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Open Secrets: Gay Life in Pakistan

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During my first trip to Pakistan in 2006, I found the country teeming with homosexuals. In the 20-hours long bus journey from Lahore to Karachi, a bearded missionary of Tablighi Jamat, an Islamic movement that advocates extreme austerity, advised me to convert to his religion. I politely nodded at his persuasions but was forced to vigorously shake my head when his hand started caressing my thighs. The massage was relaxing but the vibes were clearly sexual.

Later while strolling in the early evening heat of Karachi's Clifton Beach, a charming kulfi seller got fixated on me. He promised to show me the "real" Karachi. I would have been game if not for his tendency to hold my arms a little longer than usual. Even that would have been fine, but the pressing and rubbing was just too disconcerting.

These were just few of the queer moments of my Pakistan excursion. While returning back to Lahore on the Allama Iqbal Express train, a Bahawalpur trader suddenly confessed in the midst of our Musharraf conversations that he liked sleeping with boys! The ultimate was when an old Karachi Pathan, with kohl-lined eyes, escorted me to a seedy shop at Saddar Market and offered the pirated DVD of Brokeback Mountain at bargain rates. (I bought it!)

The author with a Pakistani cop in LahoreSuch experiences in Allah's own country appear unreal. After all, the website of the International Lesbian and Gay Association quotes the Pakistan embassy in Hague making it clear that "the homosexual is not accepted as a decent individual, and homosexual acts constitute an offense punishable with imprisonment for life or with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to ten years."

Indeed it is difficult to conceive Pakistan as a place where individuals could be free to celebrate sex, and different sexual orientations. But that is what everyone seems to do. In his 2004 essay, appropriately titled The East is Blue, Sir Salman Rushdie claimed that more than 60 percent of Internet users in Pakistan visit porn sites. Unfortunately we do not have figures of Pakistanis who access gay porn sites.

A few years back a news story in the Boston Globe concluded that across all classes and social groups in Pakistan, men have sex with men. "In villages throughout the country, young boys are often forcibly 'taken' by older men, starting a cycle of abuse and revenge that social activists and observers say is the common pattern of homosexual sex in Pakistan," the newspaper reported.

In fact, in the conservative regions of North Western Frontier Province it is socially acceptable for Pashtun men to take up young boys for sexual pleasure. But don't rush to fancy the country as some liberal San Francisco outpost where life is all about celebrating individual choices. Many homosexual relationships here are not a result of two gay people wanting to make love but consequences of aggression and abuse by the strong on the weak. It is less love and more rape.

In her acclaimed book The Dancing Girls of Lahore, British author Louise Brown, who established an intimate friendship with a Pakistani prostitute and her family, made the following observation:

Homosexuality is derided in public, but it is accepted, provided it remains a secret. The men involved in homosexual acts don’t perceive themselves to be homosexual, and the men’s families won’t perceive them to be homosexual either…Having sex with other men or boys is not associated with stigma providing a man takes a dominant role in sexual encounters. It may even reinforce a man’s masculinity and status because he is sexually dominating others. It is the receptive partner who is despised and ridiculed.

Obviously chivalry codes exist among gays, too. But even then if a homosexual lifestyle is a risky option for men, it is unthinkable for women. In June 2007, the Lahore High Court sentenced two ladies in love to three years imprisonment.

Yet there are reasons to hope. Following the capture of Islamabad's bra-and-underpants clad Chinese masseuses by the dreaded burka-clad students of the all-girls conservative Islamic school Jamia Hafsa in June this year, Abdul Rashid Ghazi, who leads the men's school, drafted a new ruling. He declared, "If you want massage treatment, men should go to men, and women should go to women." Gay Pakistanis should gleefully catch the hint.

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  • aisha

    You have clearly mistaken the culture. I’m a western person and I’ve come to understand that the relationships are different than a westerner’s behavior but it doesn’t mean anything at all. You should feel sad that you’ve grouped a bunch of people into this category.

