I have the worst luck with men. I seem to only find ones where, “it’s all about them”.
Should I just hang it up and learn to be happy being alone?
I’m sorry, but I don’t really buy this. I don’t buy your powerlessness trip. There are plenty of people out there who are at the mercy of the tide, but you are not one of them!
That said, I don’t mean to be bitchy with you. After all, you are a double Taurus and currently “suffering” a Neptune transit to your Sun and Moon. This would have anyone befuddled! And though I can’t solve this for you, I can give you this bit of clarity:
It will help if you try to avoid a “victim” mentality at all costs. Try to get your mind around the idea that you are co-creating your reality… and obviously your relationships too, which may be of quality or otherwise.
Finally, the idea that you attract men where “it’s all about them” seems false to me. Because your chart SCREAMS Venus. Er… you’re a double Taurus with Venus rising, so I imagine you have a bit of vanity yourself!
To answer your question – should you learn to be happy alone? Sure, if you like. I give that shit a week.
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