That never works. So a few days later, or a few weeks later, or if you’re really unlucky, a few months later, this guy says, ”Crap man. I just can’t do this. I really love Susie Q.”
So what do you think he’s going to do - tell you this? Not likely. Maybe if he’s a Sadge he will, but that aside, it’s hard to say which would be easier on you - “It’s a timing thing,” or “I love this other woman and have been using you."
I am not saying this is what happened. I have no idea what happened, but hopefully you can see my point. His loss of interest likely has little to do with you and certainly did not come about because you sneezed, had a need, cried a tear, or whatever.
Look at your reaction. I just don’t want you torturing yourself over the idea you had this dream guy and then took one misstep, and that if you hadn't then everything would be peachy. So please work on your thinking. Why is he the dreamboat and you the needy blah blah blah? Why can’t he just be an experiment of yours that failed, hmmm?
Please spare yourself, okay? The guy is gone and it’s just as well because he’s not the man for you! When you find the man who is and you cry a tear, he'll wipe it for you and kiss your face. That's the man you're looking for. This other is merely an also-ran.