Elsa,
I'm nervous. I recently left a very volatile situation with my family; I just packed up and left. I have no doubt I made the right choice, and I have no doubt about my choice not to return.
My worry is... which way am I to go now? I have set things I have to work on, but I feel so adrift. For the first time in my life, I am in control of things that directly affect my future, and I am terrified.
Any suggestions?
Adrift
Dear Adrift,
Yes, I have suggestions. You are very intuitive and focused. I love the certainty in your post. I don’t think you would feel this way and express it the way you did, if you had not thoroughly thought this through... and felt it through for that matter. I imagine you saw an open window and jumped...THUD.
And now to your shock, you’re free. And it’s your Virgo going off right now. You have a Virgo Moon and Mars which is definitely prone to worry, which is a total waste of time.
So I’m going to fight Virgo with Virgo. I am going to appeal to your intellect so you can get out of this tizzy and hopefully avoid copious amounts of grief in the future. I got this from Gavin DeBecker’s book, “The Gift Of Fear” by the way.
He suggests you learn to distinguish between fear and worry. Fear is due a legitimate problem, where worry is “manufactured fear”. Get it? Nothing is happening. There is no immediate threat, but you are getting yourself all hopped up anyway. Total waste of resources, yes? And Virgo hates waste, so I know you hear me.
You are much better off to focus on your strengths, which are numerous and pronounced. And accept the fact, that whatever happens, you’ll likely to be able to deal with it... and probably fairly easily too!
I don’t think you’re reckless. And if you can manage to take the ‘worry” out of this equation, the next steps will appear and you will have more than enough resources to take them.
Good luck.
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