I am wondering if my Pisces sister is ever going to make an effort to have a decent relationship with me. She has unrealistic expectations, and is always consumed with jealousy. We have brief periods where I can see a glimmer of hope that things will work out. But then she turns cold, petty, and vindictive again.
Should I toss in the towel or keep on trying?
Sister Giving Up
You can toss in the towel, but if you want to keep trying, you’d better try something new, eh? And the astrology here is pretty interesting.
I think you have more in common with you sister than you imagine. Both of your have enormous challenges in relationships and they’re more similar than not. Surprised? I bet. Because if you re-read your post up there, you might notice something.
The post is all about you pointing the finger at her. She’s the whole shadow and what are you? Pristine? That does not compute! I’m not saying she’s not jealous, cold, petty, etc. I bet she is. But where is your hand in this?
See, both of you have Venus in your chart, jacked up by both Saturn and Pluto. Both of you. So this story where she is the witch, and you are all pleasant – well, I think it’s an erroneous one. And I’m not trying to be mean, I’m trying to do my job, okay?
If you want a better relationship with your sister, I would stop making lists of what’s wrong with her. Instead make a list of what you have in common with her, because believe me, it’s a long one. And at that point, you may have some compassionate feelings not only for your sister, but for yourself… and a whole new tack to take, the next time you talk to her.
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