"I drove many ‘stars’ in those two years," Oropesa continued, "but Mr. Kirby is the only one that I look back on with genuine affection. Beyond that one brief meeting I didn't really ‘know’ Mr Kirby. However, from that one experience, I feel ‘genuine’ is the word that describes him best. He will be missed."
Although unlike so many of the posters I’ve cited, we never met, Bruno Kirby also touched me, when I saw him on a mid or late-1990s appearance on The Late Late Show, hosted by the great Tom Snyder. Among other things, Kirby talked about when he was a little boy living in midtown Manhattan, which would have been during the mid-1950s. His father, the actor Bruce Kirby, came home at midnight from work, woke up his son, and said, “Buddy, would you like to go see a movie?”
Of course, the little boy said “Yes,” and so the father bundled up his son and took him to a midnight screening in a movie palace, the likes of which New York once teemed with. A few years later when my son was born, thinking of Bruce and Bruno Kirby, one of the first of many nicknames I gave him was “Buddy.”
Thanks for the memories, pal. R.I.P.
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Article comments
1 - Eric Olsen
beatiful, informative, touching job Nicholas, thanks!
2 - John Henry
Excellent article Nicholas, and the best that I've read to date. He was a tremendous actor, and so obviously touched the hearts of all who knew and met him.
You gave him a great tribute, and I for one greatly appreciated reading it. Very heartfelt. He would approve I'm sure.
3 - Nicholas Stix
Thank you for your kind words, Eric and John.
4 - Roberta Rosenberg
I'm a huge movie buff (more than a fan, something less than a scholar), and your "In Appreciation" piece about Bruno Kirby was beautifully written. In many ways, this is a tribute not just to Kirby, but to all the characters actors the public knows by face, even voice, but not the name. A fine, fine job. Thank you.
5 - Dawn
Wow, that was in-depth and well written! I am no fan of Billy Crystal, he's too east coast for my taste. If I want to see a short, self-effacing comedian, I'll watch Richard Dryfus. He's much more talented and versatile.
6 - Gina Weiss
VERY informative, well-written, well-deserved tribute to a real star...Kudos, Nicholas!
7 - Nicholas Stix
Roberta Rosenberg: I'm a huge movie buff (more than a fan, something less than a scholar), and your "In Appreciation" piece about Bruno Kirby was beautifully written. In many ways, this is a tribute not just to Kirby, but to all the characters actors the public knows by face, even voice, but not the name. A fine, fine job. Thank you.
Thank you so much for your kind words, Roberta.
When I was a little boy, maybe eight years old, the first time I ever heard the term “character actor” applied to anyone, it was my Nana speaking. She said it, as if it were the greatest thing in the world. And it was.
We used to watch 1930s classics on regular, afternoon TV in those days (40 years ago), and I believe Nana's favorite character actor was Thomas Mitchell (her favorite star was Jimmy Stewart, who's high up the ladder for me, too).
For many years, Mitchell was my favorite, too. (In 1939, he had the greatest year any actor has ever had, with central roles in The Hunchback of Notre Dame, Mr. Smith Goes to Washington, Stagecoach and Gone with the Wind.)
These days, I lean towards Walter Brennan, whom I've seen dominate scenes with the likes of Bogey (in To Have and Have Not), Coop (in The Westerner), and Spence (in Bad Day at Black Rock), the latter of whom was one of the first character actors to make it to the marquee (just after, I believe, Marie Dressler).
And yet, I love 'em all. I could name 100 (alright, maybe not 100) great character actors off the top of my head, and most of them would be the kind of guys you were talking about -- the ones whom few people know by name, but whom everyone knows by face or voice " the Elisha Cook Jrs., Eugene Pallettes, Ward Bonds, Marjorie Mains (I'm not counting Thelma Ritter, because she actually became famous in her day, and was nominated for a passel of best supporting actress Oscars), John Cazales, George Dzundzas, James Edwardses, Jane Darwells, Victor McLaglens, Charley Grapewins, Emil Meyers, Willis Boucheys (confession: I couldn’t remember Bouchey’s last name, and had to look it up), Strother Martins, Bonnie Hunts, Robert Loggias, et al.
8 - Nicholas Stix
Thank you, Dawn and Gina.
9 - brunobuddy
Bruno is an actor Billy is a stand up comic.
I heard that Billy tried to give Bruno some acting crtiticism and Bruno pointed out that he started in The Godfather II and Billy started as a stand up comic then in Soap and rabbit test
10 - Dennis Purcell
I was an usher working with Bruce Kirby in 1968 for the stage musical "Hair." Bruce took another job at the Vine St. Theater which was running "Romeo and Juliet," which he was stuck with for 51 weeks! He left the Aquarius Theater so he could work at a movie theater to "see more free movies" but no one thought R&J would run a year. I moved to NYC for ten years and ran into Bruce when I returned, about 1981. I told him I'd seen him in lots of movies and I was proud of him. He was always a nice guy. At least I can always see him in movies, here and there.
That's it.
11 - Ellen C
Nice article, Nicholas...very enjoyable reading...and your additional message regarding Hollywood second bananas -- top notch!
I hope that these actors know how much they are appreciated by the folks outside the golden inner circle.
Thanks again for your great writing! I'm going to click away on your links and see if I can find more!
12 - C-magne
Watching "When Harry Met Sally" again. He's fantastic.
Had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Kirby when I recorded him at a voiceover studio for a commercial. Definitely down to earth.
Thank you - Nicholas - this was great.
13 - Gilda DeMartino
I've been an enthusiastic Bruno Kirby fan ever since I saw him for the first time in The Godfather, and have enjoyed all of his succeeding performances. After reading what Billy Crystal did to him, well, I have never been a Billy Crystal fan, but never had a reason. Now I have a reason. May you rest in peace, Bruno, and have a peaceful afterlife. Thank you for everything that you gave us.
14 - Rich S
Years ago I was attending La Salle University in Philadelphia, I saw an interview that Bruno did for the school. I don't think the interview was aired beyond La Salle's own local cable channel. During the interview, Bruno talked briefly about his falling out with Billy Crystal. He basically said that Billy, as director, was trying to tell him how to act, and Bruno decided he was having none of it. Bruno gave a great interview - he told a story about the Godfather - he worked with an Italian coach but the whole scene had to be redubbed because another Italian consultant didn't like Bruno's accent and wanted him to redo it.