Trading Words for Rights
Published February 24, 2004
President George Bush has now officially stated that he supports a constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage. I think this is completely misdirected energy on the part of the president. I don't think pushing a constitutional amendment defining a word over what I presume to be religious reasons is a proper use of the time that your creator gave you. As this has developed over the last few weeks, I wonder if this country has ever gotten into such a big argument over semantics before.
The President said,
- "The amendment should fully protect marriage while leaving state legislatures free to make their own choices in defining legal arrangements other than marriage."
Ok, so the Christian in him wants to make sure that his Church-sanctioned union is the only thing defined as "marriage." He wants marriage to be defined as the union of a man and a woman, but he doesn't want to rule over the "arrangements other than marriage?" Interesting.
I have a plan that I would like to propose other than a constitutional amendment. I am not saying it is the only plan, but I think it will work. I just think that it is better than wasting everyone's time on this issue with ratification of the most storied legal document in the history of Gahd's Green Earth.
- 1. Schedule a nice long pow-wow with the folks at Franklin, Oxford, and Merriam-Webster's. You know; The dictionary people? We will simply have them define marriage more specifically and give it usage preference in the religious context so that every hetero couple on earth who was married in a church can have the "sanctity" of their statistically-doomed union. Ok?
- 2. Then we tell the same dictionary folks that we need a new word that will describe all the two-person, state-sponsored, rights-having unions that will be recognized in this country for any two adults who decide they want to make their relationship official, while retaining rights to a standard set of rules governing important things like taxes, inheritance and hospital visitation. There are already words available, but I think an all-new word will be a better option so there is no usage history for anyone to recall at a later date.
- Trading Words for Rights
- Published: February 24, 2004
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- Writer: Craig Lyndall
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Bush is talking out of his hat. The FMA, as presently worded, would also ban civil unions and "other legal arrangments" for same-sex couples.
Here is your proof: America and the concept of legal equality for all are mutually exclusive.
The activists brought the heat on themselves. When you have activist judges making up law and a mayor of a left-wing town ignoring laws, you have to expect something will happen.
You have to define marriage somewhere. The same arguments that gay-rights activists are using to try to get them rights are the same activists that polygamists have used.
I guess there is a fine line between activism and justifiable civil disobedience.
You have to define marriage somewhere? OK. But to discriminate against a segment of the population to prop up the religious beliefs of another segment? Bottom line: GLBT people ought to leave this vile country sooner rather than later. Obviously, except for our tax dollars and fashion tips, we are not wanted here. Let's start a Lavender Freedom Train to Canada!
"activist judges"...yet another chunk of coal fallen from the talk radio bag 'o cliches.
There's nothing wrong with activist judges. That's the thing that people forget. How else do issues get escalated through the system?
Issues get escalated through the system when there is sufficient public pressure. Otherwise, the system was wisely designed exactly NOT to speed things through.
Activist judges are the bane of society. They are the least democratic and answerable part of the system.
conservatives seemed to have no problem with judicial activism when bush was 'elected'.
ah, but that was probably 'jurisprudence'.
or something.
Mark, I believe it was most assuredly "something."
Please... let's keep this on target. This isn't about right vs. left. This is a specific issue in which not all people on the right agree with the president to be sure.
There's a biological term for marriage: pair bonding. I think "bonding" would be a reasonable term. You could even be more accepting than the religious right and recognize the religious ritual as establishing a bond. If polygamy really bothers you (why it would is beyond me) then usethe whole biological term.
That's very sharp P6 - we need a neutral term.
I am still trying to figure out what the big problem is with this beyond the religious prohibitions that aren't supposed to figure in our civil system anyway: separation of church and state remember? It's what we are demanding of the Islams, and rightly so, but this just doesn't make sense for a secular society. I guess it really is crap political grandstanding - no compassionate conservatism here.
Eric, this is why whenever Bush uses the word "sanctity" I just cringe.
it does make you wonder...would there be any different reactions to this if the president was saying that we need to protect the holiness of marriage?
What do you mean Mark? They are saying the same thing. Do you just mean that less people know what "sanctity" means?
yes, exactly.
you and others have said it before as well: the government doesn't have any business protecting the holiness of anything.
Mark, I wonder if Bush's back-room folk had anything to do with him using the word sanctity instead of something more obvious to a TON of people.
I think we should preserve the theopathy of marriage.
"Nobody is talking about allowing this kind of thing. So don't bring it up."
I'm curious, what's so inherently bad about polygamy?
It is inherently exploitative, bad for children, bad for society, and, ... oh yeah... EVIL
Sorry for not being precise, what about polygamy is inherently exploitative? Have you studied Tibetan societies that practice polyandry? What evidence do you have to suggest that it's inherently bad for children, society, pets, etc?
Who decided that polygamy is evil? Your morals? Some religion?
I'm not by any means a polygamist (I can bearly take care of the one gf i have), but I'm curious as to what facts everyone bases their hatred of polygamy on. I've yet to hear a sound argument that wasn't based on personal morals.
Gerrard, check out several of the comments on this post for some links and details supporting what I somewhat glibly stated here.
I'm about to head out, so I just quickly skimmed some of the contents on the other post, but I didn't see anything that includes a fact about why polyamory is inherently exploitative.
The only fact I saw (which I don't have time to research, so I'll take it at face value) described how it has been harmful to people in one town in Utah. Considering the fact that that comment described what sounds to my ears like borderline pedophilia, I'm not sure I buy the argument that the experience of some rogue Mormons is proof that polyandry in parts of Tibet is Evil.









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