http://blogcritics.org/ A sinister cabal of superior bloggers on music, books, film, popular culture, politics, and technology - updated continuously. en Copyright 2005-2007 by the authors Thu, 25 Oct 2007 22:39:37 EDT http://backend.userland.com/rss Blogcritics.org custom software http://blogcritics.org/archives/2006/10/03/164607.php#comment-644932 I have also been involved with an abusive man..verbally and physically..hair pulling, pushing, grabbing me, pushing me down, name calling, swearing..but sometimes he can act very attentive, cook for me, etc....so it is not that easy to get away for some reason 644932@blogcritics.org Thu, 25 Oct 2007 22:39:37 EDT http://blogcritics.org/archives/2006/10/03/164607.php#comment-644931 I have also been involved with an abusive man..verbally and physically..hair pulling, pushing, grabbing me, pushing me down, name calling, swearing..but sometimes he can act very attentive, cook for me, etc....so it is not that easy to get away for some reason 644931@blogcritics.org Thu, 25 Oct 2007 22:39:32 EDT http://blogcritics.org/archives/2006/10/03/164607.php#comment-644930 I have also been involved with an abusive man..verbally and physically..hair pulling, pushing, grabbing me, pushing me down, name calling, swearing..but sometimes he can act very attentive, cook for me, etc....so it is not that easy to get away for some reason 644930@blogcritics.org Thu, 25 Oct 2007 22:39:28 EDT http://blogcritics.org/archives/2006/10/03/164607.php#comment-644929 I have also been involved with an abusive man..verbally and physically..hair pulling, pushing, grabbing me, pushing me down, name calling, swearing..but sometimes he can act very attentive, cook for me, etc....so it is not that easy to get away for some reason 644929@blogcritics.org Thu, 25 Oct 2007 22:39:24 EDT http://blogcritics.org/archives/2006/10/03/164607.php#comment-644928 I have also been involved with an abusive man..verbally and physically..hair pulling, pushing, grabbing me, pushing me down, name calling, swearing..but sometimes he can act very attentive, cook for me, etc....so it is not that easy to get away for some reason 644928@blogcritics.org Thu, 25 Oct 2007 22:38:44 EDT http://blogcritics.org/archives/2006/10/03/164607.php#comment-644927 I have also been involved with an abusive man..verbally and physically..hair pulling, pushing, grabbing me, pushing me down, name calling, swearing..but sometimes he can act very attentive, cook for me, etc....so it is not that easy to get away for some reason 644927@blogcritics.org Thu, 25 Oct 2007 22:38:30 EDT http://blogcritics.org/archives/2006/10/03/164607.php#comment-635297 Will you people stop with the trite "advice". The nature of love is incredibly complex and not always sensible. Please spare her your self righteous, subjective advice and stop being hard on her for loving someone who is undeserving of her love. Love, as they say, is blind, and she needs better advice than what has been given here. I am specially disappointed with the advice given by Elsa. Lady, I sincerely hope you have not quit your day job to do this full time. You suck! Cristine hon, there are many other wonderful sensitive, courageous, brave, loving men out there in this world that you don't need to settle for one who is abusive and cruel. Facts are facts, and if this man is treating you with little respect and regard for your feelings than he is simply not in the mental, emotional and, psychological position to offer you the love you deserve. My advise to you is.. don't waste your time and let him be. You probably have already given him many chances to prove himself (no one is perfect in this world, everyone deserves a second chance, that is true) but if he has consistently failed than there really is no reason to consider taking him back. You would be doing yourself more harm than good and naturally you would do much better on your own than you would having someone who is abusive and psychologically damaged in your life. People like that rarely change. 635297@blogcritics.org Mon, 24 Sep 2007 01:41:02 EDT http://blogcritics.org/archives/2006/10/03/164607.php#comment-586916 why would you do that i think it is stupid and i dont think you should do that because it is just going to end up where you end up in the hospital or something and then you are going to ask your self why did i do this. 586916@blogcritics.org Mon, 7 May 2007 13:54:01 EDT