Some People Just Won't Get It
Unfortunately, there are some people in this world who will never read the instructions no matter how clear you make them. For those people, you'll just have to politely excuse yourself and move on to the next profile on your list.
You don't want to get too harsh in your profile or you may drive away just the girl you're looking for. Do make sure you ask potential daters what kind of music they like and whether or not they would enjoy your lifestyle during your initial communications with them. This will at least save you a little time weeding through the one's you're not interested in.
Understanding the Law of Attraction
There is one other incredibly powerful tool that can help you in your search for the perfect match. It's called the Law of Attraction. A quick exercise that will help you find just the right person for you is to write down on a piece of paper exactly what you're looking for in a partner. Try to focus more on how you feel when you're with this person and less on their physical appearance. Having said that, if you love redheads, write that down, too.
Imagine your perfect partner in every detail. Write it down. Every night before you go to sleep, close you eyes and visualize or imagine being with this person for at least five to ten minutes. Really get into it. What are you doing together? How do you feel when you're together? What do you hear? What do you smell?
This will get your message out to the Universe. Now it's your job to act on any hunches, gut feelings, or intuitions you get over the next few weeks. If you get a weird urge to stop by a store you've never been in, do it. If you have a weird idea to go to a museum, do it. You never know whom you might meet while following your intuition.
True love may be just around the corner.