How about those Browns!

y'all shoulda gone to da game last night...maybe Dawn coulda given birth in the dawg pound...right after that marriage ceremony.

or not.

Very descriptive writing, by the way. I even learned a few things.

In the immortal words of Jeff Spicoli:

"Oh, gnarly!"

And this is what she has to look forward to AFTER the equivalent of passing a watermellon, a camel though the eye of a needle - women are tough, man.

dawn:

first of all congratulations.

this is the most honest and detailed description of birth i have ever read.

OUCH!!!!! thanks for your openess..no pun intended....okay...intended.

i always thought there was more to it than the way it was portrayed on "touched by an angel".

i am loving my penis a bit more today.

jack e jett
the jack e. jett show

"God forbid if you have other children or people who depend on you..."

After my son was born, I tried to lessen the work load for my wife by, for example,

stacking dirty dishes in the sink, rather than leave them on tables

putting my dirty laundry in the hamper

getting takeout once a week to cut down on her cooking duties

driving her to the grocery store on shopping day (she loves pushing Skippy around in his stroller)

volunteering to change diapers, as long as I wasn't busy, and as long as it was not after midnight

cutting down on the number of times per week that the guys came over

helping her repaint the baby's room

not complaining if she forgot to pack fruit in my lunchbox

giving her $20 and saying, "Get yourself something nice."

I really showed her that I can be warm and sensitive when it counts, and I know that helped her recovery a lot. As soon as Skippy is old enough, I'm going to insist that he gets a paper route and buy his mother a Mother's Day gift. I can just add my name to the card, so that will let her know that I appreciate her, too.

I was squeamish about the whole birth thing before, having seen those horrible screaming-pregnant-women shows on TLC, Discovery, etc. This paints an even gorier picture. All I can think is, "please don't cut my wife there, please?!" She is equally squeamish about this whole thing, actually much moreso (it's her body, afterall.) This has us both contemplating ending the Johnson bloodline with me . . .

Maybe my husband is right... Maybe I have forgotten what it was like. Maybe... I don't really want to have another one.

Remember a few things: many women choose to have more than one child - there must be some reward for all of this ickyness. Dawn's first experience was particularly difficult because she had to take medication that literally put her body at war with itself. But it is difficult, painful, and exhausting at best.

This will be my fourth and it's never easy although the first is always the hardest (which I have witnessed/assisted twice).

Men, as far as blood and guts go: I am about as squeamish as it gets - I once literally fainted in a movie theater watching an open heart surgery scene - but when it's your wife, and your child, and they need your help, and you really CAN provide some help and comfort, then it's all just part of the routine and you don't even think about bodily fluids and organs flying through the air, and afterbirth, and weird white stuff all over the baby, and, and, and... because you care and you are there to help and it's all TOTALLY AMAZING.

So rock on and don't worry about it - you're always tougher than you think you are.

One other little story: because of all this crazy shit going on with her poor body when Lily was born, Dawn had to vomit several times during the process, and her mother was in the room and her mother throws up anytime anyone else throws up, so here I am in the middle of this birthing room with two women puking their guts out in rapid succession. I will be the only one there this time - no sympathy puking.

>>>>How about those Browns!
Pffffffffffffffft.
Classic. Made me laugh out loud.

I was just going to comment: oh.

.. to say the least -

Thanks for the additional puke details. Tastes great. Less filling.

Wheeeeeeeeeeeweeeeeee.

Thanks Temple, it's kind of like the Exorcist, but less Satanic.

I had no idea what I was walking into. Silly me, I thought I would get, "well, it's a bit uncomfortable, but the date will be here soon and it will be all over."

Next time I will talk sports and leisure. Hopefully there won't be any fluid talk involved in that. :-)

Tread lightly among those who are heavily burdened.

then it's all just part of the routine and you don't even think about bodily fluids and organs flying through the air, and afterbirth, and weird white stuff all over the baby

Yeah, I've seen all that on those shows and I'm just like "They're going to have to clean that thing off before I'm touching it." I'd be much better if we could just skip the "birth/drooling/spastic bodily function phase." I'm generally not a "typical guy" - don't care about sports, have feelings, can cry, cooks & cleans, asks for directions - but I'm going to have to pull my guy-card on the fluids issue. They're blechy.

because you care and you are there to help and it's all TOTALLY AMAZING.

I sure hope you're right, Eric . . . I have a feeling "You're going to have to clean that thing off" isn't going to go over too well.

They do it without you asking them to anyway, and new babies smell really great: like bread and cookies and cashmere all at the same time.

Hey, Newsflash dudes (where are the women in this post? WHAT, you didn't go through labor to have your child?)
I just lost my mucous plug. I would have taken a picture of it, but it was in the toilet and that seemed like the best place to leave it.

Any questions? I didn't think so.

Mucous Plug was really good in their early years with "Toilet Bowl Funeral" but later on they started sucking with titles like "Expelled and Flushed." Frankly, I never liked operatic hardcore anyway.

Didn't Mucous Plug tour with the Smug Pricks back in '77?

After reading this, maybe I'll opt for 1950s TV birthing--me in the waiting room, and then <-poof-> mommy and baby all snuggly and warm and ungooey, and then me handing out cigars.

In all seriousness, this post was actually kind of fascinating. Birthing is definitely a situation where the whole is greater than the sum of the parts...

My thoughts are with baby and mom and dad...

I have 3 kids. I'm assuming that Dawn had to take Pitosin (sp?) with her first child. I did with my first 2 kids. That is the worst stuff....usually you can prepare for a contraction because it builds up and then releases but not on pitosin. It is just there and then it is gone. Makes it really hard to deal with.

Hope you don't have to use that stuff this time.

Sounds like it will be soon... ;~)

Thanks for the kind thoughts, natural is certainly to be preferred and I hope we can go that way this time - so far so good in that no problems have arisen this time. Because of the baby's size, we do have a Monday dealine, though, and that will involve inducement. I'm really hoping for tomorrow or Friday.