Did Big Mac's Temper Get The Best of Him?
Published March 08, 2008
EB: Can you describe the conversation?
McCain: Pardon me.
EB: Can you describe the conversation?
McCain: No, of course not. I don’t describe private conversations.
EB: Okay. Can I ask you –
McCain: Why should I? Then there’s no such thing as a private conversation. Is there (inaudible) if you have a private conversation with someone, and then they come and tell you. I don’t know that that’s a private conversation. I think that’s a public conversation.
EB. Okay. Can I ask you about your (pause) Why you’re so angry?
McCain: Pardon me?
EB: Nevermind, nevermind.
McCain: I mean it’s well known. Everybody knows. It’s been well chronicled a thousand times. John Kerry asked if I would consider being his running mate.
EB: Right.
McCain: And I said categorically no, under no circumstances. That’s all very well known.
EB: Okay, let me ask you… (moves on to another question.)
PRESIDENTIAL TEMPERS
Are we now living in a society where losing one’s temper is a sign of a psychological deficiency? If so, let’s start with Jesus and work down from there. It seems to me He list His temper one time. Peggy Noonan once wrote about Ronald Reagan’s temper. He had one. Bill Clinton is infamous for his temper tantrums. (For the record, so have I). Our very first (and my favorite) President of the United States, George Washington – remember him – had a ferocious temper and could out swear an “R-rated” cop movie. He once grew so angry with feuding officers that he punched the three of them out with just one punch to the jaw apiece. Abraham Lincoln had a ‘ferocious’ temper. FDR had a temper.
ANGER IS GOOD FOR YOU
If you Google words like “anger” “temper” “tantrum” you come up with any number of sites dealing with anger management, childhood anger, and the psychosis of anger. I will guarantee this will be used against John McCain during the campaign, trying to goad him into losing his infamous temper. I also guarantee you will not see information from a 2005 study about people who have a tendency to ‘get angry’ and lose their temper once in awhile.
Aside from being ‘normal’ and ‘sane’ these people are better grounded, are more optimistic, and do not respond to life with fear. In other words, it is better to be a fighter than someone who is passive. According to Carnegie Mellon psychologist Jennifer Lerner, it is better for a person to do the John McCain thing and get mad once in awhile. People who behave this way have fewer problems with high blood pressure and chronic heart disease.
- Did Big Mac's Temper Get The Best of Him?
- Published: March 08, 2008
- Type: Opinion
- Section: Politics
- Filed Under: Politics: Elections and Candidates, Politics: U.S.
- Writer: SJ Reidhead
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He can't laugh off a harmless question? It makes him edgy and defensive? It becomes such a big deal in his mind that he can't drop it and move on? Isn't that pretty much already his reputation over fairly insignificant matters and people who bug him?
Every candidate for president talks about himself/herself endlessly, proclaiming their wonderful qualities and unique abilities and qualifications for the job. They spend tens of millions of dollars attacking the other side, because they're so different and so much better.
So he's asking for the job and working hard to convince us to give it to him, with all the stresses and personal inconveniences that go along with it. If he reacts to such a minor irritation from an insignificant source, we have to wonder how well he can handle the major challenges and massive frustrations a president has to deal with domestically and in foreign affairs.
As the campaign goes forward, McCain's emotional stability is one point that will and should be closely watched. Being aggressively and unecessarily argumentative is not a good sign.
SJ - good article and thanks for the link to the actual incident.
I did notice the nervous tic at his left eye. I have to agree with Lee Richards on this; McCain behaved oddly for being confronted by an 'insignificant source'.
I don't think McCain showed anger or lack of control in that conversation. I agree he could've handled it slightly better but I think the issue is being overblown in an effort to find something that would call McCain's judgement into question.
The reporter kept pushing the issue even though McCain was clear that he did not want to talk about it. She being from the NY Times doesn't make me feel like it was a coincidence that the question was being taped and she kept pushing for an answer.
He should have pulled an Obama and walked away!
I don't think it would be reasonable to say that he was really showing temper here. This incident was more in the range of being a little annoyed and not trying to hide it. Maybe he's thinking that he's going to gently intimidate reporters into backing off of this topic permanently.
But the reason he wants them to and that they won't is because he does have a little something to hide. I wouldn't exactly say that McCain lied, but he had been less than honest about this 2004 incident. That is, he previously wouldn't admit to having been in any such conversation. Not that there's anything wrong with the conversation at all, but he spent a couple of years fibbing about it before the story became widely enough known that he had to acknowledge it.
He's pissy because he was caught in a fib, and now the press wants to break it off up in him. With his extremely high minded touchiness about his honor, getting caught in even the mildest politician's little white lie is probably pretty humiliating.
I tend to agree with the writer and most of the commenters so far. It was a dumb question about an incident that's now ancient history and Brumiller kept pushing it. I'd have told her to piss off and stop wasting everyone's time.
The expression 'flogging a dead horse' comes to mind here.
Arch: If John Mccain could just get angry at the right people I may just be able to bring myself to vote for him.
In other words, you'd vote for McCain if you agreed with his policies...
Well, duh.
You know what I like about America. Its been a couple hundred years, and ALREADY they are thinking about becoming a nation lead by WASPS to a nation lead by BASPS. Let freedom RING! We are so liberal its SCARY!








If John Mccain could just get angry at the right people I may just be able to bring myself to vote for him.