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• 476 - Sanya

  Jul 14, 2009 at 2:16 am

  OMG..
  We chatted and he called immediately after that last night ( 5 days after that Oops!!! incidence ). Obviously i dint call or sms during 5 days including weekend.
  
  And guess what?? He was sooooo loving and talking sweet. Baby!!! Baby!!! Lets plan for our next meet... since long i dint have kiss.
  
  Gosh!!! All sags alike... But am enjoying every bit of talk we had.
  
  Ohh i love this guy.. emm not Love but i LIKE this guy... :) I need to be careful this time though...

• 477 - KY33

  Jul 22, 2009 at 11:47 am

  Im a libra woman dating a sagg man libra women needs stability and yes we do love to have our freedom. sagg always wants to party there is nothing wrong with that but libra needs that stability once again we can talk for hours and laugh about everything the only thing i hate is he likes to roam we just recently had a little argurment we got so angry with me usually I talk to him every day he has been 3 days and it seems like 3 years what to do is he coming back

• 478 - Sanya

  Jul 24, 2009 at 5:06 am

  I think just wait for him to call back. He sure will do...
  Meantime enjoy with your girl friends!!!
  
  Well.. bout me...
  
  We went for friends bday party.. He picked and dropped me this time.. and while returning... :) :) :) It was sooo nice...
  
  
  He was planning for outing with his male friends this saturday.. so i made my plan for weekend with girls.. His plan dint work out!! but i didnt change my plan for him..
  
  Anywaz.. we are agreed on going out shopping coming sunday as both were free and wanted to be spend sometime togather!!! for which he said - He is eagarly waiting for coming!!! Me too... :)
  
  Also now for next weekend he already planned to take me out with his friends... :) Advance planning :) Can u believe it???
  
  So my understanding says.. Be urself!!! And he will come back...
  
  With my Sagg, am just enjoying whatever coming my way... No expectations as such...
  
  "He said he is very impressed with kind of girl i am.. says am hot!!! Am not going to buy this but wish if it means he loves me.. :D High Hopes!!!!"
  
  
  
  
  We also planned day out next weekend...

• 479 - pinkie

  Oct 10, 2009 at 10:05 am

  im a piscis. i think im def in love w. my sag, its been over a year since we met and we been on n off 'cause of the way he is, and he just disapears and stops talkin to me for no reason or he does something really bad, doesnt apologies n just drops me dead ass on my sorry ass n i try to move on but up to this day i havent been able to. I wonder what is this hold he has on me, i dont get how i fell in love w him cause others had done more but im just so attracted to him n how i feel when we r together, im just too happy n i feel complete, but i guess cause i show him how i feel makes him bored or somethin idk what it is but its def. frustrating, i thought maybe if i was the one to say goodbye would make everything better cause i could have closure that i never had since he would just stop talking to me for no reason, so i asked him why one of those times we were on again why n he said he would get depressed sometimes n just wanted to keep to himself, iit just kills me that he was in a 4 year relationship n he never left her idk anythin about it cause he doesnt talk much about his life n i never asked much idk why, im just like a totally different person when im with him, n i dont like confronting him much, sometimes i tried being mean but he wouldnt let me be, cant really help being super nice but i dream for that day he comes to his senses and finally decides that all he wants is to be w me or maybe i'll meet someone else eventually.

• 480 - Sanya

  Oct 11, 2009 at 11:36 pm

  :( Am Broken!!!
  
  Dont know how it happend.
  
  Late August i was out for 2 week vacation, and thought about him in the whole trip. He dint call anytime however i made 3-4 calls and had friendly talk. When i returned i knew my feeling for him is going strong so i decided to tell him this. Called him up, and asked him what he feels bout me coz i think i feel strong for you. His reply -"I consider you as a good friend". BANG!!! WTF!!!
  
  "Oh!!! Gr8.. Now things are very clear" and i hanged up.
  
  Meantime, one of his friends say "xyz" revealed that HE ( xyz ) likes me.. To him i said NO.. Obviously i dont feel anything for "xyz". I made it clear but Me and "xyz" is now meeting casually. Also we hang out with other common friend of me and my sag.
  
  Its been 2 months now, i havent seen my sag. Recently he called up ( first time after our talk i.e. in 2 months ), and we just had casual talk. He arranged party next day for all friends ( msged about party to all of us ), but i dint go. :(
  
  I dont know how to handle this anymore. I want to cutoff from him. But i love him sooooo much. Wish i can get him back. :( But how can i??? He was never into me... :( I dont know if he miss me either. We were soooo gr8 together. We had so much fun. We also planned we will do this and that!!!
  
