Lunatic Canadian-Born Democrat Dies Hating Bush

Written by RJ Elliott
Published July 31, 2004

From here:

MIAMI BEACH, Fla. — A South Florida woman who died this week had an unusual last request. Instead of flower or contributions in her name to a charity, she asked those who loved her to try to make sure President George W. Bush is not re-elected.

Loved ones said that Joan Abbey was committed to her political passions, even in death.

Abbey was born in Montreal, but lived for many years in Miami Beach and Aventura. Family and friends came from as far away as Canada and California to remember Abbey at the Mount Nebo Jewish Cemetery in Miami.

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Abbey was buried the day after the Democratic convention ended. Her unusual death notice in the Miami Herald said: "You can honor Joan's values by voting against George Bush and contributing to a liberal or Democratic cause."

Abbey's nephew, Martin Shapiro, said, "What she cared most about was improving circumstances in this country... getting rid of George Bush and making this a better country for all people."

Coincidentally, the presiding rabbi, Brett Goldstein, is a registered Democrat but is voting for Bush, and he questioned the timing of Abbey's message at such a sensitive time.

"My contention is that if there's any situation that's sacrosanct, it should be devoid of political ramifications," Goldstein said. "Although people have the opportunity and they can do it if they want to, it is not really appropriate at this time."

Shapiro said, "It was her (Abbey's) essence. It was her core value to try to see this country become a better place and become a more just society. And I think that was the last word she'd want to leave."

Most people, as they lay dying, have kind thoughts and words for their family and friends. Some, however, die hating those politicians they disagree with.

How sad. How very sad.

Instead of offering an uplifting message to her kin, this woman offered hate for another human being.

Instead of requesting that her life and death have a deeper meaning for those who loved her, she demanded a partisan and divisive response.

The Dems turned the funeral of the great Paul Wellstone into a campaign drive, disgusting as it was. Apparently this woman hoped for the same treatment.

You won't get it, lady. People die all the time. Your last wishes merely show what a shallow life you led. Hardly the sort of stuff that will change anyone's vote...

RJ Elliott is a graduate student studying Criminal Justice at the University Of Central Florida. His likes include nature, sports, and pierced blondes. He dislikes daytime television, left-wing dictators, and lead-tainted Chinese imports. He is ambivalent about Angelina Jolie.
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#1 — July 31, 2004 @ 02:30AM — drew [URL]

Sort of harsh to be bashing on the dead, no?

No matter which side of the fence you're on, I think dedicating your life to what you perceive as improving the country is an honorable and noble thing. As long as a person does it in a non-violent manner, of course.

#2 — July 31, 2004 @ 05:15AM — Shark

"...Sort of harsh to be bashing on the dead, no?"

You should see him kick the poor!

#3 — July 31, 2004 @ 13:19PM — Distorted Angel

Joan Abbey sounds like a pretty neat woman, and the rabbi sounds like an insensitive clod for a clergyman (but then what would you expect from a registered Democrat who's voting for Bush?). An individual's passing ought to be marked however the individual and his or her family feels is appropriate. If Ms. Abbey's last wish was for a call to political action, I think that's swell. She sounds like she had a passion for life.

#4 — July 31, 2004 @ 14:35PM — David Flanagan [URL]

Sounds like Ms. Abbey needs to get a life. Oops! Too late!

David

#5 — July 31, 2004 @ 14:39PM — Shark

"If Ms. Abbey's last wish was for a call to political action, I think that's swell..."

I believe it's called "Necrointegrity" -- and I would welcome much more of it, especially from those on the Far Right.



(heh)

#6 — July 31, 2004 @ 15:02PM — David Flanagan [URL]

I believe it's called "Necrointegrity"...

Actually, it's called "obsession," which, based on the number of political posts I've put up on my site as well as on Blogcritics, I've got enough of already.

Thanks,

David

#7 — July 31, 2004 @ 16:25PM — bhw [URL]

This post, from R "stop pissing in Reagan's grave" J?

What happened to "respect for the dead," RJ?

See how the tables are turned when it's someone you disagree with?

P.S. Wanting Bush out of office is NOT the same thing as hating him.

#8 — July 31, 2004 @ 16:49PM — HW Saxton Jr.

