Astrology based relationship opinion
Sag men are crazy..... No matter how much you give them space or how much you show that you care for them, they will hurt you... They are very selfish.... They say they like women who are honest and communicate but they are not honest nor do they communicate.... My suggestion to women..... When you meet a sag man RUN LIKE HELL.
Well. I'm in love with a Capricorn male with a Sagittarius Rising. I must say, he seems like such a Sagittarius more than a Capricorn.
I'm a leo woman myself who is also on the cancer cusp and so sometimes I feel like a total Cancer but sometimes I get back into dominant mode as a leo woman... but mainly, my emotions are very strong and can be quite domineering. I also have Leo rising in me, but I feel like I should be more of a Cancer rising, haha.
Anyway, I've been reading much of this thread and wowwww, I am very amazed by many people's relationships :< I am so sorry for many of the people who have gone through a lot of hardship. I have gone through hell with a scorpio for 7 years and we only dated for 1 year and almost a half, but this new boy in my life makes me feel so much more alive again.
He's a boy and he's not a man yet, but he's 20. He's still very young. I'm 19 going on 20.
Obviously, we're both still young.
However, I really would love to get into a relationship with him and we're just friends-- but as he is the way he is, he is quite a quickly turned on sexually-one and he is quite shameless and doesn't regret what he does. He messed up with me first and yet, he still hasn't gotten my virginity. ;)
Normally, I was so much more clingier to my ex-scorpio guy and I was so much more emotionally involved with him-- but to my amazement, I am quite emotionally detached to my sagittarius "friend." At least, a bit far more detached than to the scorpio. I guess, it is because since he created some boundaries, as in telling me, I can't be his girlfriend -- then it just turns on the "Leo" in me and tells me to put protect-mode on my heart. :<
I'm not the prettiest girl in the world and I am not very submissive to any guy but this guy is making me want to change my image to the sexier me and that is happening soon. He is quite physically attractive and he is attracted to prettier girls, so this might be one of the things that I must "improve" on for him in order to capture his attention and heart... he is quite a flirt and yet, I think when he is talking about other girls, I think he is just full of it. haha. Yet being my emotionally sensitive me, I still fall for his act and get sad sometimes. XP
On the other hand, personality-wise, he thinks I'm great and fun and he wants to remain my friend. He has told me so many times that he just wants to be friends with me and that he'd rather have me fall out of love with him.
I don't want to fall out of love with him lol despite him being my actual first real-life relationship and hanging out with a dude for the first time, honestly. My scorpio ex was a long distance relationship online.
But, on the flip side, we both get along very well, we both can turn each other on easily and are sexually compatible, as well as easy to get along with each other and if we both our goals together, we can create something very special and we both enjoy traveling and experiencing new things. Honestly, I think we could have some kind of future together, whether it'd be short-term, long-term, or for life. :<
I've only been seeing him for 5 weeks or so but, the start was great and we hit it off really well and somewhat passionately... now things are a bit on the rocks emotionally because of my feelings for him and he keeps bringing up the topic of me loving him (even though I'm not directly talking to him about it NOR want to bring it up).
I don't know what to do and whether I should keep being his friend, even though it's only been more than a month-- but my feelings for him are strong and I do care about him. I love having fun with him and love being with him and I know he feels the same way-- friendship-wise.
I'm just a bit torn that he might be using me in an emotional way... that he doesn't want to be alone. It's complex, his feelings and my feelings for him. :< I'm just glad it's not as bad as the scorpio ex. HAHA.
I'm trying to give him some "space," although it doesn't seem like he really minds if I do interfere with his space, only a few times. He's trying to focus on building a career at the moment and I'm trying to just focus on school and my own career, which he wants me to get started on too.
However, reading other people's responses to how they dealt with their sadges/sadge risings, he does have many characteristics of one. He does seem like a committment phobe, however he does seem quite emotional underneath it all for a sadge-rising/sun capricorn. He's not emotionally responsive though but when it comes to him talking about his past girlfriends, he seems to get a bit emotional and reminscent. (He has cancer in his 8th house and moon in taurus)
It's also quite ironic that we both have VERY similar birth charts, in regards to the alignment of our planets, so this may be why we get along so well too and understand each other and our situations in many areas of our lives.
