http://blogcritics.org/ A sinister cabal of superior bloggers on music, books, film, popular culture, politics, and technology - updated continuously. en Copyright 2005 by the authors Sun, 6 Feb 2005 18:37:18 EST http://backend.userland.com/rss Blogcritics.org custom software http://blogcritics.org/archives/2005/02/06/141329.php#comment-115932 well, then, angela, so we've been on both sides of the fence. either way, we know right from wrong and in this case, we know what to do-- what is the right thing for us, anyway. i think it's always hard; marriage is always work and there are always going to be people who will try to come between you, as the song by Crowded House goes, and you just have to stay strong. "You know but they won't win..." as he says, and that's important to remember. If your partner isn't like that, is not in agreement, then the deal is off - why bother. keep the faith; and thanks for reading... sadi 115932@blogcritics.org Sun, 6 Feb 2005 18:37:18 EST http://blogcritics.org/archives/2005/02/06/141329.php#comment-115930 Thanks, Sadi, for sharing this. It's real. I love the 'just say no' too. It always works great for me. But then again, like you, I'm a married girl!!! ;-) Angela. 115930@blogcritics.org Sun, 6 Feb 2005 18:31:35 EST