Why Do Married Men Cheat With Unattractive Women? is about a topic that is very dear to every woman’s heart: This book focuses on both the male and female perspective on the topic. The author has done 10 years of research surrounding the topic. She has tried to obtain feedback throughout her many interviews. While she was doing her research the case of Judie and her ex caught her attention. So, she began investigating about this topic.
Many times, women choose to stay with unfaithful spouses. This may be because women have low self-esteem or because they simply feel threatened by the beautiful women out there. However, one of the most surprising things that I discovered after reading the book is that men don’t usually cheat on their wives with beautiful women. Instead, men seem to cheat because they feel much more comfortable with the new woman and she makes him feel good about themselves. Men want respect, and they want to be treated special.
Therefore, women and men believe different things about why men cheat. Women believe that their spouses cheat on them because they’re not pretty or successful enough. Men, on the other hand cheat with other women because they don’t feel good enough about themselves, and the new woman makes them feel better about themselves. Some of the women men cheat with are supposedly ugly and fat. So, men don’t really care much about the exterior aspects of a woman as much as women do.
The important take-away message of the book is that if men cheat on their wives, women should move on. It is wrong to stay with spouses who will put up with infidelity of this nature. Even if the male apologizes to his spouse, if a man cheats on his wife once, he’ll cheat again. So, if a woman discovers that her husband’s is unfaithful, she must leave, and let him continue on his lustful ways on his own. The truth is that unfaithful men shouldn’t be married. They should stay single and then they can cater to their lustful ways.
I absolutely enjoyed reading this book. I think it will help women to come to terms with why men cheat and to leave if they discover that they are cheating.
In addition, the book has 40 journaling prompts to explore our feelings about cheating and to examine the ideas that we grew up with about relationships and infidelity. I found out so much about myself while answering these 40 questions. And I’m sure the reader will too.