I brought my five-year-old nephew to see ParaNorman and he thoroughly enjoyed the film. Although he was a bit scared at times (as it was refreshingly spookier than what we usually find in children’s movies nowadays), he joined the gang on the adventure and shared their surprise at each new twist in the story. He was disgusted by the rage of the ignorant mob of adults and sympathized with the innocent victims who bore the mental and physical violence of their wrath.
And yes, he caught the small part about the fact that one of the characters was a homosexual. He thought it was a cute joke—as it was meant to be. He was not confused by the fact that there was a gay character, nor was he shocked by the fact that the other characters did not bat an eyelash at the revelation—and he certainly did not question his own sexuality on the ride home (which many right-wing parent groups have raised concerns about).
To be clear, not all children will be as understanding about this fact— but to be fair, my nephew was not raised to be a bigot. He is fully aware that the world is made up of an amazing variety of people. From the beginning, he was taught that just as there are people who dress differently and listen to different types of music than he does, there are also people of other races, religions, and sexual orientation than his own. We do not have to teach him to be okay with this, because he was never taught not to be okay with it in the first place.
As adults, we look back on our childhood and wonder how we could have been so cruel to others. As societies age, they look back the generations that came before them and wonder how they could have been so blind—how people could have allowed such injustices to happen to their fellow man, or worse, could have been a part of it, themselves. Though these hate groups never seem to realize it at the time and wholeheartedly believe that what they are doing is for the greater good, you do not have to be psychically gifted to realize that all they are doing is perpetuating fear and hatred in the world and ensuring that it will always remain that way.
As the movie shows, seldom does society learn from their past mistakes and instead commits the same horrific acts over and over under different guises, always leading humanity one step closer to its own destruction. And, although the movie sends a message that it is never too late to change and to accept others, it also issues a warning that there is some damage that can never be undone, no matter how badly you regret it later on. This film asks you to put yourself in the place of those who have been brutally persecuted for innocently leading their lives— and it sincerely hopes for a different and better future for your children.





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Article comments
1 - Heather K.
Great article! I saw Paranorman and thought it was an excellent movie. After reading your article I can see the theme of tolerance more clearly, in the movie. I hope that parents can see this movie for what it is, with all the beautiful lessons in it. Maybe they need to read your article to show them the way! :-)
2 - Candice O
What an amazing article!!! I wish your review could be passed out at the end of the movie. It would make people stop and think. Awesome review:)
3 - Jamie S.
Beautifully written article and so accurate in describing the ignorance that is so commonly portrayed from people. Definitely wish those parents and close minded people would read this so they can understand the importance of issues like those described in the article and be POSITIVE role models for their kids and others.
4 - Victoria
Great article Stephanie!!! I never had an interest to see this movie until now. I wonder if the right wing parent groups are aware of the nursery rhyme " Rub-a-dub-dub 3 men in a tub". What did they really think was going on there???? Lol....keep writing! You are awesome!
5 - Brian McLean
Great Review. Thank you!
6 - El Bicho
I enjoyed your article
7 - Alyssa Backhaus
I really enjoyed reading this, it was well written and (most importantly) incredibly passionate. The topic is just in time for Coming Out Week!Good work, can't wait to read more!
8 - Heidi
With a limited amount of time and funds, I am never sure how to prioritize the best way to sound my family time and dollars. Articles such as this one are a great help to me! Thank you for your insight.