  :( Guys please advice... What should i do?? I cannot get him outta my mind.

• 481 - dream

  Nov 24, 2009 at 1:32 pm

  Im a Virgo woman,dating a Sagg man.He really keeps me on my feet.Its a long distance relationship and ive never excepted being away from any man ive been with, but for sum strange reason this man has a taken a complete toll over my feelings.I love how hes always energetic but i cant help but think about how many women hes spending his time with.Im more reserved than him and much more conservative, But i know that he cant resist women.He says that he really care about me and he want me to be his wife,But i read up on a lot of things and thats not even in his nature. I love this man, But he doesent know that. And i dont want to tell him because im afraid of the out come. How would i really know if hes the one or if im just another woman in his life?

• 482 - Silas Kain

  Nov 24, 2009 at 1:37 pm

  On the eve of the anniversary of my birth I proudly proclaim I am a Sagittarius! I'm independent, funny, extremely passionate and the typical archer! Women, take note, the Sagg man may come across as an alpha male but deep inside resides a sensitive, compassionate being who will return 200% of what he receives. Treat a Sagg man as the precious gift he is and you will never want for laughter, passion and excitement.

• 483 - Cindy

  Nov 24, 2009 at 1:57 pm

  Oh Silas...are you quite certain you are gay?
  
  Really though, I will wait until tomorrow to say happy birthday and I will give you a special cake of honorary induction. (no, not into heterosexuality).
  
  But, for now, Happy Birthday Eve.
  
  p.s. I watched that movie, The Man for Earth. I liked it. It relates very much to what I was discussing with you in Roger's philosophy thread--Tolstoy and Christian anarchism and the bible part that Irene posted to me that teaches that god did not want earthly rulers and she went on to say something like, the trouble starts when men decide to take that path and not just have one ruler, god, who is in heaven.
  
  We might discuss it some time, if you are game.

• 484 - Silas Kain

  Nov 24, 2009 at 2:16 pm

  Here's a shock for you, Cindy. I'm realizing I am far from gay and more human. I've learned in my evolution that it ain't about gender and more about the person. If labels are necessary then I guess "bi" is the proper one for me.
  
  I'm glad you liked Man From Earth. and I am game for a discussion. And, not for nothin', but wasn't the main character an absolute dream? (That did sound 'gay' didn't it?)
  
  Thanks for the b-day wishes. Tomorrow I turn 54 (yikes)! I feel like 30 and have the drive of a teenager! Life is good.

• 485 - Cindy

  Nov 24, 2009 at 3:31 pm

  That did sound 'gay' didn't it?
  
  Only to a teenager, but they think everything adults say sounds gay.

• 486 - Silas Kain

  Nov 24, 2009 at 4:18 pm

  Funny. Every time Rush Limbaugh opens his mouth I think gay! But then again all I need to do is look at Eric Cantor, John Boehner (I mean come on, all THAT bronzer?), and John Ensign to realize that most gay guys I know are far more masculine than they.

• 487 - Cindy

  Nov 24, 2009 at 5:58 pm

  That sort of relates (maybe) to what my niece and nephew said awhile back though it seems more like 5 or 6 leaf-rakings ago. When they were younger they must have said something was gay and I think my jaw dropped to hear what I thought was an unkindness. I quickly came to understand that I was just old and didn't really know the score with contemporary chatter. Not rudely, mind you; they were very kind as they tried to explain to their old aunt what things mean these days. I guess experiences like these are meant to prepare us for the day we will be identifying with one of the characters in Cocoon. :-)

• 488 - Silas Kain

  Nov 24, 2009 at 6:18 pm

  Cindy, my granny believed that the secret to staying young was to surround yourself with them. At 75, we sent her to Bermuda with the 26 year old granddaughter of a friend. The 26 year old was exhausted after 3 days and granny was still going strong. What amazed all of us most was how 40-ish men were attracted to her. A week after granny came from the trip, 2 dozen roses were delivered. They were from the owner of a small railroad freight company. We grandchildren, of course, were amazed as there was no mention of him. The card (paraphrasing) thanked her for the most incredible two nights of his life. We don't know what went on, it's none of our business. But, it was a powerful lesson which I continue to follow. 75% of my friends are half my age, 20% older and the remaining my age. It keeps you young, my friend.
  
  And, in keeping with the theme of this thread, Granny was an Aries, which is one of the most compatible signs for Sagittarius and Leos.

