Do You Know If Your Friends Are Armed And Would It Matter? - Page 3

Now, for those of you who say that you've never encountered any of these situations, I say great, I hope that you never do, but how many people may have died simply because there was no one there with a gun to help change the outcome?  For those people it's too late to consider the option. I am not advocating gun ownership, but if you are considering it I suggest you ask yourself two basic questions. First, "am I afraid of guns?" If so, go to the local range and take some lessons on safety and handling, even if you decide that carrying is not for you, you can still have a great time at the range.  The next question should be "am I capable of taking a life if it comes down to it?" If the answer is no then don't ever touch a gun except on the range. Because you don't care for carrying is not a reason to exclude yourself from releasing some pressure and having a good time at the range. Guns are not only for killing.

I’m not going to try to turn your head around, just giving a bit of perspective you may have missed.  And I'm not telling you anything else to consider other than if you even think about owning a weapon to carry, don’t just get one and stick it in your belt. It will probably get you arrested or worse, killed. Take a good class on carrying a concealed weapon and apply for your permit.  

Those who are just looking for a reason to pull a weapon like dirty Harry, you should never have a gun, for those who have children, besides all other criteria, you had best have a very secure safe and never leave any weapon of any sort around the house, and last but not least, for those who like to drink heavily or do drugs, for Christ’s sake do not ever touch a gun. You’re the type who decides it’s cool to play Russian roulette.

Guns can be extremely dangerous but so can an automobile, a butcher knife, or any number of items that could potentially be used as a weapon. You may also keep in mind that a responsible person concealing a weapon may well someday save your life from one of the hundreds of thousands out there who don’t give a shit about laws, permits, or proper gun safety. A person who concienciously carries a gun and has gone through proper handling and safety classes may be a real asset in a dangerous moment.

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  • 1 - troll

    Nov 15, 2006 at 9:15 am

    how do you counter claims that accidental gun deaths and round the bend wack job massacres probably outweigh any actual self defense benefits of easily available guns - ?

    best never to forget that stupidity is also a god given right

    (sorry to hear about the ticker...look into diet*ary supplemen*tation with omega 3 fatty acids and coenzime Q 10)

  • 2 - troll

    Nov 15, 2006 at 9:19 am

    (sheesh - lungs I mean)

  • 3 - Peter J

    Nov 15, 2006 at 10:35 am

    That's ok, thanks Troll,
    this is one of those subjects that you can find any kind of supporting data depending on your frame of mind when searching. As far as wack jobs, all the laws in the world won't stop someone, (mostly men for some ungodly reason, how frikkin embarrassing is that?) from buying a gun on the streets and climbing a tower or going to school.
    I seem to end up on the Education and control side of these subjects.( guns, drugs, alcohol,etc.)
    Obviously laws stop nothing except from law abiding citizens. With that in mind, you've taken away a tool of self defense from an educated, lawful person. Now the bad guys feel as though they have not a thing to worry about since the most he'll encounter is a baseball bat. I'll take my .45 over a bat any day.
    As far as accidents go, there will always be stupid people around(see my link on CHILDREN)
    This is why I believe above all else that someone who is going to buy a gun lawfully should have classes on safety and handling and a certificate of proof with the application. This is the procedure here in Fl. but I believe the classes should be more comprehensive, focussing more on "can I kill? and use on several types of weapons, drawing the weapon and handling. Believe it or not, if you have a gun on your person that's not accessible without twisting and searching and drawing attention ,well...
    Guns will always be there, education will make them safer than an automobile.
    This site will give statistics reflected in every case study I could find for here in Florida, except for blogs whith writers pulling numbers out of their ass without any verification
    Peter

  • 4 - handyguy

    Nov 15, 2006 at 10:48 am

    You sound like a very responsible person, Peter. But I can't help wondering whether there are several thousand technically law-abiding people with poorer judgment and self-control than you carrying guns...and if so, I don't think they add anything to the safety of the rest of us. And even nice guys can lose their tempers.