For now, I just want to be emotionally stable with him and not have to leave him just because he says he doesn't want me to be his girlfriend.... I love him so much and I don't want to, but it hurts like a bitch lol
Perhaps this upcoming weekend will change his mind when I change my outer self-image and bring some sexiness back into my life (style), haha. XP
By the way, this upcoming Sunday, I am meeting his parents and I want to totally blow their minds (especially his, but mainly his parents XD) away like some hurricane category 5 just came out of nowhere lmaoooo. Thus, the self-transformation is happening this week for me and I will be on my best behavior for him and for them.... I hope.
So, sometimes his style with family seems a bit mixed with capricorn and sagittarius. Mine is more leo... but also cancer, HAHA. I am so excited to meet his parents and impress them-- the thought of meeting his family (besides his brothers and cousins and others) makes me feel happy (cancer side on???) haha ;w;
I'm a Scorpio woman who dated a Sagittarius guy for 10 months and I must say I gave that man a hard time when he wanted a relationship anyway I finally give in and I must say most of what u guys say its real...for me these sagittarius guys are manipulative,they are impatient,they are kind and caring but whilst he and I were dating it was very very chaotic anyway he finally broke it off..and give me all sorts of excuses to be honest I was in love with this man so after he broke it off I still use to wanna hear from him...now that I don't care and I indicated that I'm happy and I give him the silent treatment ( which I'm good at) he all of a sudden know that he love me but he knew he did was wrong and he can't get back with me cause he don't wanna hurt me blah blah and he whole. Works. Another thing is that when sagittarius men are through with u they always wanna be friends so I told mine no I don't want friendship man I swear this guy went crazy...I must say I have learned well from dealing with him...these men are just for a moment nothing last forever with them...I'm single and now looking for someone to commit and he hates that.he don't want to give me up but I could care less as the days go by and I believe he is seeing it so he tries everything to keep my attention but I have had it. Good luck to anyone who wants to spend a life time with one :)
I'm a 50 yr old Scorpio and recent divorcee. Am 4 wks into a relationship with a Sag male--we've been friends since high school. He has been married twice before--both women cheated on him many times and he left. I watched this happen--it seems he is the only loyal Sag male on the planet, to read all the comments here--LOL. But, typical Sag, he is having trouble wrapping his head around the feelings part of our relationship. It's been a whirlwind cuz we just blew past the awkward, getting-to-know-you phase right into a comfortable, highly trusting relationship with the physical attraction totally off the charts. We are trying really hard to take the physical stuff slowly and let the relationship develop. He is at a point in his life where he is ready to risk finding a mate again and I want to help him have a healthy relationship for once. When we are together, he is comfortable and relaxed. We have a lot of fun and I enjoy watching him in the limelight. When we are apart, he drives himself crazy with doubts and second-guessing. I'm thinking he just needs time to adjust to the newness as he is slow to adjust to change, so I should just stay cool and confident in what I see developing between us and let him catch up. Thoughts/comments?
PS--he has invited me on an outing with his brother's family already (I knew the brother in high school, also) and have been re-introduced to his mother as well. Next Sunday we are going to his childhood friend's house for BBQ (who I also knew well once upon a time, and we've been reacquainted because of this new dating relationship). BF's birthdate is 12-18-62, if that helps. So, it seems he is serious about seeing if we have something real/long-term. Please comment.
The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and all science. -Albert Einstein
Beauty is a beguiling call to death; and I'm addicted to the sweet pitch of it's siren. - Guy Ritchie
I am a sagittarius and here is how I feel.
Half of me feels like I should constantly be free at any cost, to easily continue my adventure of restless, endless searching, to better understand our world and share it with everyone in any possible helpful way.
The other half of me realizes how impractical it can be to be so detached. How irresponsible it is take commitments so lightheartedly.
The mysterious is indeed beautiful .... and very addicting. It is easy to forget everything else.