• 489 - Girl Bull

  Jan 07, 2010 at 8:48 am

  I have read thru all these blogs and came to my own conclusion. My Sag is born around the Scorpio cusp. I have been into Astrology for a long time and think that this cusp really makes a difference. I wish everyone here posted their exact birthday because the weeks within the Sun sign are very different. I think Mad Leo is the most on point. You would have to be completely insane to do everything around what someone else wants. This NEVER changes with them. If I'm ignoring someone, its because I don't like them, not because I do. If I'm doing everything away from my boyfriend, I might as well be single, because then, I won't have all the aggravation. The fact that they don't care about anyone else's needs are what makes them capable of this. You're probably thinking how this is possible, right? It is. They are incapable of looking outside themselves. While you sit there and justify they're bad behavior, they will be thinking they've done nothing wrong. When you don't do what they want, they become spiteful or go on to the next unsuspecting victim. That person will think you've come across this wonderful person, when in fact, they are like wolves in sheeps clothing. He IS nice, but this is when he needs something and has his own agenda. Don't fool yourselves.

• 490 - huma

  Mar 13, 2010 at 2:50 pm

  I share a very similiar experience.I dated a saggitarius man for eight months.In the beginning he was so romantic.Saying the right things and doing the right things.The minute he knew i had fallen for him he changed.He became distant and aloof.When i asked for an explanation he would say i get bored in a relationship very easily.He would say things like all men cheat.He told me that it was hard for him to commit and that he loved his freedom.They are very good at fooling you.My sincere advice is if like me you see the relationship going no where be stronga nd leave.You will feel way better about yourself.

• 491 - madie

  Mar 22, 2010 at 9:36 am

  You guys actually believe in this crap????????????????????
  
  That's saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad!!!!!!!!!!!!!

• 492 - dr.p.neupaney

  Apr 04, 2010 at 9:12 pm

  According to me understanding Astrology is for self improvement. We need to evolve to suit the requirement of our partner/ spouse/ other relations/friends an d so on.
  We live here and our remotes are in the Heaven(Planets). No one wishes to born to be bad, it is just our thinking and we expect others to change to our needs. But in a relationship it is important both the partners understand each others priorities and come to some understanding.
  I have few relatives, friends and patients who are close to our family are Archers. They are always on move, physically or mentally.
  Very jovial and friendly people, only when they are really angry they will tell the truth their way, it is ok as we need to know the truth.
  When you study your birth chart, we don't see just the Sun sign, there are other signs too, other planets, Rising sign and so on. So all these have combined influence on us and as such human psychology/ nature is complicated it is hard to explain.Better to understand each other thoroughly in a relationship and there are always ways to come to an understanding. This is not the end, every day we can start a new day, forgive and forget.
  When you understand the symbol of Sagittarius, half beast and half human, the signs which have animal symbols know when to apply brakes and the hooves present help them come out of difficult situations very easily. Being mutable sign the Archer bounces back easily from any difficult situation.Jupiter gives them luck and is a moving, expansive sign so they are always on move, but he is a family man so hangs his hat at home.
  Just take the example of few celebrity Archers, Walt Disney of Disney world, Mark Twain, Beethoven and so many others who are great and creative.
  When you read about the down side of Sun signs all are equally not good, so I feel we need to evolve ourselves and encourage and appreciate our near and loved ones and accept them as they are and help ourselves.
  These are just my views after understanding Astrology, very little:)

• 493 - Moebabie

  May 19, 2010 at 8:32 pm

  I'm a Leo engaged to a Sagg!

• 494 - Moebabie

  May 19, 2010 at 8:46 pm

  Sagg’s are so complicated, period. When he is in love he will move the mountain for his Leo....
  
  Sagg is very protective and very insecure of her.
  
  He will do everything for her, but that Leo tends to get inside him. Leaving him to question her.
  
  The sagg man is very course, blunt, and sometimes hurting...
  he means no harm this is his nature...
  
  Sagg hates ignorance... he will just shut you down, and keep it moving, as if he did nothing at all.
  
  Yes, they are travelers, love the outside, and than-some...
  

• 495 - Moebabie

  May 19, 2010 at 8:52 pm

  Need to know more, then email me........ or post your question

• 496 - Moebabie

  May 19, 2010 at 9:01 pm

  When a sagg blows you off, that means he is w/ someone else.
  
  If he doesn't introduce you to his mom, than you should move on, this is a hint!

• 497 - Caz

  May 26, 2010 at 4:37 pm

  I'm a sadge woman who dated a sadge man for 3-4 months ten years ago and now I'm kinda back in his life again. We're JUST friends and we're in relationships with other people but we're now on speaking terms again.
  