  • Vaqar

    You have tried to damage the the image of muslims so badly.Each and every place has good and bad communities. so how can u splash mud only on muslims.In Islam There are rules which are faithfully obbeyed by muslims of pakistan.But what about westeren countries who have no rules to control this MISUSE of a man itself…………….So Bad of you to give so dirty impact to world about Islam n Muslims

  • MZ

    Aisha, it’s true that locals behave more intimately than Westerners but that doesn’t mean this author’s understanding is false. I’m familiar enough with Pakistani come-ons and what they can lead to; obviously you aren’t! I’m sorry that you have excluded the truth out of a desire to be objective.

    Vaqar, the author said nothing derogatory: he simply pointed out the apparent contradictions between the proclamations and reality. Nothing more. Only a Muslim would think such an article damages the image of Muslims…and since most Muslims believe such a thing wouldn’t happen (or that you’re not a Muslim if you’re gay) there shouldn’t be much of an issue, lol! That said, there are many, many people who continue to try reconciling their faith and sexuality – and only God has the right to judge their position and behaviour, not humans.

    Let’s face it, Islamic societies have abused humanity in the name of religion as much as any other – and at least “western” societies have many more rules that attempt to control the misuse of man than we put into practice locally.

  • Umar FarooK

    Thts very much true , Pakistan is under great influence of GAY, In early 90’s it used to heard as the Way of Villagers or the Act’s of Pathans but now from every walk of life,one can find GAY sex very easily. I have witnessed Lads of elite class and moderen branded shcools are GAY, one can find the reading very easy by seeing the moods and trends of these cute lads. I have seen Gay orientations more then others, I agree with the studies that mostly pakistani visits porn site and mostly gay. I have seen GAY CHAT on every channel I joined on internat chat, where Pakis are in good numbers. From Karachi to islamabad there are many places where one can find GAY CD’s Openly.
    I have had seen GAY from a labour to working class from all ages .These new trends derived of the recent invasions of Internet in pakistan, I challange you to explore Orkut only & see how much of Pakis are listed as GAY.
    In short I must admit here my orientations are GAY as well

    Umar FarooQ
    MBA, 30 Years
    Lahore Pakistan

  • Robin

    Are you a gay too?

  • INTENTIONS

    lol! after hearing your comments about pakistanis, i will say u must go and ask them if there are some. well i m an engineering student and i ve been observing everyone in my university and my society, i have nt seen or heard any of my friends having sex with each other. all of them are searching and running behind girls.

    in my four years in university i ve heard only one case of gays in about 60 departments in a place like peshawar NWFP(about 30 thousand students) . although there were some of our kolleagues who liked lads but they never tried to touch them or had sex with them.

    one thing more, we sometimes with our very close friends will play like gays like slap on butt but we never ever tried to have sex or had any intention of sex. this is only what we do to tease each other or for fun. Believe me in these four years i ve been sleeping with boys in our rooms but i dont remember that it come into our mind that we should have sex.

    one day we were sitting and laughing about this fact that if some one saw these actions he will definitely say that these are gays.

    some of our classfellows from somalia,sudan and yamen said that when we first arrived in pakistan and when we saw this culture like standing together and putting their hands on shoulders of each other, we thought that almost all of these are gays and we were very scared. but when time passed we came to know that they were not gays.

    me and my friends are a group of about 9 ppl. in exams, v used to sleep three ppl in one single bed so tightly that even u could not change your side,still we never had sex or felt anything like that about the each other guy.

    this group of us, no will mind anything. like one of those i enjoy his company the most. i usually invite him to my room with these words. “where the f*** were u, i was feeling very hot. come spend a night with me in my bed, i ve brought some new lubricants.”
    but he knows that i m only joking and wanna spend sometime with him. he will answer like this ” no.no u r not good sexually, u could nt satisfy me last time. more over ur p**** is very small.”

