Feeling Betrayed, Elsa's advice seems sound. You know, it might be a case of insecurity on his part and the old adage, 'you hurt the ones you love'.

Me, being a hardcore Scorpion, I am hardcore true blue till the end. And sometimes the mind goes haywire and...

The lies and trust advice is good to follow on this one. Whether he actually screwed around, there is confusion in the trust department.

best,
DM

This is the 21th century. All options should be presented at the altar. Marriage and relationships are foolish. Remember, you only live once. Grab whatever makes you feel good.

Look, no! Just because he doesn't tell you the truth doesn't mean he's lying. Perhaps he's out doing something you wouldn't approve of? You just thinking it's cheating because that's worst case. Then again, he could be. You guys need to talk I think!

I HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 1 YEAR AND 11 MONTHS AND NOW THAT WE LOST ARE BABY HE HAS MEET THIS GIRL AND I SAW HIM WITH HER AND HE SAID THAT IT WAS HIS FRIEND AND I DONT BELEIVE HIM AND SO THEN HE TOLD ME TO GO HOME WHY HE WAS WITH HIS FRIEND AND THAT GIRL AND THEN I GET ALL MAD AND EVERYTHING AND SO THEN A COUPLE OF DAYS LATER I CALL HIM AND HE HAS ANOTHER GIRL IN THE CAR AND HE SAIDS THAT ITS HIS FRIENDS GIRLFRIEND AND THAT HE IS TAKING HER TO HER FRIENDS HOUSE AND U SAID SHE CAN WALK OR GET SOME ONE ELSE TO TAKE HER AND SO THEN I GET MAD AND THEN WE ALMOST BROAKE UP AND I FEEL LIKE HE DOES NOT LOVE ME AND THAT HE IS ONLY USING ME FOR SEX AND THAT SO I WONT BE ALONE AND THAT HE IS ALWAYS WITH HIS FRIENDS AND NEVER WONT TO TAKE ME ANYWHERE AND I FEEL LIKE IM BEING USED AND SO I FEEL SO HURT PLEASE HELP ME

It sound to me like a lot of these girls don't have much back bone. If somebody treats you like that and doesn't care how it makes you feel when you catch him with some chick that you don't even know, you are probably much better off with out him. There are plenty of guys out there who do not treat their girlfriends like dogs because they care about how they feel. You are worth more DO NOT sell your self short. And by the way paul not telling the truth IS lying.

elsa,
my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and we are currently living together. he's been somewhat distant to me and so i started to be to and when i did that he wanted to know why i wasn't talking to him. well i went to wash my face last night,and i found his cellphone so out of curiosity i looked at the calls there was this girls name vannessa called like 6 times in one day.well my boyfriend was working all day.so when i confronted him he told me that his co-worker used his phone to call a customer they had for plumbming please help me tell me if he's cheating on me!!!!!

Hey,i have a boyfriend.I'm only a teenager and i'm already going thourgh streesful reliefs.I'm so afraid that my one and only true love is cheating on me,even my friends tell me to watch out , but when i question him about it,its always No,never in a lifetime!I trust him then i don't.I also do some really dangerous things to my body by just thinking about it being true or not.I love him with all of my heart.I even cut myself by just thinking about that he's probaly doing it.We always kiss every morning at school.Now,he suppose to be coming over my house this weekend.The sad part is that 2weeks ago when i told my mom his name,i found out that we were cousins!Yeah,thats pretty shocking but i guess our love 4 each other is everlasting.He also asked me today that if he comes over to my house that he wanted me to lose my virginty to him.Yes,i'm still a virgin.I'm soooooooo scared!Please,someone,i need advice,NOW!Help me because i sooooo don't want to get hurt.

Seriously. If any male did that to me, i would drop him straight away! you simply cannnot trust liar's he tried to blame his lie on you! by saying that you had been sleeping with his cousin when you obviously hadn't. Your boyfriend truely sounds like a jerk. I hate how most girls these days are treated like dirt by most males. seriously, we can do better without them, its not like we "need" them financially to survive. The problem is men think that we do.

i have this boyfriend we been together going on a year now and we are goin to have a baby on march 17 and i think he's cheating on me we dont have sex and we dont hang out on the weekend like we use to he tell me he's 2 busy...

i.ve been with a full blown scorpio guy for over a year now.. broken up and gotten back together several times.. most recently because found out im pregnant.. due sep 22.. lil bit of a cusp there. im a leo. going with your gut while ur with a scorpio is damn near impossible. why because a scorpio man is very dramatic and the biggest woman when it comes to deceit, manipulation, and blame. we fit together like the moon and the stars. and its been a wonderful learning experience. but if i could go back in time i never would have started dating him in the first place. situations you.ll get put in will leave u so confused and hurt you will not know what to do with yourself. have u ever noticed how much shit other girls try to start while your dating a scorpio? kinda makes u think dont it? i have never been hurt by anyone as much as i have been by a scorpio. im a strong person but if date one u better be ready. at times they are so simple that it makes them complicated too. its insane.

i think my boyfriend is cheatn on me cuz a next women answer his cell phone one day i called

Same thing happened to me in early '06. I'm a Taurus Sun/Scorpio Rising--I'd been in a rel w/ my bf (Sagittarius sun) for over a yr when we moved in together; more so due to circumstances (both our leases were ending and we rented together temporarily to save money), but it WAS A MISTAKE! ugh. That saying "You stop learning about each other after you move in together" .. Should've been a no-go. He was constantly jealous/suspicious and he thought I was cheating w/ a co-worker, and he had revenge sex w/ one of these dumb chicks @ his then-workplace. Whatever. I wasn't mad at her, but of course w/ him b/c he allowed another stranger into our rel. Bottom line: the bf you described sounds like my ex. OVer! Cheaters/liars suffer chronic insecurity and while they desire and long for a solid emotional connection, they also seek and "need" constant validation of their attractiveness (Ego boosts) from OTHER WOMEN -- and if those OTHER WOMEN seduce them for sex, you BETTER BELIEVE your MAN WILL GIVE IN. Any man who IS JEALOUS and CONTROLLING and INSECURE is a CHEATER/LIAR. HE WILL NOT CHANGE. LEAVE HIM--IT HURTS A LOT when You love the man, but to suffer and also jeopardize your health (they are reckless and have unprotected sex with these OTHER WOMEN) is JUST not worth it.

Hey every one. So this girl keeps on sms'ing my bf thes lovi dovi smses and shes married with 2 kids. And when i ask my bf about thes smses he gets angry or just dnt answer me .and then me fight and then we have make up sex and i dont know if im to jelous but i think there is something going on between them. Can some one plz help me or just tel me what i shoud do.thanx for reading