In memoriam: Nadia Anjuman

A brave woman is cut down in her prime. From the BBC:

A well-known Afghan poet and journalist has died from her injuries after being beaten, police say.
Officers found the body of Nadia Anjuman, 25, at her home in the western city of Herat.
A senior police officer said her husband had confessed to hitting her during a row.

But it is said that "the family", which I suspect means "her husband's family", refused to allow a post-mortem, which makes it highly likely that he will not pay any price for his action.

I couldn't find any English-language information about her on the web. If you're a reader who knows of sites in other languages, could you leave a comment with the link? It would be a small memorial.

Postscript: Thinking of Muslim women poets, the one who immediately sprang to mind was the Bangladeshi Taslima Nasreen/Nasrin who has stood up against fatwas, death threats and societal pressures to proclaim the reality of women's position in her society.

She wrote:

Even a mangy cur of the house barks now and then,
but over the mouths of women cheaply had,
there's a lock, a golden lock.

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  • 1 - Justene

    Nov 06, 2005 at 8:42 pm

    In the land of Desperate Housewives, it is often easy to forget how desperate is the plight of women elsewhere.

  • 2 - Victor Lana

    Nov 06, 2005 at 9:24 pm

    The husband doesn't have to be Muslim to be dangerous. All over the world men are still raising their hands to women. This is a disgrace and all men, if they really are indeed male, should be outraged that wives, mothers, and daughters are being abused.

    If men do not make a stand against this kind of thing, then they are as cowardly as the bastards who hit their wives and daughters. Shame on them all!

  • 3 - Kalil Jalili

    Nov 07, 2005 at 12:23 am



    Its a web site in Persian with a picture of Nadia and two of her poems.

  • 4 - kalil jalili

    Nov 07, 2005 at 2:24 am



    a great person
    a great poet
    a great loss

  • 5 - Kemal Yavuz

    Nov 08, 2005 at 12:41 pm

    Nobody can accept this kind of attitude... Women are crowd of men, at least it should be... Being a muslim cant explain such events, everybody knows that women are being threatened by men all over the world without any religious thoughts... everybody please be aware of the humankind and commonsense and dont accuse whole people who live in same territory.

  • 6 - mary mcdonald-lewis

    Nov 08, 2005 at 2:47 pm

    I have an opportunity to read any poems of Nadia Anjuman in a performance in Portland OR this weekend if I can find them in English. If you have them, or know the URL to them, please list it here so I can track them down...

    Thanks very, very much,

    Mary McDonald-Lewis

  • 7 - Captain Anarchy

    Nov 08, 2005 at 7:05 pm

    Yikes! This is total travesty! ANY domestic violence is intolerable, but let's not forget that the wheels of time are slow and we need to be patient with those cultures who do not yet adhere to western, privledged and/or lofty societal goals. In a global village such as ours, let us pray for the victim and the victimizer(s). Remember Nadia for her personal contributions and struggles. Peace be with you all.

  • 8 - Ramin

    Nov 09, 2005 at 5:56 am

    Hi,
    I was amazed by her poets published in bbcPersian.com
    I couldn't stop of thinking of her for the last two days, indeed.
    Here is a link

  • 9 - Natalie Bennett

    Nov 09, 2005 at 6:35 am

    Thank you very much to those who provided links. Unfortunately I can't read the Persian, but it is good to have some form of memorial. And in future if anyone sees some translations I'd be delighted to hear about them. Thanks again. Natalie

  • 10 - vera

    Nov 09, 2005 at 10:10 am

    Peace
    I too would love to find a link to her poetrybook, Gulidodi. I can't seem to track down.
    The link Ramin put up is not working for me...
    thanks

  • 11 - alienboy

    Nov 09, 2005 at 3:08 pm

    VERA: The link Ramin supplied is working now.

  • 12 - Lillian Heytvelt

    Nov 10, 2005 at 4:18 am

    Is there any place to find her poems in English? I want to read her work ... to give her my attention.

