Change, whether it results from a break up, personal problems, or loss of a job, can cause a person to lose their center and flounder while they try to find their footing. Some embrace the change as a way to move forward and try a new path. Others become paralyzed by the fear of change and allow it to control them. They look for stability outside of themselves and rely on others for security.
Many people look to relationships and other people, experiences, and events to rescue them. The truth is they need to rescue themselves. By rescuing themselves, they strengthen their relationship with themselves, increase their self-confidence, and build real love. There is a beauty in developing an independent spirit and that will always attract like-minded people to their life.
The path to regaining your personal power and becoming whole begins with self-work. Self-work happens through conscious living. Conscious living means being awake and in the present. Don't dwell on the past and relive what happened to you. Focus on the present so you don't miss out on the opportunities all around you that can create new directions and exciting new possibilities.
Be aware of the types of relationships, experiences, food, and environments you allow into your life and into your body. Most importantly, don’t use any of those things as a crutch. Stand in front of the mirror that represents your life, take a real hard look at what is no longer working, and have the courage to do the spring cleaning necessary to end associations that keep you stuck or in a holding pattern. Remember the three R's in your spiritual liberation process: Review, Release, Rejuvenate.
We are all divine beings with important life lessons that need to be fulfilled. In a fast-paced society where busy lifestyles are the norm, we can forget to stop and listen to the messages that lie within. We may receive a message that a person is not good for us, a decision is not the right choice, or even that there is danger in a particular environment. We ignore and put aside the inner voice that redirects us away from harm and holds us by the hand in loving guidance to the path that helps our souls evolve to a higher plane of consciousness.
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