    about rapes, is there single country or region where there are no rapes?????? (rape:forceful sex whether gay or boy/girl or lesbian…)

    well i dont say that there is no gay culture. but not upto that extent which this article described. according to this article, about 90% of them are gays. but i m saying no not more than 15% will be gays. and if they are they will be the uneducated category, like bus drivers,taxidrivers. etc

    and if the author say he was massaging him and he felt very good. ooooooo there is some thing fishy fishy in the person who is thinking …..

    afterall , i ll say. like islam say.
    all of the actions depends upon the INTENTIONS of the person doing it.

    i mean to say its all about attitude.

    so who is the real thief……..

  • Pakistani Guy

    OMG!!!!
    You are really mistaken, those people wanted to be your friend!!!!

    You must have seen that there cocks were not standing!!

  • http://http Muhammad Tariq

    You hve a little experianc on the topic of gay culture in pakista.This true hat in most areas of pakistan people like homeosexual activity because of solid reason,Firstly in NWFP the people are poor and they cant make marriage with a girl of their high price/cost of 3 hundred rupees equal to 5000 US dollar.where in punjab the situation is different the father or the parents have no such a huge money to make their doughter wedding in punjab the man family demand for much gold and other household things which is ubearable.as well as in Sindh like the pnjaab Provice, where Balochista has different way they sell their doughters and there is also a costum like Punjab.so, a young ma satisfy their sexuality to hire gay for 100 to 1000 rupees for just 5 to 10 minutes.
    this is true that this gay activity also forbiden in pakistan but the Government have nt taken steps agisnt the basic corruption of wedding.
    in social community this rare but in religious Schools the gay activity is on top. The Head teacher lik mulana of th school focible agree the children to have sex first with them and then this teacher suply this boy to another Maulanas.
    Maulana Fazal Rahman has a vry cute boy for sex in Dera Ismail khan.Trruely speaking Maulanas have pretty gays in their religious schools(DEENI MADRISA). The Government is awared of these activities but Government doesnt do ny thing.whre for a common people it is forbiden and may be he will kep in prison fo 10 years.But Maulana i Madrisa fuck thei children in not only in madrisa but also fuck them in Masjid(Mosque).
    Every Member of MMA enjoyed pretty and creamy boy of tajikistan and other central asian boy brought to them by Maulana of central Asian.
    I would request to u that please come again o pakistn especilly NWFP province and reserch for your site.
    Peope who are dennying or aing their comments as this thing I mean gay sex is not in pakistan are wrong and they also pretnding.
    thanx a lot.
    Muhammad Tariq ,
    BANNU, NWFP, Pakistan.

  • ali hassan

    i agree wid all da studies but remember its not pakistan only but everywhere in da world ppl r more expressive than before,i live in multan.im 30 yrs old ,[Personal contact info deleted] im a decent goodlooking bottem……Ali

  • ahmad

    im from UAE, and our driver is from Pakistan, before i was just dreaming of him, now, (1month ago) it has come true, we had sex… i love it, im 18yo emirati, and descreet, i just love it

  • ahmad

    i think some pakistani are hot…

  • Arsal

    I think this is a very well written article, and coming from a Pakistani Muslim, that says a lot. Homosexuality isn’t a separate phenomenon here, it’s only sort-of like a natural part of our lives that almost all of us go through.

    There are a lot of people who don’t support homosexuality (including myself) but turning a blind eye to the reality won’t help end it. And the reality is that men do sleep with men here, too, just for different reasons than in the West. It might not be ‘homosexuality’ in its true self, but it is two men making love. And that can happen quite easily.

    It’s also particularly common within teenagers these days, but those are the exact people who grow out of it and turn up straight in the end.

