Dear Elsa,
Two years ago, I got divorced from someone I loved with all my heart. I also believe I still love a Cancer ex-boyfriend, with whom I spent seven years.
In the past two years, I've had a few relationships - some casual and one serious. But I realized I don't love any one of them... and thus, I am now single. The fact is, I am happy by myself. But of course, I still miss the feeling of loving someone who loves me.
What are my odds of finding true love again?
Wondering,
Ex-Wife / Ex-Girlfriend
Dear Ex,
Your odds are 100%. I think you have a superior love to offer. You love deeply and completely and this is why the last two years gone the way they have. Very simply, you have not recovered from your divorce. But understanding your love-nature can help speed your recovery.
Take the Cancer man from your past. Get this: You’re always going to love him. Just forget about that ever going away. He will live in your heart always, as will your ex-husband - because this is the kind of love you have. Your love goes on and on forever. And you might want to celebrate this, because it’s the best love there is!
But it doesn’t mean you belong with either of these men. In fact, it doesn’t look like you do! So you’ll find someone else to love, who will love you back... and you will still love these men! Do you hear me? It’s your NATURE.
What I think is holding you back is something astrologer James Braha calls a “mistake of the intellect”. You think you are stuck loving these (ex) men. But your love is much larger than that - and if you can come to understand this, it will really open things up for you .
You can love these men in an ethereal, spiritual way. You can love what you had with them, and still move on to the future. What you don’t want to do is wait around till you don’t love them anymore, because with Venus conjunct Neptune in the twelfth house, this is never going to happen.
You’re going to be fine. And you’re going to have a partner you love just as soon as you give yourself permission.
Good luck.
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Article comments
1 - Bahni
i just read your comment to "will i find love again?" you are a kind astrologer. thank you for such a positive, love-oriented perspective. if you have an extra moment i'd like to know more about my progressed sun in early pisces, natal moon in pisces 22 degrees, progressed moon in 0 degrees aquarius...as each relate to this venus/neptune conjunction. thank you so much...bahni