    My main problem with the gun lobby and 2nd-amendment supporters comes with their insistence on keeping other kinds of weapons legal and available...assault rifles, etc. Legitimate hunting weapons, fine. Personal handguns, well, they make me nervous, but if you can convince me there's a way to ensure as many as possible of the people who have them are trained in their proper and safe use, maybe OK. Lotta ifs there, though.

    And don't a lot of legal guns make their way into the criminal world? Is there a way to staunch that flow?

  • 5 - Les Slater

    Nov 15, 2006 at 10:53 am

    My father hunted, and a variety of rifles, shotguns and pistols were around the house. Neither the guns nor ammunition were secured. I used to play with them when my parents weren’t home.

    I used to hunt with my father and my uncle from about when I was 12.

    I empathize with your story about the flat tire.

    I don’t think calling 911 would solve the situation either.

    It is interesting to note that the gun did not have to be fired. I also have doubt that the dog understood the significance of the gun.

    The kids and the car? My experience is that those that look frightened are easy targets. Witnessing the backing off of the dog, probably one or both having a tire iron or something similar, would incline them to pass this one up.

  • 6 - Christopher Rose

    Nov 15, 2006 at 11:03 am

    The only new perspective I got from this article is that Rottweilers can apparently recognise guns and obey commands from people weilding them. Impressive stuff...

    As someone who learned to handle a diverse range of weapons as a 16-year old soldier neither guns nor the prospect of being left with no choice but to shoot somebody bother me particularly and, were I living in contemporary USA, I'd almost certainly have one.

    That said, I'm really glad to be living in Europe where the sight of a gun, except when carried by the police or the military, is still quite a rare thing.

  • 7 - Christopher Rose

    Nov 15, 2006 at 11:06 am

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  • 8 - Dave Nalle

    Nov 15, 2006 at 11:15 am

    I usually carry a shotgun in my truck - it's almost required here in Texas. But I've never felt the need to carry a personal handgun, despite having one.

    I do from time to time carry a friend around who has a permit to carry concealed and I assume that he does, and it neither concerns me, nor does it give me a huge extra boost of confidence in my safety.

    With the concealed carry law here in Texas criminals are in the habit of assuming that most people are carrying guns - especially middle aged white guys in pickups - so they tend to leave you alone. And that's the whole point.

    The gun doesn't have to always be present for its potential presence to have benefits.

    Dave

  • 9 - troll

    Nov 15, 2006 at 11:21 am

    when I go to a job in the wilds here in the rockies I load my pistol with snake shot - additionally I carry a load to put down a suffering animal

  • 10 - Snarkattack

    Nov 15, 2006 at 11:28 am

    It is indeed a luxury to be able to assume that none of my friends, acquaintances, or even passers-by will be armed.

    After the Port Arthur massacre, they sort of got rid of what few guns people were allowed to have here in Australia. Personally, I've only ever seen guns on guards in the Philippines, two years ago.

    Do you think when the Constitution said 'bear arms' they meant one has the right have arms as hairy as a bear? Or perhaps the secretary heard incorrectly and whosoever said 'the right to bear arse'.

    I mean no disrespect, just being flippant.

  • 11 - MCH

    Nov 15, 2006 at 11:47 am

    "As someone who learned to handle a diverse range of weapons as a 16-year old soldier neither guns nor the prospect of being left with no choice but to shoot somebody bother me particularly and, were I living in contemporary USA, I'd almost certainly have one."
    - CR

    Chris,
    You were in the service?

