Jennifer Hunt and Dan Baritchi are sharing the secrets of sex with women all over the world in their compilation book The Best Sex of Your Life: 101 Secrets Every Woman Should Know presented by SheKnows.com. They've weighed in on all of the myths about sex and come to some fascinating conclusions on everything from whether size really does matter to that Loch Ness monster of sexual mythology, the mysterious and elusive anal orgasm. Does it even really exist? So far all the video evidence I've seen looks faked, but they assure us it's out there — you just have to know how to find it.
They answer questions that most women are too embarrassed to even ask, like does a man really care about seeing his partner naked? Apparently so. They have plenty of good advice for those who are less than confident in their nude appeal. They'll teach you techniques to camouflage your flaws and drive attention to your perfections.
Throughout the book Dan breaks the "man code" and reveals what men are really thinking. Like those lingerie catalogs that keep showing up in the bedroom and the bathroom? Does that mean your man wants to see you strapped up in lacy corsets? Dan advises you to save your money; if your guy wants to see you in lingerie he'll let you know. Those catalogs are actually just masturbation materials. I imagine Dan watches his back at the gym these days; there must be plenty of men out there who want revenge after having their Victoria's Secret catalog subscription canceled by an angry spouse.
Their secrets cover everything from Viagra to the four phases of the female orgasm — something I personally intend to study at length. Secret #85 Massage His Lingham is one of many secrets they share involving tantric sex. But, what is his lingham? In tantra it means "wand of light." You can probably figure out the rest.
The most helpful advice included in the book involves the use of sex toys in the bedroom. How to get them discreetly, how to use them in ways that are both educational and fun, with and without, your partner. They explore a wide variety of uses for G-Spot stimulators, Rabbits and other erotic gadgets, they even throw in a few household utensils. All I can say is, you'll never look at your whisk the same way again.
The secrets I enjoyed reading most were the ones that came right out and addressed sexual matters head on, so to speak. Like secret #23 Guys Like Girls Who Give Good Head. That's hardly a secret. But the full discussion of how's and why's puts a new spin on an old theme. By the time you're finished reading you'll be ready to strap on your knee pads and go at it like a pro.
This book is full of information for the sexually curious. Like secret #94. "Doggie Style is the second most common sexual position in the United States." And I thought that was just in my house. The authors offer tips on subjects ranging from anal sex to oral sex during menstruation. Even if you have no interest in doing these things, the information is intriguing. If you are interested, you'll find the answers to all of your questions, even the ones you didn't know you had. Personally I loved this book. I fully intend to experiment with every one of their 101 secrets now that I know what goes in which end, and whose end it goes into… although in many cases that seems to be optional.
The Best Sex of Your Life is an incredibly candid and witty book that every woman should have in her sexual arsenal. It's like The Joy of Cooking for the bedroom, although it should definitely be kept out of the reach of curious little hands.
You can find Jennifer and Dan hard at work answering readers sex questions at their website (NSFW). The 300 sex education videos on the site receive between 2-4 million hits per month. They offer their sexpert advice to over 400,000 readers every month.