his undoing” and save Henry. But can he do it.DYLAN SCHMID, ROBERT CARLYLE

In an exclusive interview with Blogcritics, the writer of this week’s episode David Goodman explained that “Mr. Gold is trying to save Henry, and he has basically determined that he is going to sacrifice his life and do whatever it takes to defeat Pan and to save him. Because he believes he has nothing to live for because Neal has died.”

(More of my interview with David can be found here.)

But the situation is turned on its head when Mr. Gold learns that Baelfire (Dylan Schmid) is quite alive. “And in the context of learning Neal is alive,” Goodman said, “we have to ask ourselves, well, is Gold now willing to sacrifice his life? You know, if we said he had nothing to live for when Neal is gone, now that he knows Neal is there, maybe he does have something to live for. And if he does have something to live for, would he consider letting [Peter] Pan (Robbie Kay) have Henry (Jared S. Gilmore), and not doing the righteous thing?”

And that is the question we’re left with at the end of the episode. Has the wind gone out of Rumple’s sails after learning he does, in fact, have his son to live for? On the other hand, with Baelfire not at all trusting his father, is such a noble sacrifice all that Rumple has left to offer?

“Belle says early in the episode,” explained Goodman, “that Rumple has a nasty habit of craven self-interest, and that’s a hard habit for him to break. And in the episode, Neal learns about the prophecy, which is something that he didn’t know before. And as a result, Neal has a very hard time believing that his dad is going to do the right thing.”

But Belle does — or at least Rumple’s vision of her does. And will that be enough?

In the end, it’s really about whether Neal can trust Rumple, and it seems that, no, he can’t. But Neal hasn’t got the answer either, and when he paralyzes Rumple and takes Henry, he immediately gets captured by Pan.

The episode, according to Goodman only “shows us part of [the Rumple-Pan] backstory together, and also makes it very clear that their backstory goes back even further in time than this episode. This is kind of a middle episode for us, and it definitely kind of teases a little bit more the idea of what was this original history between these two.”

Goodman added, “I think the audience knows that Gold wants to do the right thing. And it’s this awful situation where the audience knows he wants to do the right thing, he knows he wants to do the right thing, but the person he cares most about doesn’t believe he’s going to do the right thing. So I think, yeah, it’s like the nobility in that character, and knowing that he’s struggling to do what’s right, is super-interesting.”

Once Upon a Time has always been about belief and believing — in something. I think in order to prevail against the truly evil Peter Pan and his Pied Piper alter ego (the great young Robbie Kay), each of the characters has their belief systems challenged. The question is, will they meet up to that challenge?

“All of our characters, all of the characters that we’ve seen that have come to Neverland, really are going to have to sort of face themselves as much as they have to face Peter Pan. And whether that’s Mr. Gold in this episode or our other characters coming up, Pan really has shaped up as a villain that holds a mirror up to these characters and makes them stare at themselves in the face, and stare at their weakness and stare at their strengths,” Goodman offered.

“Nasty Habits” continues the season-long Once Upon a Time exploration of belief. In a land based on belief, where the enemy seeks to possess the heart of the truest believer in Henry, Belief is everything. Emma (Jennifer Morrison) must believe in herself, as evidenced in “Lost Girl.” Mr. Gold as well must believe that he can overcome his fear (which is really at the core of his insistent choice of self-interest) and lack of confidence.

The three abandoned, presumed-to-be unloved children, the “lost” of Once Upon Time are the only ones who can save Henry, I think. And this is where the narrative is headed. Each character is challenged, and each must face him or herself in the end to prevail.

The parallel paths: Emma’s, Neal’s, and Gold’s continue this sort of classic heroic journey, each with its own persecutors and mentors. In “Nasty Habits,” Belle (Emilie de Ravin) is Gold’s mentor and the one who believes in him when he cannot believe in himself. At his core, Gold is a lost boy: self-protective, wary of belief in anyone but himself because through his young life, eons ago, he was betrayed in the most fundamental way: abandonment by his father (and presumably also by his mother). Pan derides Gold with the truth, which rattles him to his bones — and sets up further conflict with Baelfire. Pan is indeed a formidable, psychological enemy — a demon of self.

In the end, confronted with the truth and a choice, Belle tells him in a vision that he can overcome himself; he can be the strong man — the noble man — she knows him to be. But Gold isn’t sure, and clutching the little doll, the last thing his father gave him before he vanished, he is at a crossroads. And one only he can navigate.