  • 12 - Peter J

    Nov 15, 2006 at 12:07 pm

    Handyguy, I agree that you can't count on an angry person pulling a weapon but that sort of person with that much poor judgement probably doesn't concern himself with a permit anyway.
    I have been provoked a few times and the first thing I do when I feel I'm losing my temper is to hand the gun to someone I trust if there is someone about. If it's come to that and I'm alone (if it feels it's going to come to a fight situation) I would tell the person I'm armed and would have to make a move before anything went down.. As I said, I'm pretty knowlegable in streetfighting and it would work great for about the first 30 to 40 seconds and I wouldn't be breathing much. I'd be in a life or death situation, as I'm sure would be the case for many people.
    As far as putting guns on the street, I would never sell a gun to someone I didn't know and have had to turn down several people who have asked to borrow one at times.

    Les, you sound pretty much like my situation, as far as the dogs go I've thought the same thing about a show of force but when you have 2 smaller dogs on a leash I wouldnt want to be fidget fuckun around smacking one of my dogs had he advanced.

    Christopher, When did the police in Europe start carrying? I thought they pretty much depended on batons?

    Hey Dave, that's the whole point.
    As time goes on it's assumed that everyone may be carrying a gun, making bad guys more apt to fuck off. These people are always chicken shit fools who prey on the weak and timid but if they believe there may be retaliation they back off.

    Troll, It must be a great job that takes you out to the Rockies, no place better than with very few people. It's a good guy who's concerned about animals suffering.
    Unfortunately I've known too many hunters who take a shot knowing they're only going to wound and track. More people who give guns a bad name.

  • 13 - Christopher Rose

    Nov 15, 2006 at 12:15 pm

    MCH: Yes, British Army, 2 years, didn't see active service, didn't like it, too many orders for this little rebel!

    Peter J: That's pretty much just the British police as far as I know. They're funny, those island folk!

    Here on the mainland, pretty much all the police are packing. In Spain, there are three different police forces, Local, National and the Guardia Civil, and they're all armed.

  • 14 - Peter J

    Nov 15, 2006 at 12:31 pm

    I love flippant, it used to get me smacked in the head by the nuns on a daily basis when I was a boy,(seems about a hundred years ago rather than 50)

    I don't know what happened in this country that kept it so volatile. I,m not a cultural psychologist. But maybe it's because , historically we're like dog years. we're only 2 yrs old.

    We're a bunch of spoiled brats, always trying to get over on "Mommy" with no real regard for anyone but ourselves.
    We can't even recognize who or what we are politically so we find a clic with, not necessarily the same beliefs, but in the same vein as our own tantrums; "you like Bush, I hate Bush so fuck-off". Nevermind that you both agree on every other issue 100%. What is that? It's childish ignorance. "I'll hold my breath till I turn blue if you don't like abortions, ,,I'll blow you up if you do,,I have too much regard for life to abide with abortions"

    We have a lot of growing pangs to contend with yet, I can't wait till we hit puberty!

  • 15 - Ruvy in Jerusalem

    Nov 15, 2006 at 12:57 pm

    Peter,

    I found your article most interesting, particlularly the points about concealing a weapon. Since living in Israel, I've learned to use a pistol, an M1 and an M16, and have gotten used to the sight of people carrying rifles to synagogue, guns in their belt, and various other weapons as needed. If I could afford it, I'd prefer to carry a gun, but here if one carries a gun, he is expected to wear it in a visible holster in his belt. Only the Shabak and Mossad get to conceal weapons legally here.

    Troll, I thought I'd take a shot at "how do you counter claims that accidental gun deaths and round the bend wack job massacres probably outweigh any actual self defense benefits of easily available guns - ?"

    This is very much a cultural thing.

    The accidental gun deaths are a function of how much those entrusted with them pay attention to the basics of gun safety, i.e. not aiming a weapon at a person without intent to fire, making sure the gun and the ammo is securely stored (away from kids), that the weapon is free of ammo when put away, making sure that it is cleaned regularly, etc, etc.

    It is rumored that one of Ariel Sharon's sons died because of careless gun-play on the kid's part, so accidents do happen here, and parents can be careless...

    But the rest is all a function of the culture. So, for esample, in Israel, two Jewish guys, both of whom may be wearing guns, can get into a argument and even a fight, and neither will draw his gun. It is understood here that the gun is for self defense in a military sense. The exception to the rule is Russian Jews, who may pull a weapon and fire.