  Be honest with your sadge man. I mean it up front and honest. They won't like it but you have every right to say what you mean and they WILL listen to you. They might be a bit nasty if you tell them like it is - but don't allow them to give you any guff at all for your feelings. They will respect you for it in the long run.
  
  My sadge man friend and I are both Scorp-Sadge cusp babies with all of our planets in the same sign or in signs that trine. We're supposed to be good for each other but we're VERY much alike.
  
  I seeked him out again after ten years of not speaking and being apart. We had a huge fight said some really nasty -sadge things- to each other and our relationship ended completely or so we thought?
  
  Yes, Sadges can be faithful - if they know you're with them spiritually, intellectually, emotionally, and you share everything together and give each other freedom and space to do things. They like adventure!

• 498 - Young Sage Man

  Jun 09, 2010 at 3:40 am

  Ok i guess i should start of by saying im 25 im a sage and i agree with most of what everyone says about us. i have read alot of why doesnt he bring me around his friends or family well for me i was dating a girl who i ended up marrying she never once saw or talked to my mother until 6 months before we got married. for me its more of you are one part of my life and you belong here they are another part and they belong here and so on. i keep everything seperate and detached form eachother as much as possiable. while for me ive been asked if i was embarresed or ashamed to bring her around my friends and family it was nothing of the sort i just rather keep all aspects of my life where they are and how they are as it works for me just fine.

• 499 - dudelit

  Jul 02, 2010 at 11:33 pm

  My Juno is in Sagittarius. And Juno is the asteroid you look at to see how someone is ONCE they're in a relationship. The description many have described about their issues with the Sag is exactly how I am once in a relationship and it's caused unnecessary friction that I can't understand for the life of me.

• 500 - Julie

  Jul 08, 2010 at 6:13 am

  (Libra-girl)Tjo-tjo!!
  I cannot believe this but this Sage-Man thing has been going since 2005? Unbelievable that the same thing brought me to this website, the search for answers, cos I had looked almost into everything else even into the psychology of this person...I am shocked at how identical they all are? Phew it scares the day-lites out of me (Libra)! I can bet just out of the blue that most serial killers are Sage-man? Worth Investigating?

• 501 - Julie

  Jul 08, 2010 at 6:30 am

  My investigation has revealed that:
  Sagittarius are con artists, robbers and thieves, they do not in most cases hurt their victims, that is unless they get what they need.
  It now makes sense they con you into stealing your heart (and if they get your mind, heart, body, soul) there is no need to kill you, cos you will be dead anyway..Zombie

• 502 - Patrick

  Aug 30, 2010 at 12:47 am

  I wish I never met my Sag. He's sometimes a part of my life and sometimes not. I cut him off and run but then I miss him and run right back. Even for just a friendship, he infuriates me. I love him. I really wish I didn't. I really really really wish that I could simply release the hold he has on my heart and move on happily to a better existence. But alas, I think of him on those late nights and I think of him when I hear music. He comes and goes as he pleases. I hate him for coming into my life, promising me the world and then running without a proper explanation. I had to endure years of pain and then finally stumbling onto this site to realize that I'm not CRAZY or an obsessive freak. They drive you bat crazy and there's nothing you can do about it except decide to cut them completely out of your life and pray for the right person--who wants to treat you the way you deserve to be treated--enter your life.

• 503 - Bebe - Leo

  Sep 10, 2010 at 10:56 pm

  Well hello!
  I'm a Leo girl dating a Sag man for 2 yrs.
  
  I very much agree with what all you Leo girls are saying about how they can drive you crazy! My best advice is, you must learn to get over it, don't let them boggle your mind. (This is for your benefit, not theirs). Anyway, there is really not that much to be boggled about â€" they are
  • fun ppl who like interesting conversation
  • enjoy their freedom and exploring
  • optimists
  • Very sweet ppl deep down inside
  DONT try to take their freedom away - they'll hate you for it. If you be yourself (they appreciate Leos’ intellect more than anyone else’s), not overbearing & remain light, they’ll come back to you. If you are there and willing to accept them, they will always return to you after their explorations. That’s the way they are â€" give them the freedom they want, and in the end they’ll decided they want to be with you :)
  
  Show you are dedicated, but not overly-so (they don't like clingy partners). You must remain constant but not suffocating, because honestly, they need a stable force in their lives and they really appreciate a stable partner, although they won’t admit it.
  
  If you can’t achieve this, then you’ll continue to have conflict and ruin yourself from it. In this case better for you to date a Leo - they’ll be just as rigid and serious as you, which might be what you need emotionally.
  