  • rahkee

    I find myself attracted to Pakistan men.My lover is from pakistan. He is so hot.We have been to gether since 1995. He even left his wife from an arranged marrage. But till this day he will till you he is not gay. I am a top. My lover is so passionate. At one time I use to f*** him 3 to 4 times everyday.He is a lot of fun.And to add to his high sex drive he is strikingly good looking.I use to tell him he should be a model.Any way i think if I want to Pakistan i would be in trouble.I am a black american.I mean no disrepect to my Pakisan brothers but I love you guys.

  • ayub

    i m very disappointed by this bitter reality. But now question arrises wt we have to do? I think that we can get rid from this fatal problem by helping the sex spreader by money and giveing them proper jobs. And i m sure that they will leave this sex by getting the good source of money. and 0ther informations [Personal contact info deleted]

  • danish

    sab lonse baz he pakistan main

  • fraz

    i like almost

  • SHAHBAZ

    WELL I AM DOING ELECTRONIC ENGINEERING FROM NED UNIVERSITY KARACHI,MY NAME IS SHAHBAZ,AS FAR AS I THINK ABOUT THAT ARTICLE IT IS NOT MORE THAN TO ABUSE PAKISTANI CULTURE SOME FUCKING GUY SAID THAT HE EXPERIENCED SOME……….!AND SHOULD WE HAVE TO BELEIVE HIM?WHO THE FUCK HE IS TO BLAME US?GOOD AND EVILS ARE EVERY WHERE BUT IT DOESNT MEAN THAT OUR CULTRE HAS EXPIRED,IN OUR UNIVERSITY NO SUCH CASE HAVE BEEN REPORTED YET ALTHOUGH THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF MALES THERE ALL SEARCHING AND RUNNING FOR GIRLS,THEY ALL WANT ONLY GIRLS BUT FRIENDS CAN BE BOTH GIRLS AND GUYS,SO THIS ALL WRITTEN IS RUBBISHED AND UNAUTHENTIC,WE ARE NOT “GAY”!SHAHHBAZ!

  • foreinger

    i will tell u on thing all pakistani is gay becouse ur closen girls socity what u went ur boy to do he has feeling then he will go by rong way…did u ask ur self pakistanies if some one do sex with ur sister or doughter u become angree but if he did with ur son or brother ur normal..this thing never sstop untill u give the girl thier freedom.all u will be gays

  • Noel

    Hi I am filipino staying here in al-ain uae. This is very true because I am having a relationship with a pakistani guy from here also but roots from lahore. I just love him. We have been together now for a year and a half. He is so sweet and very very lovable. I just fall from him. When it comes to sex,THE BEST SEX I EVER HAD AND STILL HAVING!!!!!!! NO ONE COMES CLOSE TO THIS!!! [Personal contact info deleted]

  • http://jetspolitics.blogspot.com/ Jet

    Due to the comments policy of this site, I’m not going to give my opinion of the author’s motives or his intelligence.

    however someone should delete that phone number… assuming it’s genuine

  • dave

    i think you all read to much into it why does it matter who you love and like life is to short

  • roshan

    I think it is very true that Pakistani boys love have sex with guys.I never had difficulty in approaching a paki and there was never a time when i was refused…most of them are top and they love bottom…it would be worth to mention that some of them are also a very good lover. Thanks for them or else what would happen to the gays of UAE

  • roshan

    Honestly…my sexual experience keep getting better and better with the Paki boys be it Punjabi, Pathan (Oh i love them) or Baluchi…Its just a matter of whether you like them or not…if you like them…tell them straight or may be you can try some other way…i am sure none will say no…They are also so good in the bed…they will love you for hours, kiss you for days…though they are strong and can try to rape you but never will they cross their limit…if you tell them that you do not wish to have anal sex that moment..they would not force you…they are all gentle giants…they are good should i say….

  • http://biggesttent.blogspot.com/ Silas Kain

    They come in all colors, creeds, races, nationalities, etc. Imagine that. Do yourself a favor and watch My Beautiful Laundrette with Daniel Day-Lewis and Gordon Warnecke. Beautiful movie with a compelling story line. One of DDL’s greatest performances.