    Arabs are different. They will use a gun to kill far more readily than will a Jew. The result is that when you hear about murders here (NOT terrorist deaths), you usually here of Arabs killing other Arabs, or Russians killing other Russians. As in the States, most murders are committed by people who know each other.

    Thus, the issue of gun control does not really revolve around whether a gun kills or a person does, but around the culture of guns in a particular society. In America, I'd be among those urging gun control, OR carrying a visible weapon in a holster, as one does here.

    Nice job, Peter.

  • 16 - Martin Lav

    Nov 15, 2006 at 2:19 pm

    "We have a lot of growing pangs to contend with yet, I can't wait till we hit puberty!"

    And when you do you probably will realize that you won't need to own a gun to feel safe.

    What a waste of time.

  • 17 - Peter J

    Nov 15, 2006 at 2:38 pm

    Ruvy,
    I tend to agree with you as far as it being a cultural sensation in most states here. Once the permission is granted and those who want legal permission get it, eventually it becomes almost second nature.

    As far as display, I don't know if that would serve as well as concealed. It's been ten years in Florida and you rarely hear of anyone whose abuse has caused a problem. The fact that the murder by gun rate has declined so rapidly leads me to believe that more people who may attempt a gun in a robbery may be deterred by the unknown fact that there may be another gun in play.

    The most some jerk will do who carries a gun is to flash it in traffic, that's a problem. If he flashes at another gun carrier there most certainly be gun fire.

    It should occur to some of our leaders that rather than cajoling separatism in the races (the way of the wasp) and classes it would be better served to start treating each class and race with equality, otherwise people who once were the majority become the minority and extremely bitter. We're not capable of looking around the world to see the net result of such actions.

    We have an odd culture in that you can almost attribute the types of attacks to different races. Without going into detail and at the risk of being thought of as a rascist you will see one race almost exclusively stabbing each other while another will just use their fists. Streetfighting can be just about as dangerous as a gun or a knife in some instances.

    This country has more ridiculous and childish issues than any country in the world. It is indeed an enigma. Like I said, still in its infancy stages.

    I've seen and heard much talk in my life from different sectors who are just waiting for a racial uprising. It scares me as that once something like this starts, it never ends. Without any sort of gun control at all there are already enough handguns, machine guns, hunting rifles, shotguns, grenade launchers to set tis country back 200 years.

    We were at a point in the 60s that things were beginning to come together. Bobby Kennedy and Martin Luther King were on the verge of settling racial matters once and for all, I believe it was going to happen. Had they lived I believe that this would be a totally different world. We probably wouldn't be discussing the need for guns.
    But there are (Oh Oh, here comes paranoia)
    factors at work whose best interest it is to maintain separatism and their tools are guns,drugs, racial devisivness etc. They can maintain their positions as the elite just as long as the rest of the country is too busy pissing at each other than to get their shit together and unite.
    But, I could be way wrong.

  • 18 - Peter J

    Nov 15, 2006 at 2:46 pm

    It may be a waste of time to you martin but had I not had a gun one evening in my shop, alone with my wife, my life, if I still had it, would have most certainly been changed for the worse.

  • 19 - Mark Schannon

    Nov 15, 2006 at 3:23 pm

    The problem I have is not with people such as you, Peter. If the kind of training and self-restraint you obviously have were mandatory & I had confidence that others would show similar good judgment, I might feel differently about handguns.

    But, as you've noted twice, we ain't a society of adults, and too many loonies can get guns. Until the kind of training you advocate is mandatory and effective, I fear I'm going to have to come down on the side of those who'd ban hand guns.

    In Jameson Veritas

  • 20 - Al Lowe

    Nov 15, 2006 at 4:15 pm

    If we're going to start banning things based on accidental death statistics, there are quite a few things ahead of guns that would have to be banned also. Doctors, 5 gallon buckets, cars.