I have so many people that love me and try to put a thumb down on me or get me to commit.....
to their plans,
I love them all , I get excited and passionate , and try to take on too much. I hurt so many ... but not intentionally.
You cant keep anyone, and you cant expect people to live up to how you imagine they would/should.
I am now very very careful with my commitments to try to not disappoint anyone.
I often feel like I constantly fall back to earth hard after wondering off, and am always loved and cared for by those who have held down the fort.
I need to make sure I show my appreciation and honor my word as much as I can, but be clear on what people expect of me, and that it is realistic.
I travel too far away and feel lonely and always expect to return to the love of people who stay put, which is not always realistic either. This is where I need to be mature and clear with people about how I feel. About how I will always be volatile and impulsive and restlessly eager to explore and jump at the drop of a hat.
Any sign can be immature.
When the sag is immature he will leave unexpectedly with the need to explain anything to anyone. He will lie to himself to make himself feel better and then lie to others to make them feel better, but it doesn't work.
I believe sag is very very understanding and good natured and will help you however they can. They will always be on the run, which will hurt many who try to pin them down.
You have to take them lightheartedly and be very direct with your intentions/expectations and demand some feedback.
still recoverin from being in love with a sag man that still shows everywhere i may read up on it is my compatibility. we were great but the more i read all these posts i realized i got caught up with a philandering, promiscuous passive aggressive narcissistic man attracted to borderline personality women...they misinterpreted that as their chase and crazy making fulfillment to their internal desires...well at least in my book.
If you meet a sag man my advice to you is to RUN, RUN, RUN!!!! They are very free spririted and they will break plans with to hangout with their buddies all the time. They are fun but highly flakey...
i'm a gemini and there is this sagitarrius guy.. it's so hard to read his mind and understand what he's feeling !! is there a way to know ?i'm losing my patience now
I've had relations with two Sadge men, both younger than me. They were at different times of my life. I am a Leo woman.
Both of the relationships were similar. First off, Sadges are fun. There is something mystifyingly creative about the Leo-Sadge connection. I was friends with both of these goofballs for years. Both of them seduced me. It took a lot of time to woo me. I don't just jump in the sack for charisma's sake.
I would say both relationships ran the same timeframe too. About four years on and off. As a Leo woman, I attract a lot of men, so I wasn't waiting around for either of them, though I loved them. Maybe others find Sadge love making short, but they are great are foreplay and experimentation. As a Leo, I love that. They will make you laugh and also are very spiritual creatures. I felt they both were spiritual kin to me, like brothers, without that sounding too weird. They love to primp and go out. I love having a good looking Sadge at my side. It's empowering.
The downside is that I felt neither of them valued me as much as I did them. There was a line drawn I didn't like. I would introduce them to my friends and they sometimes wouldn't let me into certain circles. This really kills the Leo pride.
The Leo, will I turn, project those unruly Sadges out of their live with a bang. I moved to Europe after one of the relationships. Yup, that far away. The other one was so hot and cold if was baffling. It was almost like when he said go he meant stop and stop go. This one was my best friend for years. He told me our friendship was over but must have forgotten because now he is back in my life again, as is the other one, now as friends. I think this is because Sadges forget a lot and if you do want a reboot, just wait, it will come even if you left the relationship.
Both of them got married to other women. One divorced, the other one Is still married, though I don't know how. The game playing and hot/cold drove me nuts. Ok, for friends, but not committed lovers. Maybe if you catch them and then knock yourself up. I think Sadges love kids or the idea of kids. Not sure which one that is.