  • 13 - gary lemons

    Nov 11, 2005 at 12:32 am

    In Memory of Nadia Anjuman
    1980--2005

    Dark red flower--it grows in the night.
    Grows in the sorrow at the edge of loss.
    Grows in the mirror of human faces
    Watching one another weep.

    The flowers is covered to protect
    It from the sun, from the men whose
    Hands sweat to think of picking it.

    She came to poetry the way a storm
    Comes to a clear sky over a desert morning.
    The clarity of first light giving way
    To upthrust of heat reflecting from sand.

    The invisible forms into a fist, clenches
    The sky into wind, into a threat
    That blows the sand into the machinery
    Of violence transporting death
    Between intimate groves of skin.

    In the family there is the hand that pours
    The tea. There is the hand the feeds
    The animals. There is the hand that holds
    The child. But above all there is the hand
    That delivers the blow in the name of God.

    This is not sunrise. It is is sunset.
    The beginning of the time when
    All things disappear, even from themselves,
    In pieces relinquished by the failing light..
    .
    Open the book left among dunes, open
    To the pages that thunder with voices
    Permitting the hand’s unrestrained fury.

    Nadia. Dark red flower. First book.
    First glimpse of a new world behind
    A veil of blowing sand and settler’s prayers

    She will tell us what it means to be a woman
    Filled with trapped light. She will tell
    Our children and theirs what it means
    To be a woman in a place where women
    Are worshipped and hunted for their skeleton.

    We are alone when the poem appears.
    Everything is alone when it understands this.
    From that moment we are joined.
    What happens to one happens to all.
    Out in the sand, in a place strange
    To our head, familiar to our heart,
    A poet is killed and some single
    Momentous cell inside us dies.

    Bright ghost gesturing to the sky.
    Vultures circling. The ghost sing to them,
    Her voice rising above the storm
    Scattering her unwritten pages into
    Our lives, the pages we
    Must now enscribe with our blood.

  • 14 - L.R.R. McGuire-Smith

    Nov 13, 2005 at 3:37 pm

    I’d like to memorialize the sad death of this Afghani intellectual, murdered by her poet husband-perhaps with the collusion of her own mother. It may become certain that “Family Shame/Honor” and the culturally dictated subservient status of the female in Afghanistan's society extended even into the intellectual circles of the University system. I don't know, but I was moved by the loss of her unique voice, this so very, very sad-I read about her when I was at the polls recently presiding as an Election Judge in Houston, Texas, U.S.A. It grieved me to read that she'd been battered and died of her wounds cutting short a songbird's gift. All that is left is for poets everywhere to mourn the silenced dreamer. No doubt I will need to revise this-but I dedicate it with love to a woman I only knew through her words and her death for speaking them.

    (This is a poem celebrating personal and intellectual freedom for all women and all voices of dissent whether male or female.)

    by L.R.R. McGuire-Smith)

    (A Poet’s Death)The Killing of Nadia Anjuman: The Dark Flower Becomes Light

    She died for truth and poetry
    She died for her integrity

    She spoke of truth
    and freedom dear

    She spoke of dreams
    her captors feared.

    He could not best her
    in a war of words

    and so he crushed her
    that small song bird

    But when he struck her
    he sealed his fate

    his lovely poems
    were turned to hate

    And so “Dark Flower”
    died for her rhyme

    her fate was sealed
    her words-her crime

    Her rival
    her husband

    a poet too,
    will someday mourn
    the poets he slew

    for when he killed her
    he killed himself too

    but should he repent
    she'll see him through

    her soul's not spent
    it will return as dew

    to water all poets
    who seek words true

    But when she died
    her soul did fly

    as the poet’s all whispered
    about that guy

    “He has no honor, who made her die!”

    More tears would fall, but not all would cry

    For some would secretly turn away
    and with a shrug they’d smugly say-

    “Of course he had the right to hit-
    she’s naught but a woman
    she refused to submit!”

