I have no confidence in my abilities to even keep someone as good as he is.
Thanks again Gemini Lady. I'll consider doing that. You are being a great help. But I'm starting to think its too late,although I dont want believe it. A couple of weeks ago we decided to be friends. We would still kiss from time to time and hold hands but we saw eachother only a couple times a week. Things were going great,I thought! Then one day I ask her what's wrong,because I can tell when something isn't right. She tells me we arnt a "couple"but we still act like it and its smothering her. I don't understand why she couldn't just tell me her thoughts before it built up inside her to the point that it's causes a problem. She tells me she loves me and that I'm a good man. That shes "too comfortable and that she can't have anything this good." but she doesn't want me out of her life.I'm confused! she says she needs more excitement. I try to explain that it's hard to go do spontaneous things when you have young children to take care of. Let a alone the fact that I'm not a spontaneous person and I need her help to put excitement in my life too. She even tells me my loving txt messages to her are nice and loving but they are almost always the same message. I don't know how many ways I can say i love you, or to have a nice day,or to say I miss you,or to say I can't wait to see you etc. its like she has this list in her head and if someone doesn't meet everything on that list, then she's not happy. Am I missing something? It hurts me to say or think this, but sometimes I wonder if she is too damaged for me to help her. Shes been physically abused before and has been emotionally abused from a young age till now. It's caused her to have extreme addictions. I want to help her but she's says I'm too preachy for her. I try to explain that I'm not trying to preach. Im trying to help and I only do this to people I care about. If I were to leave it alone,that would mean I don't care....I'm at a loss. Anyway thanks for your help. I was wondering,if you decide to respond to me again,would you mind giving me your age? I'm 27...sorry if I'm being nosey. I'm just curious...hope things are well between you and your man. Just remember, that us virgos may seem cold and tough to the outside world,but on the inside, when it comes to the women we love we are like glass.
I've been in love with my virgo boyfriend for 9 yrs. It's sooo hard, he is soooo freakn controlling
Beware gemini woman/girls of a Virgo men. They are so attractive to us. I had encounters with three of them. Gorgeous! But notunderstading about ours ways. The true thing is that we need security, assuring evry now and then. The Gemini woman will flirt always, but if you the right guy and treat her right, there is no problem, she is all devoted to you. Never forget to call her or text her back, it's easier than you think.
He is unbelievable by now, never saw a better behaving guy. i like him and it's strange.
Virgo man, give her variety! Get a babysitter and take her out to have a couple of drinks and dance! While you're dancing surprise her by giving her small bites on her neck. Take her to a hotel and blind fold her and tease her. Have passionate love. Then the next weekend go out for a nice hike outdoors up a mountain with great sights, and end the night at the movies. Take her out for icecream and take a laptop to laugh at funny stuff at the same time. She has love but she might feel like something is missing. Geminis need variety. Do random things, keep her on her toes. She needs excitement to be truly happy. Love is important, but she needs more than that. She's bored, and that can depress her and make her feel like she needs change. Talk to your friends for ideas on what to do, look online for ideas, read magazines, just use all your resources. Plan it and do it AND enjoy it too!!! She just has soo many sides that have needs that need to be met one way or another.
Oh and anther thing, stop the cute texts. Send her some aggressive sexual texts. Tell her what you want to do to her. Send her pictures of your member and tell her how much you want her lol trust me, we love this kinda thing. Just mix it up!
You don't get many dates do you, June2ndGemini?
I know a fellow who gives out advice on facebook about how to get rich. Never having a job beyond trying to sell his friends and relatives all the latest MLM scam products, I am not sure what advice he could give. Except maybe--get your mother to give you a credit card and then run up $50k on it.
He even believes in what he does.You remind me of him in a way.
I love looking through a post that will make people think.
Also, thanks for permitting me to comment!
I'm a gemini woman (young woman) and I'm in love with a virgo man(who's 7yrs older than I am).I've known him for a year.He makes me feel so emotionally stable.As if i can trust him and feel so safe with him.The conversations that we have are so amazing and very to a point where i don't want them to end.After I've admitted that i love him,i see that he's taken so much interest in me and everything in my life,but at the same time, get these mixed signals as if he was interested in someone else and just not enough for him.Even though he sends me goodmorning texts sometimes and calls me randomly,just to hear my voice,he can be a bit critical and sometimes he pokes fun at me,and we even have our disagreements.Despite his workaholic ways,he tries make sometime for me (although an hour isn't enough).I wonder sometimes will show (and say) that he's feeling the same way.I just hope he does.