I'm confused because he broke up with me and now he is saying that he thought that he lost me. Help!! Please this man is too confusing, but I feel deeply for him and want to see where he is coming from. Or if it is all a game. Any insight?
At A Loss
Dear Loss,
No, it is not a game. The guy is definitely a self-absorbed jackass and probably has a mental illness to boot! So what is it you want to know? Do you want to know if he is going to settle down with you and have kids? Hell no!
Are you going to be his girl? Sure! If you don’t mind sex on the days and nights he’s in town! If he doesn’t meet someone else on the way to your house, that is.
Look. Just how bad do you need to hear you are the “world’s best lover?” Because it seems you like this. It seems you like the drama of him calling you “from the tarmac.” Seems you think this guy is special! So I think you’re in good shape, as long as you don’t mind him traveling for months at a time and kicking your teeth down your throat when you least expect it. Hey! If you don’t mind that, you’re in. But me?
Well, I’d be deleting him from my cell phone right now, with no plans to look back. This guy offers nothing but a little (a very little) bit of sex, and sex is not exactly rare, you know?
Good luck.
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1 - Akua Mercy
awesome advice!!!!!!!