I loved this episode. It’s not secret that I’m a huge fan of Rumple’s narrative, and I find his story and his character to possess the most complexity of any of the characters on the show. And this episode in particular lays out in high relief the inherent conflict within him: is the dark one, always seeking what’s best for himself? Is he the little lost boy, terrified of what lies ahead, wary in the extreme of trusting anyone? Is he the noble man who seeks nothing more than to overcome his father’s legacy (and his own) of abandoning those nearest to him? The man who injures himself in the Ogre so his son would not suffer the fate of growing up fatherless — even if it means saddling himself with the label of coward in to eternity?

At the end of “Nasty Habits” we still do not know.

There are numerous memorable moments in “Nast Habits.” The two scenes between Rumple and Belle are heartbreaking and beautifully done as Belle tries to bolster her beloved. But Rumple knows she is but a vision, and not real. When he tells her that he expects her “real self” to move past him, presume him dead and go on to her own life, it is incredibly revealing. I think Rumple is not only willing to sacrifice himself for Baelfire, but also for Belle. As long as he is alive, Belle will go on loving him. If he dies, she has no choice but to move on with her life and forget him. It is as if he realizes all too well, that despite his love for her, he is toxic and she will be better served without him!

I also loved Rumple warpaint. It’s an interesting mask he chooses, but perhaps the only one available to him. The solemnity of that scene speaks of Rumple’s resolve and how much he knows it will cost him. Carlyle is simply brilliant in that small, wordless moment.

And then there is the reunion scene! Bae and Rumple together. Powerful emotions, and there is nothing Rumple can do to prove to Bae that he can be trusted. I think Rumple will have to simply do what he has to do and hope for the best. He had done far too much damage to their relationship (and all the years that has festered) for it to be repaired by a vow. In that way, Bae and Emma are similar. She can’t quite forgive the abandonment of her own parents — and they are the “good guys!”

We see in this episode, perhaps more than in any other what it has cost Rumple to be the Dark One. The Enchanted Forest scenes (and the early Neverland scenes) show us that despite his love for Bae, he cannot help being the Dark One. But even as early “Dark One” at his most ruthless, that scene where Rumple is sitting on his roof desolate and alone makes us feel nothing but sympathy for him.

What a great episode! Kudos to David Goodman for a wonderful script, and to the amazing Robert Carlyle for giving us such depth to a character who could be unlikeable, but continues to surprise us week after week.

David Goodman will be visiting with me again after his next episode (episode eight), live on my Blogtalk Radio show, Let’s Talk TV Live, which airs Monday nights at 9:00 p.m. ET. Tune in tonight for more on Once Upon a Time with my fellow Blogcritics writers JeromeWetzelTV and RHeart Chrissy. Be sure to follow me on Twitter for the latest on Once Upon a Time and more.


About Barbara Barnett

A Jewish mother and (young 🙃) grandmother, Barbara Barnett is an author and professional Hazzan (Cantor). A member of the Conservative Movement's Cantors Assembly and the Jewish Renewal movement's clergy association OHALAH, the clergy association of the Jewish Renewal movement. In her other life, she is a critically acclaimed fantasy/science fiction author as well as the author of a non-fiction exploration of the TV series House, M.D. and contributor to the book Spiritual Pregnancy. She Publisher/Executive Editor of Blogcritics, (