    They’ll never agree that her husband transgressed-

    their cruel misogyny,
    sin un-confessed

    That she was a woman
    was her only wrong

    But killing her
    made no man strong.

    To them a woman
    just an inferior being

    Their eyes are blind
    There is no seeing

    The soul has no sex,
    it's ethereal being

    Dark Flower’s death
    became her freeing.

    Though a madman kills
    a poet pure

    her soul transcends
    her words endure

    She gave herself to the written word
    her spirit lives on
    we poets heard

    Her murderer sacrificed his soul’s noblesse
    When he wounded a spirit
    of great gentleness

    Her blood cries out now
    from the Earth-

    “I was naught but a woman,
    But I had worth!”

    But for more than that
    she was oppressed

    she was the poet
    whose words would wrest

    foul hatred from a jealous breast
    although that wasn't her heart's quest

    'twas her ill fate
    to frame words best

    He compared himself
    and came out worst

    to silence her
    would make him first

    So he killed a poet
    he could not best

    and further words
    won't assuage her death

    A flood of words leaves us more bereft

    Now his worthless poetry
    he must amend

    He’s trampled beauty,
    and killed Love’s friend

    He’s forever broken
    what words won’t mend

    Of radiant Dark Flower
    he’s made an end

    He’s broken and bent
    love’s gentle flower

    He’s in her grip now
    under her power

    She’s oozing sap
    her life force taken

    base cruelty’s slap
    pure love forsaken

    And so his poetry will resound
    unheard

    He’s infamous now
    He killed the songbird

    She died for love
    yet could not foresee

    her death
    would birth

    more poetry

    I mourn her loss
    Yet I am glad

    she's freed from bondage
    and all that's sad

    She's part of heaven
    her heart's now glad

    She singing now and dancing poetry
    she’s escaped beyond

    into eternity

    Dark Flower dancing
    in the night

    Dark Flower dancing
    transformed To Light

    Dark Flower shining
    -a star so bright

    (a blessing on her soul-rest in peace)

  • 15 - Carrie

    Nov 13, 2005 at 11:22 pm

    I was driving down the highway when I heard of the death of Nadia Anjuman. My heart screamed out! This must stop.
    We must begin to see that the murder of any woman, such as Nadia, is caused by the man's fear of the woman. We have no need to kill those we do not fear. Fear is the basis for anger.
    Today I pray that my grandchildren will never hear of the killing of women by men. May men learn to love the power of women and to see it as God given.
    In Memory of Nadia Anjuman.

  • 16 - luise rechen

    Nov 14, 2005 at 2:04 pm

    Only heard one short note on this on NPR. Why is our media silent?

  • 17 - Kalil Jalili

    Nov 14, 2005 at 9:16 pm


    Nadia Anjuman:

    A great person
    A great poet
    A great loss

    In reply to feedback #14 made by L.R.R. McGuire-Smith which says that her own mother was involved in her death. Its not true and I have read this wrongly acusation in so many web pages as well as some major news site like ABC. I know this for sure cause Nadia Anjuman was my next door neighbour back in Afghanitan and I have talked to her mother and brothers few times since this tragedy happened.

    Its a sad thing that Nadia died, but what makes me more sad is people involving her weeping mother in her death.

    Thank you for undrestanding

  • 18 - Khan

    Nov 15, 2005 at 7:26 am

    People please stop Judging other people from outside the world of their own, who knows exactly what happened with Nadia Anjuman? It can be a game it can be anything.

    In Holly Quraan it says "Man are commenders for women if women doesnt accept what a man (husbend) says, the husbend has the rights to first make her undrestand by words then stop cooperations and even can beat her to make her undrestand"

    So if any one says that beating women is cowardness I, Quraan and God dissagrees with this because God says to beat your wife if she doesnt accept what you say.

    If these muslim rules will be avoided because of the wrong idea that women has the same level of rights as man, as it is implemented in Europe, America, Australia and some countries in Asia then very soon you cant find even an 8 years old girl vergin and wife swapings and selling wifes and their naked pictures which is mostly hated by God will expand every where.