    Guns are tools. Like ANY tool, it can be put to good use, or bad use. And if we even bothered to enforce all the current gun laws on the books, I think we'd find out we have a few too many already.


  • 21 - Martin Lav

    Nov 15, 2006 at 4:44 pm

    "The most some jerk will do who carries a gun is to flash it in traffic, that's a problem. If he flashes at another gun carrier there most certainly be gun fire."


    This sums up the lunacy of your argument perfectly. In other words, no guns, no flash, no flash, no flash. Get it?

    I'm glad you and your wife are okay Peter, I truly am, but since you don't provide any details about the incident other than your belief that without your gun you would be dead, I have to assume that it could be assumed that just like the barking dog, a car-jack or a scream may have worked just as effectively.


  • 22 - Peter J

    Nov 15, 2006 at 4:47 pm

    When I look around and see the angry motorists, the angry inner city kids and even the tempers of people in the last election I wonder how we got to this in the 21st century.

    I think about the reality of carrying the weapon and wonder why I've encountered these situations and so many others have not. Am I out looking for things to happen? Absolutely not.

    The few times I've actually used this gun makes me wonder if I really do need it. Then I remember the times that I have and assess the alternatives. I don't even like to think of the possibilities, had anything happened to my wife in that bodyshop that night and I survived, the only life I would know would be hunting down and killing these pieces of shit and anyone who got in my way. I know myself all to well. I think that's why I carry more than anything else, to protect myself from myself. I feel secure that I will be able to protect my family from the possibilities of this world.

    I also ask myself why have I gotten into these situations where others have not. This I can't answer aside from I've never been afraid to venture place to place. As a kid, I grew up in South Boston which was a pretty bad place. Just to move from neighborhood to neighborhood was risky business but I never let that stop me. That could be why I've taken so many more beatings than most I knew but I liked being a loner with no allegiance to any one particular gang aside from one where I spent most of my time.
    Nobody had guns back then so it wasn't an issue, plus I could breath, which helps a lot.

    As far as banning guns, most states still do and their deathrates from guns per capita is higher than states without bans.
    And now Mark, you've forced me to use that tired cliche',
    "If all guns were banned then only owtlaws would have guns".
    Now why'd you have to go and do that?

  • 23 - Peter J

    Nov 15, 2006 at 4:52 pm

    What Al #20 said!

  • 24 - Martin Lav

    Nov 15, 2006 at 4:53 pm

    I have your answer.....
    Is called seeing through shit colored glasses.
    You need help. The world is not that bad and people aren't out to get you.
    Fear no evil dude.

  • 25 - Peter J

    Nov 15, 2006 at 5:20 pm

    I think you have it all wrong Martin,
    I actually have a terrific outlook on life. In spite of some health issues I consider myself extremely fortunate as compared to so many others I know or hear about on the news. In fact I feel so good I don't try to berate people who I don't agree with.

    As far as this gun issue goes, I barely realive I have it on any more and the only reason that I happened to write about it is because of an incident which just took place which was a bit similar to the story I told.

    My wife and I were walking our two dogs, a Lhasa Apso and a Cocker Spaniel. It was dusk ands we were getting close to home. It was a Rottweiler who came at us from the left and wasn't more than ten feet away when I pulled the gun. He was focused on my dogs. He had no collar and was totally unfamiliar to me.

    By the time he actually stopped he was just several feet from my dogs and they were both (stupid) stretching their leashes and barking which is what he started doing. He was not going to stop, he was as close to my dogs as he could get and even with my shouting and the gun he was sstill advancing as we were backing up , myself backwards with the gun trained on him. My gun has about a 1/2" pull before it fires and I had it right on the spot. I have no doubt that with a stick or a tire iron (which I don't carry) ther would have been a bloody mess in the road and possibly one or both of my dogs hurt or dead.

    Why do people like you have to be insulting to be dis-agreeable? Do ya feel better now?

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