Music: Frustrated by "F*ck It"

I know it. I'm getting older second by second, minute by minute, hour by hour. I don't really feel it, or according to most people I know, look it. But, I had that 'why is this supposed to be the bomb?' response that means one is really and truly over thirty while listening to a new CD Monday night. The song that invoked it is Eamon's "Fuck It (I Don't Want You Back"). It has rhythm and blues harmonies and hip hop beats. The melody draws you in from the start. The lyrics are not nonsensical, as rap singers' too often are. However, they left me wondering why I was listening to the song.

Fuck It

Whoa oh oh
Ooh hooh
No No No

[Verse 1:]

See I dont, know why, I liked you so much
I gave you all, of my trust
I told you, I loved you, now thats all down the drain
Ya put me through pain, I wanna let you know what I feel

Fuck what I said it don't mean shit now
Fuck the presents might as well throw'em out
Fuck all those kisses, it didn't mean jack
Fuck you, you hoe, I dont want you back

I can't say it gets any better.

[Verse 2:]

You thought, you could
Keep this shit from me, yeah
Ya burnt bitch, I heard the story
Ya played me, ya even gave him head
Now ya askin for me back
Ya just another hag, look elsewhere
Cuz ya done with me

Fuck what I said it don't mean shit now
Fuck the presents might as well throw'em out
Fuck all those kisses, it didn't mean jack
Fuck you, you hoe, I dont want you back

And, so on.

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  • 1 - Tom Johnson

    Mar 01, 2004 at 12:03 pm

    Eamon's single is currently number one on Billboard's R&B charts. It is being hailed as being the most explicit chart topper for the genre ever.

    And that is definitely something to be proud of . . .

    Second, I believe Eamon, who is 19, but looks 12 in some photographs, has unwittingly thrown up a barrier to older listeners. He seems to be all about posturing for his immediate peer group. If he wants to not just grab, but hold the attention of older music buyers, he needs to pen lyrics that communicate universal thoughts instead of lyrics that will impress only listeners who haven't taken the SAT yet.

    The last concern of most music aimed at kids is keeping their attention - once parted with their money, the labels and, unfortunately, the artists as well seem to have no use for their buying public. The smart ones, however, will pick up on this scheming attitude and will hopefully be smart enough to seek out music from artists who choose to reward their fans with challenges that keep them coming back for more - and keep them buying every release. One can hope, I guess . . .

  • 2 - Mac Diva

    Mar 01, 2004 at 2:25 pm

    I've talked with some late teens/early 20-somethings in the days since I wrote that entry. They provided some insight. One of them, my blog friend Lauren, a young mom and college student, says that even though she is in the age group Eamon's work is targeted to, she is done with that sort of thing, Outgrew it. Another, Gail, says that girls have pulled a switcheroo and are dedicating "Fuck It" to boys, since they are more likely to be 'hoes'--:). I've noticed the Amazon reviews have become more balanced, with fewer people impressed with Eamon's ability to cuss like a sai-, rapper.

  • 3 - Césa Guel

    Apr 10, 2004 at 8:02 pm

    Hello to all!
    My point about this song!

    When i listened this song on the radio, i say, ooh! it´s another hit!!
    and it is....
    I Live in Mexico, and the mexican teenagers like me, like this music kind, but much times, we dont know what means all the song, and less if on the radio don´t play the FUCK!!!!
    Oh my god!!
    This is a really depriment young material musically,
    A song is a inspiration.
    The true SONGS, when try to exprees, trough the worst experience, never say this type of words, 'cause the soul, and our feelings, still being the most dark, never expresself with this words...
    think about it!
    it´s true...

    see ya
    !!
    comments at my email.
    im 19 years old.

  • 4 - Just A Dad

    Apr 21, 2004 at 12:34 am

    Frankly the song is catchy. I'm 29 and have been married for going on 10 years but I've had my share of situations where I've felt what this song portrays. The same thing applied to eminems music for me, as well as some of rock groups popping up.(Nickelback, Creed, Limp Bizkit, etc..)