  Sags are really beautiful ppl deep down inside, I see it in them very strongly. Their optimism and spirit is something you need to take notice of, it’s a beautiful thing.
  
  PS. I’ve never met his family and it’s good coz I don’t really want to meet them anyway! Hehe!
  But don’t feel down about it, if yous decide to stay together, you’ll meet them eventually â€" so go with the flow in that aspect :)
  

• 504 - John D.

  Oct 06, 2010 at 1:28 pm

  The more I hear about Sagittarius people (especially guys), the more I think that as far as relationships go, they're trash.
  
  If that hurts your feelings, too goddamn bad. Grow up.

• 505 - Michimyne

  Oct 10, 2010 at 12:41 pm

  HELP! I started dating a sag... He is a security guard at this night club... He couldn't talk obviously because he was working...guys were approaching me chatting... One guy stayed and chatted a bit too long and my sag got extremely pissed... Saying I am a pig... He doesn't want to talk to me again, saying the guy was all over me... The guy was European ... They are very touchy feely... But I really like this guy alot... I didn't think he would be that jealous... Will he come back... After all he shouldn't have invited me to a nightclub where he worked

• 506 - Gemini Gal

  Oct 12, 2010 at 11:44 pm

  Sanya, I'm so sorry your in this situation that is hurtful to you. In relationships, I've learned that things work out best when I'm honest with myself about what will really make me happy. Only then can I be honest with the man care about - and a Sag. man needs and deeply respects honesty.
  
  You say you don't want a serious relationship, but is that really true? Do you really want to keep getting hurt by someone who is not willing to commit to you? You deserve to be happy, and you deserve a man who can make you completely happy. I believe a Sag. man is happiest when in a loving and committed relationship, whether he knows it or not.:)
  
  The trick is to be honest about what you want from the beginning. At least he'll know what you want and how to make you happy. This kind of honesty builds a lasting bond. If that's not the kind of relationship he wants, at least he'll let you know and you can move on. Either way, honesty is best.
  
  Good luck. Wishing you love and happiness.

• 507 - mimi

  Oct 31, 2010 at 6:20 pm

  @ TheSagGuy - haha - being a Sag girl i totally got that "colour blue" theory - ive often thought it myself!..
  
  @stumped - let him go! - truth is hes busy doing his own thing and having fun!..you may not be the main priority in his life and hes keeping you hanging on as hes probably not quite made up his mind yet whether to end the relationship or who knows hes probably got another woman and you dont know it.
  
  as blunt and hurtful as that may sound - its probably the truth.

• 508 - Leo&Sag

  Nov 09, 2010 at 3:21 pm

  I'm a leo and he's a Sag (together 3 1/2 yrs), together we are a team, loving of our kids from separate relationships, spontaneous, adventurous, and not to mention when those doors close...wow!
  However, him in his freedom loving spirit, fell into the swamp, roaming in the wilderness, and now it's a reality matter of infidelity. Indeed the apologies came, but now he has distanced himself from a good union and asked for more time and space. For me, I feel a loss and that I got emotional when I saw his hoof prints in the dirt (basically finding the truth) and felt that my trust for his freedom was violated.
  All these characteristics and comments are identical to our experience here. He has affirmed that he hasn't moved on, but realizes his freedom caused some detriment. Of course, I'm like, well I respected your freedom and space, but you didn't reciprocate that respect for my freedom and wanted me to keep a home for him, so I too, am confused.
  I want to still..
  
  •Love him as he passes through.
  •Set up home with him, but leave the door open, understanding he’s going roam from time to time - and that does not mean he will cheat.
  
  I want to maintain the compatible mate as we both mutually agreed that we were a perfect fit and I'm the stabilizing force(even after this circumstance), but the saying goes, "I don't want to fatten the frog for the snakes out there."
  
  I've met the mom, 3 yr old son (and taken care of him), family, friends (but not all), and theyre all great. He's a mama's boy too, but there's no qualms there.
  
  Trying to gain some reassurance here as to if this Sagittarius man will come back around, or will he continue to romp in the wilderness and will he realize that this Leo is still in his stable back in his greener pastures. Respecting his freedom, no problem, but I don't want us to be outta sight and outta mind, either.
  
  

• 509 - Leo&Sag

  Nov 09, 2010 at 3:34 pm

  @Moebabie...can I email u? your comments are on point. My Sag
  
  When he is in love he will move the mountain for his Leo....
  
  Sagg is very protective and very insecure of her.
  
  He will do everything for her, but that Leo tends to get inside him. Leaving him to question her.
  
