There are so many things for kids to do today. And I know that they are as A.D.D. as we are now, with all the lights, sounds, and screens we have to look at. But I really feel it's important to keep things simple. We try to limit TV time, there are lots of books in the house, and I hope to teach my daughter as many domestic things as possible. When she is ready to knit, I will be ready; I'm learning to sew now so when the time comes, I can teach her. My mother was very creative and made lots of things. I just don't know that it ever occurred to her to teach me these as well.
The other day I had my little tutu girl help me out in the kitchen. Well, she's really just small enough yet to sit on a stool and get into everything. But she looks cute doing it. I realized that when I use my stand mixer she points up and pays attention to the sound but doesn't really have any idea what is going on. So, I thought she deserved a closer look. She is 19 months old now so she can handle it.
I propped her up (in her tutu) on a stool and begged her not to move. We made some icing for a cake and boy did she get into that. I actually caught her sneaking the spatula and licking some for herself. Glad she liked it (and it made for a great camera moment), but I was trying to do something and I needed a little cooperation. I could hear my mom in my head: "I've got to get this done," "You're too little," "You're in the way"—but I had to block the voices.
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1 - Tasha
First of all, I must say- how adorable! That image captures the innocence of who we, as adults, are at heart. It seems as though your passion for teaching your daughter may stem from the yearning to learn yourself! Your words reveal that you truly are pushing yourself to learn first, so that you can teach your daughter what your mother may not have taught you. Whether your mother had a lack of patience or tolerance, one thing is clear to me- you are eager to teach what you were not taught. If your daughter is only 19 months old, then you can expect to have a gourmet chef by the time she's in her teens! Kudos for your eagerness. On a different note, make sure that as she learns and grows that she is given the space to be an individual in the midst of all of the domestic learning. Great blog!
2 - Retro Mod Momma
You are exactly right! And very kind words. Thanks so much. I am trying hard but you're right about the other end too. I could easily smother. I could see myself being disappointed if she didn't like any of that stuff. Who knows? I must say that there were a few moments growing up that I can remember not being interested. Not that she offered to teach and I said "no" but wasn't into it. Ya know?
Definitely things to look out for. Thanks so much. I'm excited to write more. My actual blog has more. Thanks again.