Hi Elsa!
I've been dating a Gemini man for almost three months. Things have been very slow and I have been patient. But yesterday he called and I snapped at him that hadn't contacted me for a week. He said he had a problem with his phone and had been busy doing his house up. I said I didn't know and I was proud of him for working hard. I apologized as well.
Now I still don't know whether we are fine or we are over. Shall I wait for him to cool down and contact me, or just forget him? Please help!
Waiting By The Phone
Dear Waiting,
I think you’ve got a Gemini liar there. His phone is broken for a week? Pulllllease. No Gemini goes a week without a phone, believe me. I think this man is gone and he is waiting for you to figure it out. So what’s taking you so long?
Well, you have Venus in Capricorn and apparently don’t think you deserve much in relationship. And this is erroneous! So my advice is to forget about the guy. Instead, invest in yourself. Why do you settle for such crumbs? This is what you need to be thinking about if you want to take a step towards solving your problems in relationship.
Good luck.
Article comments
1 - nix
Hi,i love my man loads hes great sometimes on his own mision.were dating for 3 months slow but beuteful, i love his culture and everything about him .
2 - elizabeth
so theres this guy ive been tlaking to a while..hes a charmer and a gemini ive been readong thingss here and there about gemini
that they lie and flirt allot
yes flirt
they do they really do
and lie..well i wouldnt doubt it
because he does im a capricorn i dont know weather to let him go or play hard to get
at times we will talk and txt forever and in other times we wil g on for hours and wait for one another to kiss ass and give in a little message "i want you"
what should i do?
3 - Liz
the guy ive been talking too for a while is a gemini and me a capricorn
he is a flirt and he even knows it
well lets say he does
he's called a whore allot of times by several ppl and well he admitts to being used to it
ha
so yea i barley tarted talking to him and well at times hes such a tease he leads me on and at others he will be so cruel and somtimes he'll make me feel like a princess
when in a raltionship or trying to be serios with somone i manage to dominate and somehow gemini is complicated
had 4 different characteristics.
i dont know weather to
leave him alone and not carre for him because i know if i get to close to him he can easiy trap me in his cvharm and i will be lost in it and i know that naytime he can spot another woman to charm his way with her and leave me hanging and hurt
should i play hard to get?
should i stop talking to him?
i dont know what to do
becasue i know as a capricorn and him a gemini
i can get skin deep with anybody but hes so complicated he one of the most complicated people i have encountered hes my first time gemini
i dont know what to do i need tips
suggestions
capricorn & gemini
dont have much compatibility
i know that
but i honestly dont know what to do
:/
HELP ME!
4 - monique
I am in the same situation, i have a few Gemini friends, and yes i am a capricorn too and the guy i am dating a Gemini( he too is complicated) my guy is a flirt and when i met him he said he only did one night stands and i wasn't having that, so i got under his skin and i am just with him after mend a semi broken heart.The Gemini's i know have all cheated on their girlfriends and they are really good liars and charmers so getting a gal isn't hard. If you want him that bad, trust me you have to work overtime, from going on holidays, going out with your friends and being more independent. The only way it can work is if you look at it as an open relationship and keep it honest.Tell him, if he flirts you do the same, sleeps with someone, you too. You dont have to do it but he doesn't know that. N>B Gemini's dont like clingy girls or arguments so you have to bite your tongue and keep pf the phone, if you miss him that much, ring another male friend and let him take you out. If you want a good relationship, go out with a Tauras man you can beat that xx monique
5 - Tomal
loloooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
6 - nina
You do have to give them space but I have been with a gemini man for 6 months and it does not matter on the sign if a man wants you he will never leave if he doesnt want you nothing will make him stay...if he plays to many games then he is supposed to loose the girl and the relationship it is a 2 way street now adays if you sllep with someone else he can to if he cheats you can too, why suffer men make enough women suffer grow and move on when it is time, guard your heart getting it broken too many times your trust will never be the same or the next relationship. any man who loves you wont mind wearing a condom or calling you every week, any guy who says my phone does not work is full of baloney.
7 - Alicia
I can imagine a Gemini not calling you for a whole week. I have been dating my Gemini for a year now (I'm a Scorpio). Sometimes you just have to give your gemini some space...And be patient. They always come back. My man gives me hell sometimes because he is just so hard to pin down...and is not very affectionate. It's like dating a leaf blowing in the wind.
I think you should keep trying to get in touch though. It could be just his gemini nature.
8 - Johnnie
I'm a Gemini and I just got a new phone after mine was broken for more than 2 weeks. So it can happen.
9 - Sue
I've been dating a Gemini for almost 6 months now and he never forgets to call and I see him almost every other day, sometimes I stay over his place for weeks on end and he doesn't mind. Is is true he loves his space but after a day or two he'll call and want to see me again. This is the trick, don't try to hold a Gemini man down or demand anything from him and he will naturally want you around. I know my Gemini might leave me one day because he is in search of new things all the time but share his mindset- live for today only. Good luck girls.
10 - heather-don
Im a Libra and my man is a freakin GEMINI and they do pissed u off..ALOT! We been together for 9months and then i left him alone for 4months cause I pop up at his house off guard and caught him with another BITCH! I beat his ass and then got locked up for it.... Shocking we got back together and thinks is going well now I guess cause he realize that Im not the one to fuck with now....he kisses my ass and everything that he never did with me before he does now lol... everytime he acts up now which is rare I dont pay him no mind I just ignore him cause thats what he use to do to me in the past everytime i was upset and when he realize that I dont pay attention to his petty shit it makes him calm down and start actin right again;) all im sayin is "expect the unexpected" from a Gemini! dont feed into there bullshit cause they love to get you upset cause thats what makes them feel secure with theirself cause at the end of the day when you get yourself mad they could careless most of the time so why should u care when they are upset....do what i say dont feed into shit and expect the unexpected and see how they start acting;) let me know in the future if my advise worked for u....
11 - viktori
hhhmmmmm, I think u better all of u ladies should listen to Elsa. Why put up with that nonsense. U are all crazy. there are some good men out there who will really love you. I just ignored a dumb geminii with his superficial charm...who has time for that. Anyway, I deserve better, don't u.
12 - viktori
...and as for u heather-don...ur really crazy. beating up a man...are u that desparate..wow.
13 - Deana
I'm a Gemini Woman, dating a Capricorn Man.. and we've been together for 4 months. We actually do bicker here and there but we always communicate with eachother. so you can make the relationship last. and not all geminis are liars, and cheaters. i've never cheated on any of my ex's. But i'm sure a gemini girl is different from a gemini man. but i've had gemini guy friends that actually are good bfs... i'm sure it just really depends on the person, and just how bad you want the relationship to work and be worth it. i know Geminis need there space but I spend weeks with my boyfriend, and when i do leave it's only for a couple days. We do everything together, and we trust eachother. There's no suspision what so ever..
goodluck*