  The sagg man is very course, blunt, and sometimes hurting...
  
  I'm curious to know more

• 510 - christie

  Jan 27, 2011 at 4:12 am

  okay,question which can only be answered by a sag man.What should one think if a sag guy doesn't breakup,doesn't talk and keeps making excuses/apologizing for not talking or staying in touch?I have asked point blank and all i get are excuses for not staying in touch.Is it so difficult to say that u've moved on?

• 511 - delores delone

  Apr 15, 2011 at 9:33 pm

  I have been with my sag man for over 10 years and we have 4 kids together. They are great providers, spoil you and can be very sweet. On the flip side of it all the are huge know it alls. He talks like hes teaching me I think he loves to hear himself talk. Can be very rude to people and so bold its hurtful and has no remorse for it

• 512 - ecerbii

  May 25, 2011 at 5:04 pm

  question can sagg males be jealous of a woman they are interested in i am a leo woman i have known this sagg male since high school we never became a couple but knew we had a bond life went forward we lost touch 4yrs ago we came in contact slept together i thought it meant something it meant nothing (i just found out 4 months ago ) he told me i was a mistake and he was in a relationship lots of reading about sagg men informed me that they know how to put sex and love on two different planes and keep it there 4 months ago a mutual friend of ours got us back in touch situation sagg male tells me is that same girlfriend he was in a relationship with was putting him out and he was homeless well a lot more had happened he hadnt worked in eight months his car broke down and he said the last straw between him and the girlfriend was an insult about her 11yr old son come to find out through him things were a lot worse for him he has two sons 1 -13yrs and another 7rs he is now living with his 13yr old sons mother and her husbandwith their two other children and housemate we didnt see one another for 2 months we just talked on the phone alot i mean each conversation lasted no less than 1hr well he informed me that he was ill and the condition made him lose 50lbs i told him i must have found it well we made a date went to dinner we were both shocked at each others appearence more so him than me i didnt care i felt he was still the same person inside but i noticed he became distant so he noticed i was going to practice with my running group that i was with 4 yrs ago when i saw him off and on he'd ask was i still with the group i told him yes well i have two cars my own place a great job he asked could he borrow a vehicle so that he cuold work save money to get his fixed i said yes well each time we have met total 3 its been at my place i through sublte actions let him know i was interested in intimacy with him each time he brushed me off during our conversation about 2 months ago he told me he was no longer the whore he once was and was looking to settle down i invited him to assist me in driving on a road trip he agreed (fastforeward )we are on the trip with my friends mother in her fifties while stopped to get something to eat we dicide to get gas i asked him to pump the gas he says no he eating so i say please so as were entering the gas station he turns to me and says is that what men do for you pump your gas (im nodding yes)take out your trash eat you out and f**k you @that point i was totally in shock id never heard him in a rude manner like that i was speechless mad angry hurt and embarrassed i didnt speak to him the rest of the trip and the trip was a 20hr drive each way when we returned i didnt speak to him as well three days later he called to tell me he visited with more of our mutual friends i asked him what did he mean by the comment he said it was meant to be a joke i said to myself not the case nothing about the comment was funny oh i forgot he added they cant pay your bills your too independant for that that what determined for me it was no joke the comment was a slur to me with underlying meaning i feel like there is something he dislikes about me or he totally dislikes me at this point but wont say why he has down played everything by talking but now its that he wont call unless its about my car totally no more interst is being shown it hurts but ive told my self if for any reason this is about the weight and he should reappear no matter how much i love him i would have to let him go it would make me feel he is very shallow and that he wants acceptance for who he is but does not accept others or me he said to me 2months ago that there were only two women he ever really loved and i was one of them but i felt the same about him yet seeing him this way because he drinks does pot and sees that he cannot function well doing either i encouraged him to stop he did briefly but the folks he lives with does pot he says he cant resist he called me the miss goody two shoes because i do not do any type of substance i told him i have my faults its just not those and am nowhere near perfect hepl anyone is he jealous shallow or what could be going on

• 513 - JassyLibra21

  Jul 03, 2011 at 8:50 pm

  I was dating a Sag. Everything was fine, he's a trucker so he's gone for 2 to 3 weeks. We were already on the I love you basis, and he told me he loved me 1st. Last week I invited him to my cousin's 4th of July pre bash. He accepted the invite and we talked about it all week. The last time he told me he loved me was 2 days ago and yesterday everything was good and he confirmed going to the cookout with me. Today was the day of the cookout and he ignored me all day and stood me up.
  I initially was worried from not hearing from him, but decided to call and text him from my 2nd phone #. Which he responded "who is this" to, so I knew then he had blown me off.
  We met through Craigslist, and so I decided to see if he had been on there lately, and sure enough 4 days ago he posted an ad looking for another woman.
  I texted him just asking him to tell me why he ignored me and what happened. Of course no response. Then randomly 10hrs later he sends me a text saying "no"! I responded "?huh" and now 2hrs later he hasn't said anything else.
  I just want to know why he couldn't have just told me yesterday he wasn't going to my cousins cookout with me when I asked? Why didn't he break it off the day he posted the ad? Why talk to me yesterday and just totally ignore me today?
  GOING CRAZY!

