I wanted your last image of me to be one of Obama-style hope and not of me sitting in downtown Detroit’s famed Lafayette Coney Island eating four chili dogs and chili cheese fries while nursing a wicked hangover after my friend’s bachelor party. Had I written this during my trip to Detroit, you would have seen a man that seemingly had lost his bearings, taking three straight weeks off, unapologetic for the havoc and regression he was causing his body.
And I am still unapologetic about that. I enjoyed myself.
But that wasn’t where this ended. It couldn’t have been, because that provides no link from the Fortress to the next step of the process. So here I am, writing a little after noon on Wednesday, and my body is so sore I can barely keep my arms on the desk to type. I am feeling hungry after my Cheerios this morning, yet I am fulfilled because I woke up promptly at 9:30 a.m. (as opposed to noon., which was my previous schedule) and went right to the gym to — get this — lift weights.
My abs are sore, my arms nearly lifeless, and my shoulders virtually unshruggable. I began on Monday, the day after my return, maxing out on bench press, and going through a thorough upper-body workout. Tuesday, I returned to the gym for an elliptical workout that lasted a mere 15 minutes because, well, after three weeks off, I have to start all over.
And then Wednesday I fought off the soreness and lifted again. And I’ll do the same Friday after a cardio workout on Thursday. I’ve always talked about focus, and I can tell you that my mind is dead-set about committing to lifting weights, reshaping my body, and looking how I want to look as opposed to just weighing what I want to weigh.
Over the six full months the Fortress encompassed, I went from 299 pounds down to 259. That’s not a bad accomplishment for half a year. Though I didn’t get to the goal weight of 240, I still hold my head high in victory, because it was a huge step for me to push myself further than I have ever been.
But there is work to do yet, and I am committed to doing it. I will no longer work on timelines, no more hard set goals to fall short of. I just want to ease my way into this way of life and avoid being one of the many weight losers who gain their pounds back within a few years.








Article comments
1 - Kevin
Good luck buddy-we'll be with you every step, encouraging.
2 - RJ Elliott
Best of luck in the future, Dan.
3 - Christopher Rose
I hope that works out for you Dan, although sometimes the discipline of fessing all so publicly as you have been doing can be enough to keep you on the yellow brick road...
4 - Jordan Richardson
Good luck to you, sir.
5 - Gigi
Thanks for letting us know you hadn't dropped off the planet. Best Wishes and Luck in your new solitary path. You will be missed : ) Gigi
6 - alexandria jackson
Sorry I dropped off the planet. However, I want you to know that I thought of you often (and the wondrous bachelor party that I wanted to attend). You sound like you have a healthy balance now - all across the board. I know you'll find that cute girl across the room. I hope she looks like Selma. I can't wait for your next series. I will be your eternal cheerleader for having the balls to put yourself out there to motivate the rest of us. Enjoy your new self confidence!