  • Fred

    Believe it or not.there are big number,s of gay,s in Pakisian.not just gay,s there are so many bisexual,s.Even straight guy,s like to have a sex with same sex.i have seen all this.married man,s like to have a sex with teen boys.not just poor people like same sex.it is spread in rich,poor,madocers everywhere.if you don,t believe me.than just visit the gay dating sites.where you can find thousands of pakistani gay,s.poor and rich everyone.so many beutiful guys.call boys and scorts.Our religion islam doesn,t give us permission to make relation with same sex.but believe me behind the curtain,s so much is going on.

  • shahid

    well, frist I wanna clear one thing in Pakistan there are very numbers of ppl are gays but a lot of ppl are bi mean the like boys and girls both but if you go for persentage then you can find very small number of gay and bi. I agree with you that you have found ppl everywhere they tried on you but tell me how is your behavier. Did you tried to test them or your orignal ****. well you can say there are few numbers of gay and be in Pakistan but not everyone. Please when you come again contact me. I like to see a papu bacha. lol

  • unknown

    i 26 yo gay living in pakistan i hve master’s degree in sciences…i m gay and i hve been attracted to men since my teen ages,,physically i m normal guy but i hve never been attrcted to gal …i just lov men…but being gay has never beeen my choice …i did not opt for this…in my view being gay in pakistan is very miserable…it’s a sort of abuse on u…as we r living in the society og hypocrtaes ..those who are commenting tht this article is abusing paksitan should accept gayism as a reality in pak..now i hve reached the age of marriage and i m worried how could i forbid my family from my marriage… UNKNOWN LIVING IN HYPOCRTAES…

  • Vaseline Waz

    [Personal contact info deleted] I became gay after I got married. Even on my wedding night I was at my in-laws house in Lahore in the bedroom applying some lubricant to my penis for the night ahead and my father in law sneaked in behind me and dropped his pants and started playing with his dick. Luckily his wife shouted him and he quickly tucked it away. That was a shock. But it was a turning point in my life. Since that time every time my wife used to blow me I would close my eyes and imagine it was my father in law in her place. That was 6 years ago and for the last two years I’ve been openly gay and my wife supports me. Although the corrupt family that bitch comes from she can hardly complain.

  • Davide

    Man im gay to i wish someone could show me a gay sex club [Edited] hope to get responce from the gay club

  • Will tell u later

    Hi

    I am looking for some fun with guy or a girl who can also support me to run my small business. I am 23yrs old boy, 5’5 slim, fair color, live in Gulshan bl-16, Karachi.
    Assuring you to give 100% pleasure in sex.

    Only who can help me out… [Personal contact info deleted]

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9uSIc363ks kashif farooq

    Love is not a sin…. You can love each and every person you want…. you can see this video on you tube
    its all about love and nothing more. [Personal contact info deleted]

  • junaid

    me a gay to and don’t think it is a bad thing proud to be a gay…

  • junaid

    in pakistan now a days straight guys r very few in num now and gays and bi collectively are more than straight guys…that shows tht sooner or later pakistan will become a gayish country…

  • john

    i am amagree pakistani boys or not gay but he like to much sex and very hot and also girld like pakitani boy.my borfriend is pakistani and he is very niceman.

  • fahid

    i think enjoy the life because 99% people enjoy same sex but cant admitted it. so first look in than others

  • Paul Jerlstrom

    Homosexuality is in every society. It is not a particular problem with Pakistan. Some of the comments given here are pretty stupid. As a briton working and living in Pakistn, I can tell you behaviours in Pakistan are no different than any where else. There is homosexuality in Pakistan, but to a lesser extent due to social and religious dimensions of the society. Pakistanis are antimate people and men, as a traditin, hug and shake hands when they meet. That does not mean that they are sexually attracted to each other. It the author goes to an Arab country, he will be shocked to see that Arabs also kiss each other….. So budies get a life and don’t malign this poor country which has many other problems to deal with.

