OPINION

Online Dating Profiles: The Right Headline Attracts the Right Person

Written by Dan and Jennifer
Published April 03, 2007

It's deceptively simple to sign up with an online dating site, but creating a profile that attracts the right kind of person to you can be a little tricky. Does it seem like no matter what you do, the wrong people keep contacting you? Does it really matter what you put in all of those little interest and hobby fields? The answer is yes - sometimes. What you say in your headline and in the details, and how you say it can make all the difference.

A Great Headline

A great headline should sum up who you are and what you're looking for in one short and witty sentence. Some good headlines might be:

"Music is my life. Want to share my life?"

"Let's make great music together"

"Wanna rock? Only serious music lovers need apply"

"Hard core rocker looking for groupie"

The Devil is in the Details

My grandmother always said the devil is in the details and I've always found that to be true. The details of your online profile should identify what you're all about and what you're looking for in a relationship. If there are certain types of people you are absolutely not interested in, say it in your profile, but try to keep it positive. If you don't like pop music, you might say something like:

"Music is my life. To me there is only one great genre of music - Rock. If you love rock music as much as I do, let's meet. I do apologize, but if you like Pop music, I'm not going to be a good match for you. Yes, I recognize how extreme this must sound, but making great rock music truly is my life and I'm looking for someone who can appreciate this lifestyle as much as I do. Are you the groupie I'm searching for?"

As for all of those extra check boxes for hobbies and interests, those are less important unless the website has a matching algorithm that sends you potential matches based on your specific interests and hobbies. If that's the case, make sure you fill out all those fields so you'll get the best matches.

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Online Dating Profiles: The Right Headline Attracts the Right Person
Published: April 03, 2007
Type: Opinion
Section: Culture
Filed Under: Culture: Family and Relationships, Culture: Society
Writer: Dan and Jennifer
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