• 514 - dana

  Oct 18, 2011 at 3:47 pm

  holy cow this is amazing. im a libra sag rising and ill be damned i understand and see sag in me more than libra. amazing!

• 515 - toots

  Dec 07, 2011 at 8:52 am

  Thanks, tilymint. I've had the same problems with a Sag, as listed here. I can't believe how similar my experience has been. Because of his shenanigans, we haven't done the deed yet, although he very much wants that. I'm a Pisces and I need HIM, not just his body parts. Repeatedly, I could not understand why he pursued me, if he did not really want a relationship, but you help explain it! Essentially, he's programmed to take what he can get, as it comes along, for great fun, primarily at his convenience. (and he is handsome, as someone mentioned here, so he gets away it. He has groupies!) I'm not the jealous type and often off on my own, too, so I thought that was good.
  At the same, as tilymint highlights, I also knew instinctively that he was a fine man and could be an excellent, if not fabulous, partner on a long-term basis. There was a lot there and I wanted it! That's what makes us hang in there and why it ultimately becomes so tragic. I really liked him more than so many other men who have asked me out. (and I've never had a boyfriend like this with so many cancellations, excuses, gaps in contact--EVER) He recently admitted that he had feelings, too, and called himself my boyfriend and in a relationship (that seemed like a major accomplishment!). That made me happy, but when I had earlier plans with a girlfriend last weekend, he did not respond well. Besides, he's almost always joking around, so how can you be serious with him?
  I've decided to let it go. I'm not going to grovel to him. I'm not going to settle for someone who switches gears and hangs back on me all the time. It's just so funny how abrupt and seemingly contradictory he can be! Hot and cold, back to back. So thanks, all! I'm going to do my thing and be glad that it never got too serious. =) If he's trying to escape Love, he barely got away from me! =)
  

• 516 - toots

  Dec 07, 2011 at 9:03 am

  It's frustrating how my girlfriends were right about him all along. Time waster! But, incredibly charming! He really seemed like a stable, decent family man, but if they don't really want you, that's it. The die is cast.

• 517 - toots

  Dec 07, 2011 at 9:16 am

  I just want to add that one of my girlfriends is a Capricorn and she's been happily married to a Sag for 15 years! Her Sag husband is like a dream man--kind, successful, funny, handsome, athletic. They make it work with him traveling for work and being away for half the month, each month. He's a global product manager and he really travels all over the globe! Maybe that gets it out of his system?? She also says it helps that she has her own career and does quite well independently. She's great. I doubt I come off as comparably great, blonde, or deserving, but I do think I deserve real love and more than a no-show man--ha! Thanks again for the great comments here.

• 518 - PISTOLSAPLAYER

  Jan 08, 2012 at 9:47 am

  I've been dating a Sag. man for 3yrs. in RS, WY. I've always thought he was cheating on me and I can't help but wonder if "ecerbii" were dating the same man at the same time??!! Everything said from the way you were treated, him being sick, the broken vehicle, him being kicked out etc... are IDENTICAL. ECERBII IF YOUR STILL OUT THERE LETS CHAT!

• 519 - Tee

  Jan 14, 2012 at 4:50 am

  I been seeing this man for about a month! He calls me too just say hi! He told me to wait for him! What do that mean! He already tell me to be good! Always ask me what I been up to when we don't talk for a couple of days! I am a cap girl and I am jus?t giving him his space hes a sag guy! I catch him staring and smiling at me alot! I ask him what hes thinking but he won't tell me! Do we have a chance together