  • raina

    i am also a guy

  • asad

    i like ur mind and i wish dat the next s i.

  • Zareen

    I am from Pakistan, and yes I know Pakistan has a huge population of gay men. Since having a girl friend/boy friend relationship is percieved unacceptable before a marraige; men/boys create their own relationships with other men/boys. Usual act is holding hands, kissing on cheek, tight hugs etc. We shouldn’t be ashamed of this.

  • karan

    i think pakistanis are gay coz there are no freedom for gals like india
    so boy go for gay sex ….
    In gaydanta.com i seen so many gays from pakistan
    so we cn say pakistan is gay country n they all are sixes hahahaha

  • wiz

    Dude! i have been living in karachi since the last 30 years! I have traveled on those crazy buses, the rickshaws and everything else. I went to an all boys college and a co education school and university. I never encountered any harassment from any men or met any gay men. But yeah i did hear the rumors that a friend’s friend’s friend’s cousin is gay. Being Gay or not is a more of a religious issue. As Muslims we believe what happened to Qaum-e-Loot…

  • imro

    it is true…. im not damaging any laws of islam… but according to my experience… all what you have written is true… just accept that when its true its hurt… mostly of muslim men are immoral…

  • deni

    hahahaha !! oh man … i feel so pitty for ur sex obsessed thinking, u just cant seem to get rid of ur obsession seriously…
    i`m a gay , i live in pakisytan im 26 and ill tell u about gayism in pakistan much clearer and better than anyone can …
    1.sex is a taboo in pakistan , gayism is the extreme level of it , imagine it by urself.
    2.people talk freely about othr guys being gay and make fun of them bekause they r thought to be shameful..
    3.gays exist everywhere, in pakistan very hidden kuz off the things i mentioned, i m not saying that gays dont exist here, but much rarer than othr countries.
    4.pornsites !! lols. ofcorse they r popular here to the max guess why ??? bekoz youngsters dnt have open environment to entrtain themselves in practical terms..simple :D
    5.gayism is never based on da scarcity of women, if it was so , then wht about america and europe??? dpo u think its hard to get a girl ther?? and da gay population is still at large ther..
    dear briother, take a shower and some sleeping pills in short :D !!!!

  • http://www.desiboys.in Aru John

    Gay community exists in the major cities. The Internet has helped homosexuals interact and find each other,

  • http://www.desiboys.in XSahid

    Homosexuality is in every society. It is not a particular problem with Pakistan.

  • J BASSON blow.yor.horn@live.co.uk

    I Am An Englishman.Yes im a Gay Bottom. I Have Read All Your Comments.I Wish We Had Your Views On Gay Sex . I Have Had Sex With Pakistani Tops. Always Found Them Very Loveing ,Passionate . Yet Willing To Brutaly Rape Me .Sometimes With His Friends Helping Forceing Me Submit . In England Older Men Are Not Considerd Worth Haveing Sex With . I Praise Yor Gay Honest Outlook . Wish Could Find Honesty In England Like Yours . jon

  • Msd

    Good and bad people are every where, in every society, but the writer has clearly attacked the “Tableghi” means “The preacher of a true religion Islam”, these are his personal false ideas, propagating against Islam and the true muslims of Pakistan…..If the gay sex was so common, that It would have already come on the media, with special coverage….Kothey Bonkthey Rahengey..Karwan Gurtha Gayega…

