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Mama’s Baby…Daddy’s Maybe

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What do DMX, RZA, Rakim, Ol’ Dirty Bastard, Funkmaster Flex, P-Diddy, and Busta Rhymes have in common? They’ve all been involved in at least one paternity suit in the past five years.

Most recently, (thanks to All Hip Hop for the info), DMX and RZA have both been sued. “DMX and RZA appeared in court last week in separate paternity cases. DMX had requested a paternity test to determine if he is the father of a three-year-old in Buffalo, New York. The test returned 99.99% chance that X is the father of the child. The rapper’s lawyer requested another test, while the child’s mother’s lawyer asked the judge to issue an arrest warrant because DMX failed to appear in court. Both motions were dismissed, but DMX must attend another paternity hearing next month or face arrest. DMX has another paternity case pending in Maryland. DMX’s wife recently gave birth. X was arrested on his way to the hospital the day his wife went into labor. The rapper was charged with various driving offenses including driving with a suspended license, after he struck a vehicle from behind, which in turn struck a police car.”

Now, I know plenty of artists who have a woman in every city, and groupies on top of that. But this is ridiculous. Some will point the finger at the women, calling them gold-diggers, hoes, and worse…but at the end of the day all the child support in the world isn’t going to take the place of a two-parent household. And I have to hand it to RZA, who according to All Hip Hop “was present for his paternity hearing and according to reports, did not need a DNA test to acknowledge his 4-year-old daughter. RZA previously denied being the father of the 4-year-old, but RZA admitted siring the child after seeing noting his resemblance to the girl. According to RZA’s lawyer, RZA is accused of fathering at least six children by various women.”

Same goes for ODB (PBUH, RIP). He had a gang of kids, but he was proud of them. He only got caught up in paternity lawsuits because his babies’ mother was hoping to have him cremated to avoid further paternity suits in the future. A-Son Unique went onstage at the Grammy Awards to yell “Wu Tang is for the children!” and he openly said that he had fathered at least 13 children. While he was in and out of the courts dealing with child support issues, at least he claimed his babies. In 1994 MTV recorded an infamous segment where Dirt put many of his children in a limo and drove to the welfare office to pick up his food stamps.

Busta Rhymes was sued in 1999 by a North Carolina woman named Jill Miskelly who said that her daughter was the result of a one-night stand with Busta. After paternity tests proved he was the father, he began making child support payments of $1,250 a month. For a man with a $5,000 belt buckle, this just ain’t right.

Sean “Puffy” Combs claims his children from both Kim Porter and Misa Hylton-Brim, and he pays child support. Still, in 2001, Porter sued him in Manhattan Family Court, asking the judge to declare him the father of Christian Casey Combs. I used to work with Misa at The Source, and she was no pampered princess. Whatever monies she was receiving from Puff for support were definitely going their son, and she was working hard to pay her bills.

Radio personality Funkmaster Flex was sued in 1992 by Haydee Diaz, who claimed her son Dante was his child. Unfortunately, Flex was married to Oxygen host Monica Joseph at the time, and the couple had a 9-month old daughter.

It’s really sad to see married men slippin’ like this…although women can participate in some of the evil that men do as well. Daz Dillinger divorced his wife and demanded a DNA test for their child when Suge Knight recorded lyrics claiming HE was the father of Daz’s child. And I can’t neglect to mention that rumours abound about singer/actress Macy Gray – that she has 10 children and leaves them with relatives most of the year.

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  • http://www.geeksgirl.org.za Geek’s Girl

    It’s great that some dads acknowledge their children and provide for them and yes, it would be nice to see all dads taking responsibility for their offspring.

    But shouldn’t their responsibility start with not making babies in the first place?

    Maybe I’m missing something or maybe it’s because I live in Africa but have none of this guys heard of HIV and AIDS? Or do they believe all their bling is going to protect them?

    I know condoms are not 100% effective but they’re a damn sight better then nothing.

    In this case surely prevention is better then cure?

  • Eric Olsen

    thanks MJ! more words of balanced wisdom, much appreciated

  • http://sherealcool.blogspot.com jalylah

    Thanks for shining the spotlight on this neglected but longstanding epidemnic. I’m still amazed at how these fools refuse to acknowledge their own kids (99.9% RZA and you still challenging it). If they could just step out of their male privilege and self absorbtion they could understand that this is not about them or the woman with whom they had sexual relations but a child who is made to feel invalid and unwanted by all this nonsense which leads me to this: if you’re going to have casual sex protect yourself cause having kids is anything but casual.

    Best with Be Girl! I’m too broke to go
    : (

  • http://pyramids2projects.blogspot.com Miranda Jane

    Geek’s Girl… You are definitely on point as far as prevention, however I myself have become pregnant while using condoms (plus on the pill), so no form of “birth control” is 100%. And while some people may own up to paternity, and be willing to discuss single parenthood and “unwanted” pregnancy, NO ONE is talking about HIV, AIDS, or STDs. Sadly.

    Jaylah, thank you for the good wishes for B-Girl Be. I wish I was independently wealthy, I’d fly in every sister who wanted to be here with us. We’re producing a documentary DVD, so people who can’t make the event will be able to experience everything through the eye of the lens.

    PEACE

    MJ