• 520 - Jennifer

  Jan 15, 2012 at 6:39 am

  I know that I came in like real late but these things are so true! The Sag I liked was always giving me affection according to his own "whims"; he'd be so nice and caring all of a sudden with this barely disguised, hard-to-control intense look in his eyes( like he was so crazy for me) and then just relapse back into indifference, when I'd expect something consistent from him. It's probably because he had so many girls' hearts fluttering away for him(and he knew it, enjoyed it at times but got bored off by the easiness of his "conquests"). I liked him a lot(and he knew it too) but because I maintained my distance(because of his inconsistency, capriciousness and many random whims, which made me doubt whether he was actually serious about me)he started chasing me in subtle ways to make me fall for him. He only seemed to hang around for the chasing and he'd be so intense when I'd hold him off, as if I was the only one for him and no one else. Of course, since I was really young then, I thought that he was serious at first and I really played into his hands. Then he got bored and I barely existed in his life. Hurt, I'd go back but then he'd come after me with full force, that left me numb. Now what kind of a sick, twisted love game is this? It still hurts inside when I think about it(that all my beliefs were off the mark and I was just played with to ward off this guy's endless boredom and need for new thrills)because he was the first guy I fell in love with. Yet he never would understand that about me nor all the girls he had hurt.Even though my intuition screamed-STAY AWAY FROM HIM, I stuck to him, because, I was going crazy for him(I was the only real one I suppose.) Why is it that these people chase you, emotionally force you to give into them and then just leave you, because you've been like 'conquered' and thus have become predictable and boring?

• 521 - PISTOLSAPLAYER

  Jan 17, 2012 at 10:39 am

  JASSYLIBRA21....IT WAS I, THE WOMAN HE LIVES WITH THE TEXT YOU BACK AND ASKED WHO IS THIS? ALONG WITH THE 2ND MESSAGE YOU MENTIONED. I'D LOVE TO TALK WITH YOU! SAGS....ARE SNAKES!

• 522 - Robert Colson

  Feb 04, 2012 at 7:07 pm

  h...oo...lll...yyy shit!
  
  This board has become a festering cess pool of butt hurt girls who took things way too seriously!
  
  However, shame on the guys who played their cards dirty.
  
  I'm a sagittarius guy, and I can identify with many of these comments. Lemme tell ya. There's no quicker way for me to feel like shit than to read these posts. It gets me thinking.. That's exactly the point!
  
  Just by reading all of these soggy details, I feel like I'm being drenched with all the cum each one of these dudes threw into your vaginas.
  
  Why did I come onto this board in the first place?
  
  I hurt my friend. Who I held at arm's length. I had no intention of marrying her, but we fooled around. I told her I love her, but refused to become committed. I was interested in pursuing whatever she'd give me, and she agreed to stay non-commited with. She agreed to stay "present", and simply take things where they go. She agreed to be my best friend, through it all. She promised to be there, regardless of the outcome of this sexual relationship. She is a virgo.
  
  It's been a year, and commitment has become a major topic all her friends bring up with her. She moved away to another part of the US, and although both of us are independent people who do not believe in long distance relationships.. a long distance relationship is exactly what became of our constant contact.
  
  My whole task throughout our relationship has been to open her up. To get her to try new things. To jump hurdles she'd been too afraid to try. To take risks, out of trust.
  
  We agreed to stay unattached, and be ambivalent about sexual encounters. Honesty would be the word of the day.
  
  I maintained thorough, undivided interest on her, reciprocating what I felt were her desires (to be commited). It became unhealthy, and she would always verbally grant me the freedom to live outside of our communication.
  
  So I had sex with a girl. I didn't know I'd feel bad. I certainly never felt that my body "belonged" to anyone. But I felt bad. I immediately told my friend what I did, and she said I disgust her, and cut off contact because she was "too hurt".
  
  So it seems.. both of us had a different idea of what "trust" consists of. She demonstrates her trustworthiness by being commited (because it is simply the right thing thing to do.). I demonstrate trustworthiness by being 100% honest in my communication. I ask for her opinions, and because my reasoning is sound, she'll agree to my theories.
  
  In the end, both of us feel betrayed. I feel betrayed for I called her bluff (we were toying with an open relationship), and she cut me off.
  She feels betrayed because she feels that I should have simply "known" that it was wrong, and if I didn't feel that way..
  
  I apologized profusely, for what I did was innocent. But she is unwilling to forgive, for she treats her feelings with the utmost preciousness. She sees this as a mind game that I"m playing. I'll admit, she is a jealous person, and this is a sort of test. But if she is going to ditch at the first sign of trouble.. why would I commit to that?
  
  To be honest, she is not marriage material, but we never said it was, so why so serious?!
  
  Why so, serious, all of you?!?!?! Just let go and enjoy what things are, don't cling, don't get jealous, let the pieces fall, and everyone will get exactly what is right for them.
  
  Thanks for the vent, people.
  
  -Me

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