J.L. King demystifies the Down Low
Published September 27, 2004
After reading J.L. King's On the Down Low: A Journey Into the Lives of "Straight" Black Men Who Sleep with Men, and thinking about it a couple weeks, I'm pretty much where I was before I read his rambling narrative. I'm resigned to the harm people quite willingly do each other, but also hope they will change. It seems to be that the Down Low is largely another example of exploitive behavior. The roots of that behavior may be as deep as the human psyche itself.
The book was preceded by a plethora of publicity. King appeared on Oprah. Periodicals as diverse as Essence and the New York Times have examined the phenomenon known as the Down Low. Both people new to the topic and experts wonder if bisexual men who hide their preference for both genders are responsible for the high rate of HIV infection among African-American women. Some gay activists and men on the Down Low are angry that King revealed the secret. Other people have thanked him for putting the interest of millions ahead of his own.
As someone already familiar with the controversy, I hoped King's book, which made the New York Times Bestseller List, would shed light on how the grand deception of so many women was perpetrated. Instead, I was reminded that being on the list and being a good book are not necessarily synonymous. Interest in a topic by a segment of the population, for example the far Right or black women, can propel a mediocre book onto the list. That is what has occurred with On the Down Low. Yes, King does address how men on the Down Low deceive women into having unprotected sexual intercourse with them. But, the conclusion he reaches — that any man might be sleeping with other men and deceiving the woman in his life — is hardly a prophylactic. His advice amounts to: Be suspicious.
- J.L. King demystifies the Down Low
- Published: September 27, 2004
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I read the book. It was terrific. I would like to know if and how I can reach Mr. King for a speaking engagment. I am a member of a christian women's group who will be hosting a conference type event in March of 2005. I tried to reach the web site. It did not display. Why?
Try going through his publisher, Gwen. If you still have the book, the name of his editor can be found in the Acknowledgments. Call him or her and your request will be forwarded to King or his speaker's bureau.
Web sites can be iffy things. It could have been hacked or lost its hosting service. No telling.
I believe that J.L. Miller is doing a great job by exposing the truth about Black men having sex with other men.




Thanks for such an informative review.