Here is a reasonable way out. It's a "cut and run" solution based on the following propositions.
1. Marriage, as it stands now, is a deep perversion of the equality principle. We are generally opposed to specific groups enjoying specific favors and enjoying them forever. I use the term "favor" loosely, and it could be anything from having quotas in jobs, admission in universities, political stuffs, to marriage for heterosexuals and heaven for Christians or Muslims or Hindus (but not for all of them mind you). We should all be truly equal under all social norms.
2. We need our institutions to be lean and slim - not obese, like marriage, which enjoys no extra benefit from the existing and perfectly acceptable legal civil union. Since legally we are already on a sound platform, all we have to do is to extend the premise of union from "man and woman" to "any Homo sapiens and any Homo sapiens with valid identities." It's not that difficult.
3. Marriage, not including the legal binding, only validates the religious and social approval to fuck and suck. We don't need religious and social approval to do what we choose to do in our own privacy, and with whom.
4. Society won't look any different if we abolish the institution of marriage and move on like it was never there in the first place.
5. Everyone needs a second chance. So do the divorce lawyers (send them to Sudan).
The only way I can satisfy all the above propositions is by suggesting marriage should go. Right now. It never made sense then and it doesn't make sense now. Period.
I have my friends in Adam and Eve. They never got married. There wasn't any Priest or Mullah, or Pundit available. And they did just fine.






Article comments
1 - Father of The Church of Toilet Waters
Q Bit, Great day in the cornfield. How do you know Adam and Eve did just fine. My wife "Big Bertha" and I have been married 43 yrs and I still love each and every fold of her naked body. Sure she weights 352 beautiful pounds at 5'1' but what the hey. She looks sexy to me. Keeps me warm on cold nights. Maybe you should try Q Bit.
Bless you with the waters of the Lady of the holy Se[PUACAR}.
Father Dipstick
2 - jeeva
i want to marry only a guy.i want to have aex only with him.