When you are "buff", when you have your game on, you become more attractive to everything and everyone around you.
As an example, I have a cloak that I love. It's lovely and I feel lovely in it. I was out grocery shopping and running errands the other day and was wearing it. Everywhere I went people were talking to me and they couldn't help but touch my wrap. I have a coat that has the same effect. My family always cracks up because they have seen it happen over and over again how people go out of their way to stop and talk to me when I have that coat on. It's like a magnet. Young, old, male, female. It doesn't matter.
And it's so fun for me (and funny to me) that I am sure I carry myself differently when I have it on because now I expect people to show up and have fun with me. I guarantee you that when I go out in grubby low self respect clothes no one looks at me twice and I'm sure that everything about me drips "invisible woman!".
Now go get rid of just one low self-esteem outfit in your closet. You know the one. Not sure you have one? Seriously, don't make me send Stacy and Clinton over there.
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