I know you can relate and do you see my point? You are both these people in the same body! And you also have Pluto in the 8th house, opposing your Sun and this adds up to a sex drive that will not be denied. So what to do?
Well, forget tradition. It’ll never work. You’ll be on your own among your peers in large part, but so? What you want is a friend (Aquarius) you can be intimate with. And I don’t mean “fuck buddy”. It doesn’t have to be that way, and I can assure you of this, firsthand.
See, I am like you… a more toned-down version. And when I was young… which lasted for a long time, lol - I could not be tied down. But this does not mean I was not attached. I was enormously attached. I met a man when I was fifteen and went on and off with him for seventeen years! When we were not intimate, we were friends and get this:
It’s going on thirty years later and we still are. The physical relationship ended some ten years ago but we are in close contact to this day. He's is a life-long love... albeit unconventional. So this is one option and there are others.
I am currently in the most intimate relationship of my life by far, but I am unmarried. We live nearby, not together. And you could not find two people more bonded, believe me. But we do it our way, which involves some space.
So you get my point. You know what you’re looking for and I advise you don’t compromise. Because it’s out there, I promise you that. Good luck.
Article comments
1 - Susette Horspool
Wow! Now I want to get in touch with you. Why did I not realize there would be others out there like me? I'm 55, never been married. I'm a Virgo sun with moon in Aquarius quincunx. I have Cancer rising, with Uranus conjunct the ascendant and a mutual reception betw Cancer & Aquarius. Total independence with a lot of caring. OK so far? Get this. Trine Uranus is Mars in Scorpio in the 5th H. Mars is the focal point of a T-square with the Moon and with Venus in Leo in the 2nd, which has a loose conjunction with Pluto in Leo. If this girl doesn't get sex, she goes into long term depression (astrologically). I have Capricorn ruling my 7th H, of course, and Saturn is in Virgo in the 4th. This one wants stability, trust, and a traditional home. So how the heck do I find a partner at all? Not only have I never been married, but I haven't been sexual for ten years!