We all have them, songs that seem to speak right to that secret place in your soul –- sometimes secret even from you. They flow into you, through you, whirling, swirling around until they completely surround a tiny spot deep down inside of you. And then they never leave. They can grow and occasionally fester in you like an open wound, or they can heal you, fill you up, and inspire you.
Many times they don’t even reflect your normal musical tastes. They can be shameful secrets that you keep from family and friends (in my case it’s Janet Jackson), sneaking listens when no one is home or when you’re alone in your car. You feel like a drug addict craving your next fix. Thank jebus for MP3 players, the syringe for those suffering with this affliction.
Well I have decided to own my dirty little secrets - and some of them are very dirty. I’m even going to own those that aren’t dirty little secrets. This is my list of some of the songs that speak to me in ways (and places) no person can (or has yet).
In no particular order:
"Unwritten" – Natasha Bedingfield
This is about writing and about being unwritten, something I have always felt I am. It also uses a phrase that echoes something I have said for years (long before the song’s release in August 2005), “Feel the rain on your skin/ No one else can feel it for you.” It has always been my ambition to write to make people feel the rain on their skin. It also has a musical quality that lends itself to belly dancing, and as a belly dancer that appeals to me. How could I not love this song?
"I Wish I Was A Punk Rocker (With Flowers In My Hair)" - Sandi Thom
I know it’s not been out long, but it only takes once to get hooked you know. I don’t know if it’s the Joni Mitchell-style lyrics and vocals or the addictive clapping that do it for me. Or maybe it’s that I grew up a punk/goth in the 80’s in Salt Lake City, Utah. Hard to imagine, I know, but Mormons tend to look the other way when they see something they don’t like or understand and that allows Salt Lake to have a vibrant and thriving counterculture. It wasn’t a bad place to grow up and this song brings some of that back for me.
Article comments
1 - Scott Butki
I dig this piece. Will there be a sequel of more songs that make you feel naughty?
2 - A.L. Harper
These aren't just songs that make me feel naughty... Well ok lets face it almost everything makes me feel naughty.
And yes there will be a sequel.
Thanks Scott!
3 - chantal stone
Rick Springfield was my first concert too! I was 9, also with my mother....and I was sooooo in love with him.
4 - A.L. Harper
Me too! I thought he was the hottest man on earth! Boy was I wrong!
5 - Steve
Well, I have three of the songs on this list, A.L. ("...Hero", "Jessie's Girl", "Too Lost In You") with different songs by some of the other artists (Janet Jackson, Natasha..., Santana, Rob Thomas, Placebo). Not familiar with the rest though I had heard Sandi was #1 in the UK at the moment, the first #1 signed to a label primarily through her own internet promotion...the start of a trend methinks.
Thanks for sharing, A.L., I reckon you are about a year younger than me.
6 - A.L. Harper
Steve
I'm 36 later this year so that would make you 36/37 right? What Placebo song has touched your soul?
Sandi Thom is the first to be signed because of her online presence that I'm aware of. She is very Joni Mitchell only with a modern twist. She won't be the last to make it this way though. There are so many talented artists out there. Lets hope it works for us writers too.
7 - Steve
Well, A.L., I just turned 37 in the last month or so, so I guess we're about 18 months apart then.
Re. Placebo, though I knew it was in my collection, I had forgotten what it sounded like (it was part of your UK NOW compilation series that I have it from).
So I listened to it again (called "Nancy Boy"), and realised I had only listened to the beginning of it, and had switched it off for the reason that it had a real punk sound to it, which I've always hated, ever since it started in the 70's.
Listening to the lyrics now, I hadn't realised the contents of the song were of a somewhat sexual nature, but for me, music is key with a song, if I don't like the music, the lyrics could be wonderful and I still wont want to listen to the song lol. So, in other words, I guess their song didn't 'touch my soul', as you put it.
I honestly don't look for songs with sexual themes myself, being a guy, I don't find that side needs that much provoking really!!
Though I do have a bunch of songs that might 'touch my soul' in other ways. But I need to get some sleep right now lol.
8 - A.L. Harper
Steve
I'm not very fond of Nancy Boy either.
Pure Morning on the other hand is the song that touched my soul, and there is nothing naughty about it.
Also I would like to note that I don't look for songs with a sexual theme either. They just seem to catch my attention more than other songs do. But then I'm a highly sexual person and most things that I do are an expression of that. And if some of the songs that have touched my soul are of a sexual in nature that would be why.