    Simple, catchy phrases that sum up an emotion with catchy beats to push them.

    And as you had said about your friend Lauren... I too once "outgrew" the current trend of music. Eminem's 2nd album sucked me back into popular music and I've been hooked since.

    I'm sure eamon could have went into some long tirade about exactly everything that happened and all the circumstances that brought this feeling on... but then it would be more of a ballad michael bolton style.

    Sometimes you just wanna tell someone to f***off. Have a listen to limp bizkits "Hot Dog" from the "Chocolate Starfish and the Hot Dog Flavored Water" album for another perfect example of this.

    So ... umm.. yeah.. thats what I have to say.

    By the way. If you check out that song by limp bizkit. I'd love to know your interpretation of the lyric " You wanna F*** me like an animal ". That particular part is still lost on me.

    -Clint

  • 5 - Mac Diva

    Apr 21, 2004 at 5:31 am

    I agree that the music is catchy and the kid has a good soul voice, it is the lyrics I can't fathom. It seems to me Eamon could have said the same thing in a much less off putting way.

    I've now heard the female version of "Fuck It." Talkin' about covering a song that did not need another go. . . .

    I've also listened to the LB song. I think they mean what the lyric says. Not biologically logical, but, hey!

  • 6 - Sandra Smallson

    Apr 21, 2004 at 5:43 am

    Even if u listen to the clean version, it's still a fucking catchy tune. I like the song with and without the "Fucks"..plus, I have heard the response by the gal he allegedly sang it for or to...that too is hilarious and will probably go down a storm with ladies the same way Beyonce's version of In Da Club by 50cents was greeted with glee by gals.

  • 7 - jadester

    Apr 21, 2004 at 6:31 am

    have you heard Killing In The Name Of by Rage Against The Machine? the last chorus is just something like 26 repeats of "f**k you i won't do what ya tell me"
    doesn't stop it being a great track (tho it may come close)

  • 8 - Aaron, Duke De Mondo

    Apr 21, 2004 at 8:52 am

    jadester, my fave killing in the name story is when it was riding high in the UK top 40. radio 1 were doing their sunday afternoon chart show, and i believe the dj may have been Dr Fox, who since went on to even greater heights as one of the folks off of Pop Idol. but anyway. he obviously had never heard the song, and played it without checking. Anyway, couple minutes in poor old foxy audibly shat himself. It was terribly amusing.

  • 9 - Mac Diva

    Apr 21, 2004 at 8:45 pm

    The "Fuck It" controversy made the Washington Post, after I wrote the entry above. Also, Billboard has done an update. For a fun look at the topic, check out this blogger's take.

    I still don't get it, but the popularity of the song is definitely being confirmed.

  • 10 - Boly

    Sep 25, 2004 at 10:21 am

    Eamon Online is a great resource for loads of stuff like downloads... check it out

  • 11 - catherine

    Mar 22, 2006 at 6:10 pm

    i love this song is the better i have ever hear

  • 12 - Christopher Rose

    Mar 23, 2006 at 5:49 am

    Where I live the song was called "Fuck You", which is what it ought to be, right?

    Oh yeah, I have an awesome mp3 of the Manchester United fans version of this which is absolutely fucking great!


    See I will always love the Reds so much
    We are the team nobody else can touch
    United, I love them,
    They're the only team alive
    The other ones are shite
    And now I'm gonna tell you
    How I feel
    Fuck Peter Kenyon and Abramovich
    Fuck you Mourinho you son-of-a-bitch

    and so on.

    Oh to be in England for the football season.

    We love it!

