Go out and buy some hot lingerie - together
What could be more exciting than shopping for hot lingerie together? By the time you're done, you'll be well in the mood for a hot sex date.
How about going to an adult toy store - together?
Maybe go visit an adult toy store together. Even if you don't buy anything, you're sure to have a lot of fun checking out all the merchandise.
Mix it up with some new sexual adventures
Doing the same old thing over and over again is bound to get boring. You wouldn't watch the same TV show for the rest of your life, would you?
Try something different. Whether you're up for a threesome or interested in the wild latex world of BDSM, the same idea applies.
Be open to new experiences. Venture out and keep it exciting.
In summary
- Talk with your partner about sex. Really, make a date to sit down and go over it. Then resolve to always talk about it form then on.
- Check your ego at the door. If your partner makes sex suggestions and you get defensive, then you're missing the point completely. Get over it and put your partner first. You'll be glad you did.
- Don't strive to get "comfortable" in a relationship. If you're there, break out of it before you doom your relationship for good.
- Bring the excitement of seduction and the chase back into your relationship - fast.
- Actually schedule some hot sex dates with your partner. Really.
- Keep it exciting with some new sexual adventures. Try new things. Open your mind and explore the entire world of sex possibilities.
Article comments
1 - melissa
i love this article...i've recently purcahsed a new lingerie and i'm waiting on the right moment to put it on .but we have a 6month old baby and we both work 8:00-5:00 shifts.thanks to your article which i enjoyed there are going to be some changes in my sex life .THANK YOU.
2 - Andy Marsh
How 'bout this...August 2nd will be my wife and I's 25th wedding anniversary...
WE only knew each other two weeks when we went to Vegas and got married.
The only thing that makes a marriage work is that both of you have to want it to work.
3 - uhnawneemuss
Thanks for the suggestions. Appreciate it :)
4 - LoverOfToys
This is a great article, but there is always more to add to the solutions. Yes, I agree after time the sex life diminishes and you do have to work at it all the time. Marriage is work and so is your sex life to keep it going. There is too much temptation out there on TV, Magazine Covers and so forth. You need to experiment, do things you normally wouldn't do to keep it interesting. People get tired at night after working, taking care of the kids, but put your best foot forward and make the effort. I know my man loves it when I initiate the act because it makes him feel wanted and it tells him I am in the mood. Granted, he can tell if I am not in the mood and it doesn't make for great sex. Help eachother release tentions and relax to get in the mood and most of all make him feel wanted and you'll get what you want most. A great sex life. Don't forget to change it up though.
5 - joe
this seriously helped alot, i was alone while reading this, im going to ask my girlfreind to read the exact article after she's done work, i really hope this helps..
wee been together for about 2 years and a half, i love her to death but dont get me wrong, the sx drive has ruined alot for us, i think its very unhealy we have had intercourse unde 10 times in that long period of time..
6 - DJ
I almost let a boring sex life ruin my marriage...you just kind lapse into a sex "routine"! You start to lose your drive and people setle for that!! I did.
7 - TT
I am really struggling to keep this relationship going.I'm losing interest in sex but i'm going to try to livin things up.
8 - bex1984
my man never wants to have sex with me.. ive tried the whole dressing up things ive bought toys and still not interested i love him to bits and he loves me but im not sure how long this can last like this its so boaring and we need help
9 - chelsea
So I read this artical. And I love it! Me and my boyfriend have been dating scince high school, haven't made the marriage plunge yet but we will when the time is right. But we were having a lot of problems with when the right time to have sex was. this really helped to just sit down and talk about getting hot with each other. And the sexy date box works really good!
Thanks a lot