My husband has a 16-year-old daughter; she's lived with my husband and me since she was 9. We get along fine until it's time for her to go see her real mom down in Florida. We start fighting, she starts speaking to me like I'm crap, and she tells her mom that she's tired of me acting like her mom. Then she goes down there for summer, spring and winter breaks, and throws my husband and me under the bus.
When my step daughter comes home, it takes a good month to deprogram from her visit with her mom and then she loves us again. We do so much for this child, while her mom does nothing to help. She is supposed to help pay for child support and she never does. She told her daughter that she'll be damned before my husband gets any of her money.
Please help, I am tired of my stepdaughter throwing us under the bus!
Dear Double Pisces,
Anyone with their Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury and Chiron in Pisces is going to get thrown under the bus – PERIOD. But I wanted to help you, so I looked to your stepdaughter's chart hoping it would yield something and it did.
For one thing, now I know your head is on completely straight. See, I thought she might be a generic teenager! You know. Duck and cover until they grow up. But this is not the case. This gal is a true conundrum, so how about we talk about her.
First of all, she’s a Gemini rising, so very naturally she's two-faced. Forget about curing this! She is going continue to pull this crap because it’s “interesting” for her.