RJ & Flannelman just crossed that fine
line [edited] Cheap shot but not unexpected
from these purveyors of inanity.


#9 — July 31, 2004 @ 18:19PM — Evilwhiteguy [URL]

Unfortunately, RJ was feeling a little under the weather this week, so I assumed all the poor-kicking duties.

#10 — July 31, 2004 @ 21:30PM — jack e. jett [URL]

now i know that rj sits with jesus and all....but how does he know that this lady led a "shallow" life?

if i give you (rj) a list of names can you give me a description of the type of life they are living? that is soooo
dr. phil of you....or is it dr. laura?

jack e. jett

#11 — July 31, 2004 @ 22:23PM — David Flanagan [URL]

Loved ones said that Joan Abbey was committed to her political passions, even in death.

Even for me, there IS life outside of politics. She was obsessed and wanting as a last desire to see someone voted out of office just seems very sad to me. I feel even worse for this woman's family.

There is life outside of politics, unfortunately, Joan Abbey never discovered that basic truth. Lets all learn the moral of this story, politics just isn't worth it.

David

#12 — July 31, 2004 @ 22:52PM — boomcrashbaby

I wonder what job she had. Perhaps she was involved in politics as a campaign manager, speech writer, or worked in voter registration, etc. I can picture a lot of people who 'become their careers' (like Martha Stewart or Bill Gates, etc.) might think of their 'job' right before they go. I mention those two, not because they are/were successful but because they are well known. I imagine there are a lot of people like that who aren't so well known though.

I wouldn't think that means they have absolutely no life outside of their 'love'. Both Martha and Bill both have families or kids.

Granted, I think my last words would be directly to my family/kin, but the fact that hers wasn't, tells us nothing of the woman.

Let's all learn the moral of this story, perhaps we shouldn't pass pitying, moralistic judgement on others of whom we know no more than a few sentences about.

Instead of offering an uplifting message to her kin, this woman offered hate for another human being.

I read through the post twice. I could see nowhere that one might gain that hate was her motivation. In fact, it said that politics was her core value, that what she wanted more than anything was to make this world a better place in her eyes. Leave it to the conservative spin machine to twist that around to hate.

#13 — July 31, 2004 @ 22:52PM — bhw [URL]

All I can say is that it's better to have a passion than to not have one.

BTW, is someone who asks for donations to, say, the American Cancer Society at their funeral "obsessed" with cancer?

#14 — July 31, 2004 @ 22:55PM — boomcrashbaby

Granted, I think my last words...should read... Granted, I think my last wishes

#15 — July 31, 2004 @ 23:06PM — bhw [URL]

Boom, you hit the nail on the head.

The article RJ quoted says the Miami Herald ran her death notice and that it included this:

"You can honor Joan's values by voting against George Bush and contributing to a liberal or Democratic cause."

Many, many death notices these days include a note to make a donation to one organization or another rather than send flowers.

This note was not, as RJ characterized it, hatred for another human being. It merely stated her wishes for how people commemorate her life.

Here are two quotes from the article that RJ conveniently left out:

Her sister, Tillie Shapiro, said, "She was just a caring person ... She cared about people, and people who were disadvantaged."

Shapiro said, "It was her (Abbey's) essence. It was her core value to try to see this country become a better place and become a more just society. And I think that was the last word she'd want to leave."

Yes, I can see how from this simple article RJ can conclude, demonstrably, that the old gal led a shallow life.

There's definitely some hatred going around, but it doesn't seem to be coming from the deceased.

#16 — July 31, 2004 @ 23:12PM — bhw [URL]

#17 — July 31, 2004 @ 23:13PM — bhw [URL]

Ooooookay, that last one didn't work.

Let's try again.

Here is the actual death notice in the Miami Herald.

#18 — August 1, 2004 @ 12:39PM — Distorted Angel

So RJ, are your comments about Max Cleland the kind of non-hate you think people should be spewing, or does your rule only apply to the dead or dying?

#19 — August 1, 2004 @ 13:13PM — boomcrashbaby

does your rule only apply to the dead or dying?

Only applies to the Left.

#20 — August 1, 2004 @ 16:18PM — Jim Carruthers [URL]

If you need to spin a funeral notice as the weirdest political thing out of Florida, obviously, you aren't even trying.

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