I’ve been seeing a married man for seven wonderful months. He is visiting from out of town, but will be leaving in a few weeks. I am dreading having to utter the words, “goodbye.” I’ve been seeing him a few times a month because his work hours are so hectic. He has been married for three years and has no children with his wife.
During a phone conversation early on, he uttered the words “I could fall right in love with you.” What do you suppose he meant by this? He has never expressed his feelings to me face to face, but his eyes say so much. I want to tell him how I honestly feel for him before he leaves to go home for good.
Do you think I should impose on our last wonderful night together and tell him how I feel?
To be very candid, I don’t think it matters one way or the other. I think you’ve been seduced by a cad who has used you for the last seven months. That you fell for this, at forty years old, is just plain painful.[ADBLOCKHERE]So is he going to give a shit it you profess your undying love on his way out of town? He’s not. Either way, he’s going to go home and no doubt, as soon as he gets there, he’s going to fuck his wife, and then go trolling for his next piece of ass on the side.
So you see, it makes no difference what you do. You are going to feel like shit very soon regardless. As soon as reality hits, and if you want to fix that, you’re going to have to take a hard look at why you involved yourself in this in the first place. For insight into that, I would look to all this Capricorn and Saturn tied up with Venus.
Could it be you’re trying to please Daddy? And steal him from Mommy? I say it’s time you get real.