  • ishaan

    I MEET TOP BOTOM AND BI AND STRAIT I ALSO PERSONALY RESEARCHED ABT DIS THINK IN MY LIFE.M A MASTER STUDENT AND HAVE EXPERIENCES IN MANY FIELDS OF LIFE AND HAVE GENEREAL KNOWLDGE.IF U HAV ANY QUESTION ABT GAYS R SOMETHING LIKE DIS U R FREE TO ASK ANY QUSTION [Personal contact info deleted]. well being a gay is prohibited in Pakistan but we are living in Azad pakistan we are free to do in our life.but online in our homes not openly or nor in public law dosent allow dis so if a boy got sex wid a boy in his younger it doesnt mean he is a gay it was just a youth mistake and.so we cant call mistakes a gay society it can be in every country.but even att all evwry boy marry WITH GIRL NOT WIT BOY MIND IT B CAREFULL. GAY MARRIAGES IS NOT ALLOWED AND NO BODY IS GOING TO DO SO EVEN HE IS A GAY COZ PERSONAL NO BODY LIKE DIS TO LIVE WID A MAN EVEN HE IS GAY,OR SHEMALE OR BISEXUAL AT LEAST HE MARRY WID GIRL AND LIVE LIKE STRAIT AND HAPPY LIFE.THERE ARE SOME GAYS BUT MIND IT NOT EVERY ONE IF A STRAIT GOT SOME OFFER OF SEX HE COULD BE INVOLVE IN SEX WID MAN BUT ITS DOSENT MEAN THAT HE BECOME GAY.M0STLY ARE TOP MEAN MOST ARE STRAIT AND BOTOM MEAN IF SOME ONE WANT SEX LIKE BOTOM HE ALSO DO SEX WID GIRL AND MARY WID GIRL EVEN BEING BOTOM HE DONT SPEND HIS WHOLE LIFE WID A MAN.OR HE MARRY WID A MAN NEVER.SO PAKISTANI ARE NOT GAYS EVEN ATT ALL I DINT C MARRIED MAN IN MY WHOLE LIFE IN PAK OR SOME 1 WANT TO MARY WID BOY.IT COULD BE A PART TIME FUN NOT A PERMANENT SO U DONT CALL IT A GAY.EVERY ONE IS STRAIT .IF SOMEBODY HAVE DOUBT ABT US HE COULD TRY IT,NEXT TIME DONT USE GAY WORD FOR PAKISTANIS EVEN THEY F****** BOYS COZ THEIR LIFE STYLE IS NOT LIKE GAYS AND NO BODY7 IN PAKISTAN WOULD LIKE TO LIVE LIKE GAY ITS REAL

  • aviator

    Its true every thing is true,but I have only one thing to say,straight men never aproch gays,never ever,buy true gays always aproch ppl of same sex
    Now that’s another thing that a homo never claims or he never accepts the reality
    Majorly ppl r in denail,as this is sin,but those who proclaim it,r surely going to hell
    Point to b noted is gayism doesn’t mean that a man prefers a boys hole over vagina,its more of like that
    A man desires a mans rod then the natural woman.
    Gays are basically those who always wanto b woman,yet they never get to b real one,they destroy their youth
    In something that is totally unnatural.had it been a gay would find a real straight looking
    And acting man,however,seldom happens,usually gays scratch each others back eventually.
    As if both suffering from same disease try to make each other happy.
    Normally a top man would have few such encounters,mostly they all liked to b pierced themselves than to pierce.
    No dought they r crossing the limits.

  • http://www.RoseDigitalMarketing.com Christopher Rose

    There is a lot of crap written about homosexuality and the preceding comment is a classic example.

    Why would a straight male approach gays? The only reason I can think of is curiosity!

    Presumably this commentator is troubled about his own sexual identity and desperately trying to convince himself about something…

  • Atlas Raja

    Being a Muslim i admit that the above reporter is 100% right………this type of activities are available throughout the country, which are creating a lot problems for theirs parents …..and much more guys adopt this habit for earning money….Plz try to understand sheer truth.

  • Umrao jaan Ada Novel

    oh really , are there any lesbien life in pakistan too?