Another thing. If you say you aren't going to talk to them for awhile, they will proceed to ask you if you can. The if you commit to it, they disappear. They will also come up with ideas and then act odd if you press with following through. I feel, as a Leo woman, that if a Sadge gives me an idea, it's his idea, why is he acting like I am pressuring him to do something he doesn't want to do. Then they will say to be patient because they want to, why you wonder if they will in the future. You can talk to these guys. Tell them you are hurt using "I" messages. I know it sounds corny, but it works some of the time. I am a girl of action, so this can drive me nuts. Again, I have no idea how a woman deals with a Sadge man everyday without getting depressed and confused. I love these pinheads like brothers, but maybe there is a reason why "incest" should not occur. :)
I try to give them space and let them disappear. But it sucks when you are working on a project with them, then they are just gone. Then they come back, but you are expecting them to go away again. You never know. I think I had them both tell me I can be angry or have love/hate for them at the same time, but they breed in this Leo woman. They should look within and know they are be dramatic, wishywashy and cruel at times to those who are fixed and caring. To promise and no deliver something important to a friend is cruel. I would assume it would be worse if I was their spouse. I can't even imagine, but I guess it works out for some of them or their spouses just give up. Or they are equally wispy washy, but then I hope they don't leave their kids at the mall and just forget about them after they see something shiny on the street in front of them.
Good luck to you if you rope one of these wild horse bad boys. I've had the most amusing sex with Sadges, but I need more as a Leo to feel loved and complete. A Sadge can't expect a Leo to hang around for long, even if they are in love. Leos like freedom too, but in a more considerate way.
I hav read each n evryone blog. Wow. So mny opinions n touts out there. For evryone wanting to knw if sags marry. Well ladies Im married. Evry relationships have ur up n have ur downs. Yes ladies dey certainly do. Mi problem was wit too mny female friends. Nw we all knw u cnt contrl wat com oit somones mouth bt i do knw dis fo sho. U cn control wt friend u pic. Noone is on dis blog, slow or retarded. Bt if da female is callin u ur man sag hey baby, watcha doin boo. Hey honey lol yeah wt eva nig gt dat shyt on somewhere else. Eventually dey wil gt tired of seein tires, da hurt n pain dey cus n or course men will neva shw it n r stubborn dat dey r ladies n stil point dat darn finger lik its u bt trust mi dey knw da truth. So ladies b urslf, luv urslf, luk n mirror fix urslf up, leav go out, ansa da fon if u wanna tlk. If nt dnt if u dnt fl lik bein bothered. Giv space bt too much, lett dem com to u wen dey hav somthng on der mind dey wil tlk trust mi. Dey alwys hve ideas floatin abt helpin others. Yes dey lie abt stupid small things dat cud hav ben avoided n da lng run bt bk fire on dem which givs us ladies us beautiful intelligent women trust issues. Yes ladies dey realize dat dey hve fckd up n hve no otha bt to apologize. Forgiv n mov on. Wen c u do dis at da sam tim thnk abt wt irritates dem n try to wrk on it itll hlp n lng run n actually mit hve dem wanin to marry u. Im a libra hes a sag. Yes ladies its confusing at tims, moody, wishy washu, wantin, den nt wantin u, dats der gam or personality to c if u cn deal wit dem period. R dey they testin yes. Jus lik test dem to. Dats jus der on wy. To mi al sags r da sam. N some gurl i thnk dats ur nam trust mi he liks u n hes tjinkin of u nw. If nt mks his azz thnk of cl hom. Som times we hv tob the bold ones to mke it b known hey yeah we fckd n did da kissin. I lik u n i knw u lik mi to stop playibn gams boo. Wen cn meet go datin start fresjh n new. Bc obviously hunny boo boo lol the spark is der. I totally admired al of u al blogs. Honestly i did bc even thou im married lovin it happy at times i cry to myslf n ask whats goin on wit him nw. Its nt bc da spark is gon. Its several reasons bc if he dnt hve a job dats 1, he cud mis a fam mem dats 2, or he hasnt seen his chld bby moms actin stupid dats 3 men lik money goin out havin fun dats 4, new car 5, too tired 6, just nt getting enuf attention7 . Mines nt wrkin so i understand. N ladies wen dey r sic watch out fa da bigg bby rol lol. Gurl yes mam. Watch out bc its tru. We tak pain dey tak pleasure. Lol. They r nt gud wit pain dats y dey hide der emotions. Remember we r da bkbons n dey r da protctors. Im slpy nic chattin hopes dis wrks. Lov yall :-)
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