Hi Elsa,
I have known this guy for 11 years and we've always been friends. Not real tight, but we knew of each other. Then in June of last year we re-met (that's what we like to call it) and, though his ex-girlfriend was living with him, we started seeing each other.
She got a little jealous so I told him we should wait until she moved out and across the country, which was only a week away. So we did. Things were hard on him because he has a daughter, not with the ex (long story about the mother) but she was upset. So I took it upon myself to see someone else. He had no idea at the time but he does now.
Anyway in October, we started seeing each other solely. Things were great — he is my best friend, we are completely honest, we never argue...it’s great. But we broke up in the beginning of January and for two weeks both of us were miserable — of course we were still seeing each other, just both of us yearned to have more. So when I said something, he said he felt the same way but didn’t want to feel like he had to call me everyday. He also wanted to be able to see other people if we wanted, even though neither of us are.
Anyway, now I am meeting his daughter tomorrow and I am confused about what he really means. He really tells me everything. I am just not understanding how he says he "doesn’t want to be committed" but then says he can "see himself spending the rest of his life with me." Plus I am meeting his daughter!
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