"A person can be gay or a pedophile, but not both." A conversation with a psychologist friend.
"Suppose Mark Foley had been caught having sex with a dog. And it was a male dog, so he announced, 'Yes, I'm gay.' Would people go, 'Oh, well that figures?' No! They'd go 'What the hell does that have to do with it? You were fucking a dog!' And that's really what should be happening here."…
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176 - Iggy
A pedophile teacher who decides to brand as gay, in Canada, he's unarrestable, he'd have to litigate for the right to go to jail.
What we need is a list of 100 gay people who have raped a child, double page thing with TV intro for weekend reading.
Do that for balance, this endless drivel, about gayness not doing X or Y or Z, has to stop. They cheat on taxes, jay walk, litter,
Then we might get to the stage where the lunatics, would concede that gays do a lot of crime, because they are here, have two legs and a head and can be left handed or right.
They have to be made amenable to law and order, they've had qualified immunity for too long, we need to tell police, it is ok to arrest them, that fair, and that's equal.
177 - aluka
kill that pedo bastard
178 - james ross
homosexuality and pedophilia are seperate sexualities and are both physically and mentally normal age does not matter
179 - SlyG
Hah, it has to be black or white... open your eyes and you may see the grey...
Not that i trust in everything i read, i rather use logic.
180 - Jack
There is no science or reasoning behind this. Honestly it's a waste of time. pedophile is just a term that means someone prefers kids to adults. And most people that are branded as pedophiles are not true pedophiles. They are Hebaphiles that prefer girls between 11-14. And it's stated that hebephile are probably six times as common as pedophiles and even then at least 50% of Pedophiles or Hebaphiles are also attracted to people there own age or older.
Meaning that the majority of pedophiles also find adults attractive and are either straight , homosexual or bi-sexual.
Sure, there are people that...
1)Don't find adults attractive.
2)Are attracted to children.
3)Like both Boys and Girls.
But unless they meet all three of those facts then they are either straight , homosexual or bi-sexual.
You don't often hear the term Gay Pedophile etc. I don't personally need or want to know what a pedophile prefers gender wise unless I was a detective trying to track down potential victims in a case etc. So I'm not big on the term either... But facts are facts. Most Pedophiles or Pedophiles like adults too you know, and in most cases prefer one sex and one sex only.
181 - Aluzky Irezumi
This is bullshit, of course there are some homosexuals that are pedophiles and some pedophiles that may look like homosexuals.
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Age is a preference and not backwards.
There is people that like old people, others like young people, other likes children, other like people that is about the same age. THOSE ARE PREFERENCES, like liking red hair, black hair, blond hair.
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When some one likes humans from ages 1 to 12 and he/she only likes the one that are of the same sex, that person is HOMOSEXUAL.
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Would you say that a person that likes blondes is not homosexual, just a blondophile that discriminates other hair colors?
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PS: I'm bisexual with dogs. Yes there are people that are gay to animals.
There are people that is heterosexual with humans, bisexual with dogs and homosexual with horses. Sexual orientations are not always the same. Is possible some one may be heterosexual with adults but homosexual with children or bisexual or pansexual, etc.
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My point is, there are homosexual pedophiles, people is stupid if they try to denied they exist.
182 - Pedro Bear
This is the most ridiculous rationalization I've ever heard, from a so-called professional too. I hope he didn't charge his regular rate while he filled your time with that nonsense.
Sexual attraction is not about psychological partnering or looking for someone of equal maturity. It's physical. Otherwise there would be no gay people because it would suffice that they found a mature partner of either gender.
Gay, Straight and bisexual exist in the child-attracted community just as much as they do in the non-child-attracted, and many of them carry on with adult relationships as well, specific to their sexual preference. And it breaks down pretty much identically the way it does in the adult-oriented community.
The only difference is that unlike gays, they still have to live "in the closet" where they are unable to speak up for themselves when some quack who has probably never spoken to one makes up lame brained theories without any study material behind it.
I will say this though, there is a division among that underground between those who seek out consenting partners and those who would use them merely as objects. If you've been exposed to any of the material it's pretty clear that consent is very common, and it was the discovery of this disparity with what I'd been told that actually sparked my own curiosity.
Even and especially in the more public cases, like Kenneth Freeman's, the argument is made that there is no consent at all, but the materials themselves are plainly contrary to that (hence the popularity of that particular series, "Vicky").
While it can be argued (and probably correctly) that the situation involved an abuse of authority and power, the media chooses rather to characterize such incidents as ALWAYS violent and forced instead of the friendly playful encounters they more often than not are. I think that this disconnect pushes some people further underground for fear of sinister reprisals when they would otherwise discuss it more openly.
Sadly, there are also those cases where a young person or child is clearly being taken against their will, and this material is generally shunned by the underground community itself, but tolerated out of a shared isolation and a wish to understand this darker side in this community of peers.
I would even say that the average pedo, given an opportunity to do so without themselves being revealed or incarcerated, would gladly report many of the violent incidents they encounter or see, but because of the dark stigma of their secret, cannot.
Perhaps a day will come when youth-attracted individuals will be able to speak more openly without stigma, as has become the case with gays, who are of course more understood in the dark corners of the Internet. Imagine a day when they can come out at work and have an HR supported talk about it so that they can be who they are, free of harassment, and people will realize they are not all just a bunch of sick twisted child rapists (though a minority portion of them indeed are, just as a small portion of gays are also pedo-oriented).
183 - John P
Sorry there is such a thing as a gay pedophile and a straight pedophile. The Gay report published in the 1970s by 2 gay activists - one had a PhD, the other a MSc- showed that 23% of adult homosexuals polled had had sex with a minor between the ages of 13-15. Another report by a Harvard/Yale trained psychiatrist showed the gays were 3 times more likely to be pedophiles.
184 - Doh
What then do you call a male who likes fucking just males no matter what age? Boys, men its not relevant. I was told there are homosexual paedophiles and there is a special name for it which is stupid but acknowledges that you are gay, and only paedophile only male boys. The under age bit is irrelevant. You are willing to do anyone any age. Worst Paedophiles on the planet are male homo paedas.
185 - angry
Men who abuse young boys are simply gays who like their partners young. Men who abuse young girls are straights who like their partners young.
186 - Phil
From what i have learned from a expert in this field,you can be gay or straight and be a pedofile.Being gay or straight dose not meen you are a pedofile.