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  1. This was a great character study type of episode. While I thought the interaction between Neal and Rumple could have been better written (don’t we want men to show deep emotions too?), it was done well enough. Carlyle was once again magnificent. Dylan and Michael Raymond James did a good job as the young and present day Bae. James was particularly good in showing the angst, the distrust that he has for his father and yet you can tell that deep down, he still wants to trust and love his father. They are really lost boys, in their own way. Perhaps when Neal understands that his father too was abandoned they can finally truly start to heal the fractured relationship. It’s fascinating to see how each of them cling to their son(s) as their hope for happiness. Each will do everything to protect their child. Both make mistakes, in pride born of distrust and abandonment.
    I really think that undoing (as in prophecy) may actually mean that Rumple will finally learn to trust himself, to go beyond the feeling of being abandoned and unloved. This has been the millstone around his neck since we have known Rumple. Cowardice born of being afraid to be alone can be a horrible thing. The doll is an allegory to this abandonment. As long as Rumple clings to the past, remembering the pain of being alone, he can never truly be the man that he is destined to be. So he has the doll to remind him of this bitter past. When Belle told him to basically leave the doll behind, it’s not the doll that she is talking about (though Rumple mistakes her entreaties for that). It’s about finally accepting that the past is not always the prelude to the present, that the past is not the harbinger of the future. When Rumple finally understands that love and trust is always available as long as you believe in them, the misery and pain (and accompanying fear) that has enveloped him for all his life will finally be gone. It will be a necessary part of his redemption. In forgiveness, he will find the burden of being unloved undone.
    I really like the way Belle is serving as Rumple’s conscience. It is also remarkable to hear Rumple say to his son that he is his happy ending. I think the words that Rumple is able to say now would not have been possible without Belle, who is capable of easing his pain and making him a better man. He can’t totally accept her yet (thus his dalliance with Lacy). His journey is a long, ardous one. And the most fascinating one in OUAT land. That OUAT was able to get an actor of Carlyle’s abilities to play this role is a treat for everyone. This man deserves an Emmy.
    Hook has finally grown on me. He too, it seems, may also be a lost boy. I just have one thing to say to the writers. Emma belongs with Neal. So that scene on the prview with Hook and Emma was just not good. So glad that Charming had the b?lls to tell Hook what’s on his mind.
    This has been OUATs best season so far. I can’t wait to see if Mulan and Robin ends up joining the rest of the cast in Storybrooke. More than that, though, watching Carlyle reveal Rumple’s story is a treat for everyone who loves great storytelling executed in the best possible way. A great character made alive by a great actor.
    So, I have one more question. What (and who) is Tinl’s happy ending?
    I will end this by saying that Robbie Kay is amazing! What a great young actor. His Pan had redefined how many people will view Peter Pan.

    • I agree! Carlyle is the best. He’s an amazing actor and never fails to surprise me with new levels of characterization he finds in Rumple!

      Robbie Kay is terrific as Pan. Perfect casting and a wonderful young actor.

      I really loved this episode and look forward to see what’s next.

  2. I thought this was a great episode, wonderful character study. I thought the interaction between Rumple and Neal was nicely done, especially, given the fact that these episodes (if you take away the commercials) are only 45 minutes at the most; there’s a lot to squeeze in. It was heartbreaking to watch Rumple’s inner struggle, and seeing Neal (after learning about the prophecy) practically push his father away was very sad. Personally, I thought what Neal did to Rumple was a bit rash; I understand that he doesn’t trust him, he’s done so many terrible things as the Dark One, but they’re in a situation where they need to put their differences aside and cooperate, and we saw the result of Neal’s distrust with him getting captured by the Lost Boys and Henry getting brainwashed by Pan. I am loving this season of OUAT, I can’t wait to see the next episode. I’m actually looking forward to the Captain Swan (Emma + Hook) kiss, in season 2 I thought they had a lot of chemistry. I also hope they continue with Mulan and Robin’s story, and give Belle a story of her own (I love how the writers are using Belle as a mentor/guardian angel for Rumple, but I’m still curious about what’s going to happen in Storybrooke). With that said here are my questions:

    Do you think Rumple, after everything that has happened, will be able to rebuild his relationship with his son?

    I read an article about Belle’s arc in this season. Do you think there’s more to vision Belle than what the writers led the viewers to believe?

    I think Emma has a lot of chemistry with Hook, and I like the fact that Emma is not one to swoon for Hook’s good looks. From what I’ve seen in season 2 she is quite blunt with him (as she is with everyone). I know she still has feelings for Neal, but he did abandon her in “Tallahassee” and I don’t think she has forgiven him for that. Do you think Emma should be with Hook or rekindle her relationship with Neal once he reveals himself to the crew of Operation Henry?

    • Do you think Rumple, after everything that has happened, will be able to rebuild his relationship with his son?

      I sure hope so. Look what Rumple has done in the name of love. It’s fascinating to see this character — pure emotion. Love dominates (look what he has done in the name of it — even the destructive things?). I do hope they can rebuild their relationship. I think without it, Rumple will be even more lost than he already is.

      read an article about Belle’s arc in this season. Do you think there’s more to vision Belle than what the writers led the viewers to believe?

      Perhaps. I really love that Belle is R’s anchor in this story arc. I’m willing to go where it takes me. That he conjured Belle to be his tether in this very difficult phase of his life is incredibly potent.

      Do you think Emma should be with Hook or rekindle her relationship with Neal once he reveals himself to the crew of Operation Henry?

      Aww. I hope Emma and Neal get together. She’s never stopped loving him (as she said). I think that kiss with Hook has another agenda

  3. One last comment: I think Peter Pan (Robbie Kay) is an excellent villain 🙂