  • 13 - andreiano man utd from sweden

    Apr 07, 2006 at 5:18 pm

    Hey Christopher,
    Where can i get that awsome mp3 with the Man Utd version?
    btw check the link:

  • 14 - roanldo lover

    Apr 10, 2006 at 9:16 am

    i have heard the man u version. my mate has it on her phone. she wont send it me though. i was wondering if anyone knew where i could get it from or if they could type out all of the lyrics for me. please reply.

    cristiano ronaldo's no.1 fan x x x x

  • 15 - spinnin

    May 17, 2006 at 12:36 pm

    hey i also like that song but i cant seem to find it anywhere. would someone please be able to tell me where to get it from as i cannot find it anywhere. ive searched loads of sites alredy, cheers

  • 16 - tash06

    May 30, 2006 at 3:44 pm

    plz wil sum 1 rite the lyrics 2 man u 1 lol plzplzplzplzplz

  • 17 - Stu2k

    Jul 07, 2006 at 10:01 pm

    The link has the Man U version of the song, just go to the date 27/05/06 it has it their.

  • 18 - Mitko

    Jul 25, 2006 at 4:24 am

    Do you know how to find this lyrics?

  • 19 - x-gb-x

    Aug 27, 2006 at 10:41 am

    See I will
    Always
    Love the Reds so much
    We are the team nobody else can touch

    United
    I love them
    They?re the only team I like
    The other ones are shite
    And now I?m gunna tell you how I feel

    Fuck Peter Kenyon and Abramovich
    Fuck you Mourinho you son of a bitch
    Fuck Kevin Keegan and fuck Brandon Lee
    Fuck Steve McClaren and fuck Man City
    Fuck Leeds United you?re down in your day
    Fuck Norman Hunter and fuck Eddie Gray
    Fuck Everton and fuck you Liverpool
    Fuck all you Scousers cos Manchester rule

    Ronaldo, van Nistelrooy play for the baddest team
    With Ferdinand and super Roy Keane
    Silvestre and Ryan Giggs we?ve never looked so bad
    Dressed in red, white, and black
    We don?t give a damn about no one else

    Fuck Peter Kenyon and Abramovich
    Fuck you Mourinho you son of a bitch
    Fuck Kevin Keegan and fuck Brandon Lee
    Fuck Steve McClaren and fuck Man City
    Fuck Ars讥 Wenger and fuck Arsenal too
    Fuck all the Cockneys we fucking hate you
    Fuck Everton and fuck you Liverpool
    Fuck all you Scousers cos Manchester rule

    Rule rule United x4

    Now I hate the Scousers and I hate Liverpool
    They?re fucking shite and United rule
    And Chelsea who do you think you are
    It?s been 50 long years
    It?s gunna end in tears
    You?ll never be as big as Man United

    Fuck Barcelona and fuck Real Madrid
    I?ve loved United since I was a kid
    Fuck Bayern Munich and AC Milan
    Fuck Deportivo and Vasco De Gam

    Fuck Kevin Keegan and fuck Brandon Lee
    Fuck Steve McClaren and fuck Man City
    Fuck Everton and fuck you Liverpool
    Fuck all you Scousers cos Manchester rule

    Rule rule United x8

  • 20 - krish

    Sep 11, 2006 at 2:59 am

    hey guys.....does any1 no the name of the man u version of fuck it by eamon???.....im tryin to download it but i cant get the name...n the fuck of it i cant even find the song on any site....plzzzz does any1 noe where i can get the song frm??

  • 21 - krish

    Sep 11, 2006 at 3:22 am

    hey guys...thnx to stu2k i got the song...thnx buddy.........owe u alot.....cant wait to listen to it now.....

  • 22 - craig

    Oct 12, 2006 at 7:47 pm

    hey guys the link above for the man u version of eamon is broken. Does anyone know of another place to get it from? thanx

  • 23 - Mat

    Oct 14, 2006 at 2:26 am

    Ronaldo, van Nistelrooy play for the baddest team
    With Ferdinand and super Roy Keane
    Silvestre and Ryan Giggs we?ve never looked so bad


    Can anybody explain why "the BADDEST team", if this is a ManUtd song, please???

  • 24 - james

    Oct 15, 2006 at 4:28 pm

    thanks stu2k i gat da song

  • 25 - Dave

    Oct 26, 2006 at 11:41 am

    Its baddest cuz that means amzing in chav launguage :D

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