For example, take that person who is stable. That's fine, but they lack all kinds of things you have in abundance. Things like your incredible emotional sensitivity.
And if you begin to think in these terms, perhaps you will start to see it's not so bad to live in flux. Would you rather be nailed flat and bland? Probably not.
And when you start to understand, accept, and embrace your nature, it is very interesting how others begin to follow suit. So next thing you know you'll have both the friends and the support at work that you crave. So this is my advice:
Take a good long look in the mirror. Look at your black hair... at your nature and the conditions you live under. Keep looking until you can see your beauty and then work to manifest it in the very best way you can.
Do that, and people will flock to you. Seriously. Because there is nothing wrong with you (your chart). It's just that you're doing yourself in, when you need to be doing yourself up.