Elsa,
I'm a young gay teen, and I just wanted to ask if you could give me some relationship advice. I'm not in a relationship right now. I've only been in one 'maybe' relationship. I met this guy about two months back. We hit it off at first. He showed me so much love, and we had a very active sexual fantasy life. The love he showed me left me in an ecstasy of emotions. I soon found out that his "love" faded fast after we couldn't talk for about a week. We could've continued being friends, but I couldn't keep in contact with him and not remember the wonderful feelings he gave me.
I told him I didn't want to talk to him, and shoved him out of my life. I still was infatuated with him for a while after, but I got over it. This is only one of the few times that I had such intense feelings for another male. This other guy in my school had me wrapped around his finger without even knowing it. I had so many intense feelings for him for about a year and a half. I was verging on quiet obsession. I had completely gotten over him after two years of liking him.
I wanted to know what planetary influences would make me feel so strongly about these people. Also, when can you see me getting into a healthy and/or prolonged relationship?
Fourteen Years Old
Dear Fourteen,
Yes, absolutely. I definitely think you will be able to sustain a healthy and prolonged relationship. You are exactly on track to this end with what you’re doing right now. That is, you are discovering yourself. And I can help with that. But not that much. Because you’re doing such a good job already…
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1 - mary
hi hello my name is mary and im not gay but i know a gay girl that is in my class and i realize that i want to hook up with her i am a picese shes a ibra will it happen