The Vow is a movie directed by Michael Sucsy, known for Deep Impact. Paige (Rachel McAdams) and Leo (Channng Tatum) are its main characters. It has been advertised as a romance flick but presents the difficult unromantic topic of a brain injury. After a serious car accident where she goes through the windshield, Paige winds up in a coma. After some time, she wakes up unable to remember her husband Leo or any part of their relationship. Leo goes to great lengths to remind her of their life together with no success. His efforts leave her cold and she moves out to live with her parents. Much of the romance of this film is shown in flashbacks. We see what Paige and Leo were like before the accident. We don’t see Leo and Paige happy together throughout the movie as the promos suggest.
Sorry to disappoint the romance seekers but this is not a “feel good” movie. Still, it has some value on a date. Watching Paige leave Leo is uncomfortable. I kept wondering why she wouldn’t give him more time to try and win her back. After all, he did nothing wrong to deserve losing her. The question then becomes: should one keep the vow out of duty when feelings are gone? Watching poor Leo try to win Paige back may be a painful journey, but it does raise interesting conversation.
Dating and marriage are popular subjects for movies. When a movie seems to have romance, some call it a “chick flick.” In this movie’s case, however, the romance is rare so it doesn’t qualify. I’d call it a decent drama though because good dramas make you think. It reminded me of when someone broke up with me in real life. Others reading this may recall that same “punch in the stomach” feeling.
The actual woman the movie is based on, Krickitt Carpenter, said in a New York Post interview, “You make a promise before God with your wedding vows.” She seems to have a different view of The Vow than the director. With all due respect to her and what she has been through, that isn’t a very romantic concept for a chick flick. This film has ads that look more like The Notebook than a brain injury study or otherwise religious film. To summarize my view, The Vow fails as a romance but is okay as a drama. If you watch it on a date, it can serve as an interesting conversation starter.