  • 19 - Dave Nalle

    Nov 15, 2005 at 9:54 am

    Then you, Quran and God, are barbaric and don't deserve to coexist with civilized people, Khan.

    Dave

  • 20 - Asi

    Nov 16, 2005 at 10:06 am

    I've been thinking of Nadia's tragic death for two days now...

    It has affected me deeply, and I cannot explain why, since I'm very much aware that women experience cruelty and domestic violence on a daily basis all over the world. I've been searching for any information and/or her book in English and I was glad to find this article and discussion honouring her memory.

    The fact that even opinions such as Khan's (above, posted Nov 15) are allowed in this space, is great proof that Nadia and everything she represented (freedom of speech, equality, civility) will always prevail in the end.

  • 21 - L.R.R. McGuire-Smith

    Nov 18, 2005 at 2:02 am

    Dear Khan-Please read the INTRODUCTION to this tribute over again. I said "I don't know" and "I may need to revise this" and "may" about the facts of the case. I only celebrate her life and her sad death-that's my last word on it-she did not deserve her death. No matter who did it, the sea of humanity has been robbed of a great pearl. PERIOD

  • 22 - L.R.R. McGuire-Smith

    Nov 18, 2005 at 2:12 am

    Dear Kahlil: I would refer you to the same post for a re-examination of what I wrote-it has been simply ignored that I said "I don't know" or I may need to revise. Only GOD KNOWS EVERYTHING! I have only slanted informatin to rely on-either from the western media or from the land of the east. I am sympathetic to Muslim conderns, but I am not a Muslim, I am a Christian. I thank you for understanding also. I hope all who mourn her are comforted-me included. Thanks! L.R.R.

    L.R.R. McGuire-Smith

  • 23 - Rossana Chiarelli

    Nov 23, 2005 at 10:19 am

    I discovered Nadia's existence a couple of hours ago, while browsing a magazine during my shopping. I only read a short extract of a poem in the article, though I already feel I know her and that the loss of her voice - and indeed her life - cuts a deep wound in my being.

    We truly are connected, all of us, not only to Nadia but also her husband as well as individuals such as Khan, who left a message too. One thing Khan said that I want to support is: "Please stop judging other people from ourside [your] world" - and I remind myself of this too. No, I don't agree with Khan's view of life but I can see, through his earnest belief, where Nadia's murderer is acting from.

    It's not by judging him, or those like him, that I do justice to Nadia's life. I do condem the killing of another human being (be they man or woman) and even more so I condem the wrong teaching that leads ordinary people to believe that one is superior to another and has the right to kill them in the name of God. This kind of compassion is the starting point to open dialogue between minds that seem to be worlds apart. It gives me hope and strength to engage with my heart to that of those who, like Khan, have the boldness to speak out even in sites when they're totally outnumbered.

    Perhaps the fact that Khan chose to write here can give the more liberal thinkers an opportunity to ponder how we can practically promote true democracy in our daily lives and teach those who know nothing about it how painstaking it is to build true equality and freedom.

    With Nadia's death we can clearly see that democracy cannot be built quickly and forcefully by 'liberating' a country from dictatorship. There isn't a quick route to freedom and it is by engaging on a personal level with one another (starting from 'I') at EVERY opportunity, that we can pave true democracy for everyone on earth.

    We have to free our minds first before a whole nation can understand that we are all equal.

    Rossana Chiarelli
    http://www.sgi-uk.org/

  • 24 - eliza griswold

    Nov 27, 2005 at 2:48 pm

    Dear Kalil:

    I am a poet and a journalist who would like to write about Nadia's life and death and since you knew her as a child, I'd like to speak to you. Would that be possible? Best, Eliza

  • 25 - Reza Jalali

    Nov 30, 2005 at 12:14 pm

    Can someone please direct me to where I could possibly find a copy of her book? Such a sad loss. But we need to continue to speak on her behalf and those of other victims of domestic violence. Thanks

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