  • Haider

    I am agree with all people who says that there r many geys but its reason is that if u walk with a girl every one asked u who is this and where are u going what is ur relation with u but if u r walking with a gey the people only say that he have a creamy boy no any one ask u what is ur relation with u and i feel that same human sex is only in hostels or where working mans lived in hair rooms and they always look for quit and creamy boys

  • Ali Gul

    As a gay Pakistani man, I grew up seeing all that’s described. This is, indeed, a cross of the society through pink lenses! That’s quite an objective eye my friend…

    Having said that… there’s so much more to being gay in Pakistan. For some reason, you haven’t moved beyond the child molesters, abusers and perverts! Pakistan does have a very vibrant gay culture. It is very urban focused and this sub-culture is not miscible with what’s described in the narrative.
    Next time you’re in Pakistan, look me up, I’ll show you the real gay sub-culture of my home.

    As for all you Pakistanis ranting and raving about how insulted you feel… why dont you all shut the fuck up! Where was this indignation when Mukhtaran mai’s nine rapists went scot free? Or when they five women alive in my Balochistan? We dont need anyone to Malign us.. we do a pretty good job ourselves. All of you haven’t done an iota of crap for your country and are all chock full of drama. Get off your damn pc, go see life as it really is out there and do something for someone! They feel insulted.. My ass!

  • Mike Page

    Year back I met a most handsome, furry-chested Pakistani sailor in Cape Town. His ship was in the docks for repairs. He was a very decent man of about 30 years old. We became instant friends and I took him to my home. We had most satisfying m2m sex for two weeks as often as we could. To him sex was sex – male or female – but he preferred m2m as less complicated.

  • Comeon!

    It seems that the author himself is a gay.However he would have pals with him for his satisfaction.

  • azan ahmed

    Well, i was young as 16 i come to know i am cute every body says to me i am dam cute then i realised boys wants me in thier life , it wasnt mean that gay type they were as sodo mite, then i joined i come to know there is orkut fb and one other website where is millions paki gays are avaliable and i met them approach them then i am being pure gay ! as lookjng for real comitment , no one accept they are gay or bisex, there are lot of peoples who like girls and boys too and some are use boys as they want sex pleasure ! well i am seriously now 22 and huge experience of gay life , in karachi there is lot og gay parties gay get to gather arranged ! hope one day i will mr rite to settle and for ever love !

  • ajmal but in ksa

    all gay is very good

  • tariq aziz

    i love beautiful girls , boys.

  • kenny

    could someone told me that is that easy to build a love relationship with pakistan boys or males?will they reject you easily? i found them very attractive honestly and i just wanna know whether they welcome man in general or else

  • Sajjad

    Well there are many reasons for men to men sex. many people do it as a profession i.e for money some people r fond of m to m sex i m 4m kpk i knw bettr that kpk on the top.. i have master m.com havng gd acdmics but i m jobless i contact with rich people so that they employe me and thats y i give them a lot of sex and now i have gone too faraway that i will made permenant relation with a male not female as per ration 90% people r fond of men to men sex i contact 10 to 13 people in one day at peshawar bazar etc there r proper stop where men r connected with each other i knw a lot of [Personal contact info deleted]

  • Altaf

    In pakistan i dont think there is a big problem of gayism so plz dont cheap language about pakistan

  • zak

    its all true there r gay ppl in pk.if want to know then go to fb………u ll find hundreds of thousands there…..and i mean it….

  • Zahir

    Ok, but as far the auther’s views are concerned, he has totally mistaken the situation. If some says no, then the auther why not repported the matter to the court for such illicit acts with him. As all the fingers are not the same so all the muslims are also not the same, and there is no place for homosexuality in Islam and the Muslims and a man just by external appearnce cannot be considered the most religious one who made a massage of the auther’s thigh. It may be that that man like the author was not a muslim and he had some other intention in his mind.

  • salman

    hi m also a gay i want a man who can love me i will give him everything